I'm not sure if it's because I look much younger ,or my muscle body but in the last few weeks I have had people try to "join" me on everything I do 

I go on the treadmill at the gym ,there are 10 treadmills all vacant 

physically hit it hard ,on level 20 the highest level,sweating , 

Someone this time a farang guy chooses the treadmill next to me 

So here I am sweating ,hugging puffing ,my huge shoulder going into his space.

I'm thinking why...why did he choose the treadmill next to mine?

 

Maybe he likes me I'm thinking,so I turn towards him..my head dripping with sweat , and I smile ,he looks at me and with scowl on his face turns away .

I immediately stop the treadmill and say out aloud "leave me alone !

And ho to the very first treadmill and start again

 

The second time yesterday,I'm in Sizzlers Pattaya I'm talking to a farang friend,we are the ONLY ones in there .

Next thing a farang and his Thai girlfriend walk in and ...and sits in the table next to us...meaning his shoulder is on my left side barely touching 

Im wondering why?

Why choose that seat when he could have ANY other ?

My farang friend stopped  talking about his sexual escapades 

 

I immediately start ...."oh that ladyboy had 21 inches " I say out aloud looking at my friend who had stopped talking when they sat next to us 

Oh f....it I thought 

I shouldn't have to stop having a conversation because some ...basxtard wants to be needy and touch shoulders and sit NEXT to me 

 

100 other tables vacant 

I think this social media has made people needy 

 

Get a life !!! Stop being so needy you need to be near me !!!

Use your brains why do you want to sit next to someone in a restaurant or go on the treadmill next to mine 

 

Another I was in Tony's gym last week,two farang boys were in there ,everytime I'm using a machine they came over ..."you have many sets ?

 

This time I used the glute machine doing my butt cheeks, I watched them watching me out of the corner of my eye,  blonde boys early twenties 

I knew it he was back over ,"many sets to go ? He asked despite there being other "butt' machines there 

 

 

 

It's because you look like a 40 year old Brad Pitt and have that easy-going charm of a Bill Clinton or George Clooney. People just can't help themselves, everybody wants to be around you. 

this guy's threads are all about himself.

narcissist? lol. 

 

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

this guy's threads are all about himself.

narcissist? lol. 

 

Strange I had a work colleague ( Shane) tell me that recently and now I don't talk to him ,I blocked him out of my life and guess what...your joining Shane !!

13 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

It's because you look like a 40 year old Brad Pitt and have that easy-going charm of a Bill Clinton or George Clooney. People just can't help themselves, everybody wants to be around you. 

papa has the exact same problem.

too mutt hansum

19 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

last few weeks I have had people try to "join" me on everything I do

What clothes are you wearing, do you look gay?

Lots of gays coming to Thailand these days, most are looking for ladyboy's 

 

20 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

It's because you look like a 40 year old Brad Pitt and have that easy-going charm of a Bill Clinton or George Clooney. People just can't help themselves, everybody wants to be around you. 

I wonder why, although it could be because of his modesty. 

21 minutes ago, papa al said:

papa has the exact same problem.

too mutt hansum

I'm thinking because of my muscle grandDad body with my long grey beard ?

Just now, georgegeorgia said:

I'm thinking because of my muscle grandDad body with my long grey beard ?

Post a picture of that perfect body,nobody believes you!

You hansum man, buy me drink baby?

GG's body, clothes and attitude just shouts "I AM GAY!!!" 

 

I'm not gay and I never get approached by men.  Must be my scruffy attire and "I don't give a <deleted> about anything" attitude 🙂

I used to think it was a gay thing, but...

 

I now think it's that most people need to be around other people.

 

You get dudes who use the gym when they see you going in, guys who sit too near you on the pool loungers, guys who make too much eye contact at the pool when you both have your shirts off...you get the idea...

 

It's getting harder to avoid these people. I started going into the gym at particular times to avoid them, I also go to the pool later in the evening when nobody is around...

 

Your observations here are spot on.

 

 

They are NPCs.

 

The matrix always has them ready to go.

44 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

What clothes are you wearing, do you look gay? 

 

You haven't got one of these in your wardrobe, do you? 

 

25 minutes ago, jvs said:

Post a picture of that perfect body,nobody believes you!

 

4 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

 

That must be his picture when he was much younger,he has a long grey beard now.

8 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

 

 

How did you get hold of that picture of me! 😃

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

this guy's threads are all about himself.

narcissist? lol. 

 

No....insecure....yes 

Just now, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

How did you get hold of that picture of me! 😃

The thing about that photo is that it does not truly reflect the spectacular level of your intelligence, nor your wisdom, and poetic nature. 

58 minutes ago, Mark1969 said:

I used to think it was a gay thing, but...

 

I now think it's that most people need to be around other people.

 

You get dudes who use the gym when they see you going in, guys who sit too near you on the pool loungers, guys who make too much eye contact at the pool when you both have your shirts off...you get the idea...

 

It's getting harder to avoid these people. I started going into the gym at particular times to avoid them, I also go to the pool later in the evening when nobody is around...

 

Your observations here are spot on.

 

 

Well said mark 

 

I'm noticing this more & more even in the large swimming pool someone wants to be near you 

 

Even in the gym someone wants to stand near you 

 

Leave me alone !!!

Stop coming near me !

 

2 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Well said mark 

 

I'm noticing this more & more even in the large swimming pool someone wants to be near you 

 

Even in the gym someone wants to stand near you 

 

Leave me alone !!!

Stop coming near me !

 

 

 

You have my personal assurance that you will never see me anywhere near you

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

this guy's threads are all about himself.

narcissist? lol. 

 

Some people seem to find this attractive... Perhaps the OP is the ASEAN NOW Kardashian... 😆 

11 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

Well said mark 

 

I'm noticing this more & more even in the large swimming pool someone wants to be near you 

 

Even in the gym someone wants to stand near you 

 

Leave me alone !!!

Stop coming near me !

 

 

It's because you're too sexy for your shirt, Milan, New York, and Japan , Georgie Boy!

 

 

Looking in the mirror and being attracted to yourself is not generally considered to be "people"

I am not jealous !😀

you seem to please men,  I like only women

Maybe people think that you epitomise Donald Trump but please don't let that go to your head.

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

The thing about that photo is that it does not truly reflect the spectacular level of your intelligence, nor your wisdom, and poetic nature. 

 

I know, it is a pity it can't do that as well. ☺️ 

 

I could post a picture of my MSc in software engineering from Oxford University certificate,  that might address things. 🤣

2 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

What clothes are you wearing, do you look gay?

Lots of gays coming to Thailand these days, most are looking for ladyboy's 

 

 

His boyfriend does not think he is gay. 😃

More chronicles of another raving closet homo in denial. Next...

They like to join me too at tables and such. I could be standing in an abandoned parking lot with hundreds of open spots to park. A Thai will drive in and proceed to park in that one spot where I'm standing, forcing me to move. It generally takes him 6-8 attempts to pull his car in straight.