Why is it that the minute a woman starts feeling comfy with you she decides your free time is now her personal labor force? I swear it is baked into their reality the same way motorcycles come out of nowhere at you on the sidewalk or some rooster screams at sunrise like it is its last chance. Does not matter if she is a bar girl a college grad or some wealthy princess who has never boiled a noodle in her life. They all have that secret list tucked right behind the sweet smile and the hugs. Thai girls just present it with extra charm like their mamma whispered the skill into their ear the day they were born.

 

You start off thinking you are cool and easy going then one morning the list lands in your lap. Can you fix this. Can you carry that. Can you call this guy for me because he never understands me when I talk. Next thing you know you are standing on a chair in her condo while she points at things for you to fix like she is directing a circus. And she calls this love. Back home my ex did the same. My buddy in Miami now gets the same. My mate in LA too. Go ahead and tell me your girl never asks you for a single thing and lives only to make your life easier. You are living in a cartoon my friend. A bright smiling cartoon.

 

And the part that really gets you is you still do it. You pretend to complain but you climb the chair and you fix the light and you lift the box and you help her cousin move furniture just because that is what men end up doing on this planet. Every guy hits that moment where he thinks great this is it my life is now one long list of everyday chores handed out by someone I did not even know six months ago. Then she looks at you like you just saved the town and you know she is taking the absolute mickey.

 

Life never goes smooth and no relationship comes without the list. So you breathe, roll your shoulders and keep going. Someone has to keep the whole circus running and it might as well be your arse.

Absolutely beautiful post!!

 

And this folks is why I keep coming back to this forum 

Thankyou for your service Sir 

2 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Absolutely beautiful post!!

 

And this folks is why I keep coming back to this forum 

Thankyou for your service Sir 

I thought the headline would have grabbed your attention.

37 minutes ago, 123Stodg said:

Next thing you know you are standing on a chair in her condo while she points at things for you to fix like she is directing a circus. And she calls this love.

 

How do you define "love"?

 

Getting 2 bjs a day with minimal effort on your part? 

 

 

Sounds like another case of a Thai lady bullying their boyfriend/husband, grow some

35 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

How do you define "love"?

 

Getting 2 bjs a day with minimal effort on your part?

 

Are you offering? And can I answer your question after you give me the 2 bjs?

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sounds like another case of a Thai lady bullying their boyfriend/husband, grow some

Or I could evict her?

1 minute ago, 123Stodg said:

Or I could evict her?

Yes go for it, good luck, it's difficult to shake them

2 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

 

 

You start off thinking you are cool and easy going then one morning the list lands in your lap. Can you fix this. Can you carry that.

I like fixing sh** around the house. It is part of being a man also. A list would be nice. Rather than having to find out what needs fixing yourself

52 minutes ago, 123Stodg said:

Are you offering? And can I answer your question after you give me the 2 bjs?

You are presumably getting washed cloths and sloppy blowjobs. Obviously you are obligated to fix some sh** around the house in return 

2 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

Go ahead and tell me your girl never asks you for a single thing and lives only to make your life easier. You are living in a cartoon my friend.

 

Apparently I am ... 

 

 

Honey, make me a greenhouse, oh yea, don't forget a mushroom shaped toilet in the yard.   When you get time, check the sink, and that ceiling needs a touch up.

 

Y'all need to be 'Master of your Universe', not the servant ...

 

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sounds like another case of a Thai lady bullying their boyfriend/husband, grow some

That's a ridiculous suggestion, are you married to a Thai? If so you must realise the restrictions placed on us farangs by the Thai government. When we own property they virtually have us by the balls. If I were to bail out I would lose everything that's why I'm still living here.

"LOL", Yes life has many "Challenges!"

33 minutes ago, Mason45 said:

That's a ridiculous suggestion, are you married to a Thai? If so you must realise the restrictions placed on us farangs by the Thai government. When we own property they virtually have us by the balls. If I were to bail out I would lose everything that's why I'm still living here.

May I add, I don't know how many marriages you've had in your lifetime, in my case my current wife is my first ever marriage.

I always figured marriage/relationships were more of a 'partnership.'
Sure, she asks me to fix, carry, and do the things she can't do.

I ask her to do many tasks that I can't handle. 

She's better at doing some things, and I'm better at doing others.

We share the work. Partners. 'Team Us,' where each player has a specific role.

I can carry 50 kilo bag and put it where it needs to go. She can't. She doesn't even weigh 50 kilo! But she can convince a store clerk to stop looking at her phone and actually help us while still smiling. I just get frustrated trying.

Teamwork. 30 years of marriage says it works.

2 minutes ago, FolkGuitar said:

I can carry 50 kilo bag and put it where it needs to go.

50 kilo bags? Body parts? Does she help you bury them at least?

Only if you let them ,you have to make it very clear from the start who is going

to be the boss, who decides the way things are going to go,after all your the man,

and that is the way it's got to be.

 

regards worgeordie

1 hour ago, Mason45 said:

 If I were to bail out I would lose everything that's why I'm still living here.

That's one hell of a reason for ruining the rest of your life. You're unhappy with your current life situation, but you stay because you don't want to lose things? What's more valuable? 

 

29 minutes ago, worgeordie said:

Only if you let them ,you have to make it very clear from the start who is going

to be the boss, who decides the way things are going to go,after all your the man,

and that is the way it's got to be.

Is this 2025? Or 1925?  You're the man? If my wife heard a comment like that, she'd laugh herself silly!  I wonder, do you keep a list of what men are supposed to do and what women are supposed to do? God help us if you get asked to do the dishes!

Time to change your screen name to Archie Bunker.

 

 

1 hour ago, FolkGuitar said:

I always figured marriage/relationships were more of a 'partnership.'

I've always found relationships to be more of a master and servant arrangement.

And usually they are the master ..............

2 hours ago, Mason45 said:

That's a ridiculous suggestion, are you married to a Thai? If so you must realise the restrictions placed on us farangs by the Thai government. When we own property they virtually have us by the balls. If I were to bail out I would lose everything that's why I'm still living here.

SCB own most of her house (12 years paid, 14 years to go), if I were to bail, she'd be foreclosed on.

If it were any other way, I'd be renting.

5 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

You start off thinking you are cool and easy going then one morning the list lands in your lap. Can you fix this. Can you carry that. Can you call this guy for me because he never understands me when I talk. Next thing you know you are standing on a chair in her condo while she points at things for you to fix like she is directing a circus. And she calls this love. Back home my ex did the same. My buddy in Miami now gets the same. My mate in LA too. Go ahead and tell me your girl never asks you for a single thing and lives only to make your life easier. You are living in a cartoon my friend. A bright smiling cartoon.

I don't speak Thai, no point in asking me to do anything ....... I don't understand!

2 hours ago, Mason45 said:

That's a ridiculous suggestion, are you married to a Thai? If so you must realise the restrictions placed on us farangs by the Thai government. When we own property they virtually have us by the balls. If I were to bail out I would lose everything that's why I'm still living here.

That's why some of us are wise enough not to marry them

5 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

Absolutely beautiful post!!

 

And this folks is why I keep coming back to this forum 

Thankyou for your service Sir 

 

Are you responding to one of your alter identities again?

3 hours ago, KhunLA said:

 

Apparently I am ... 

 

 

Honey, make me a greenhouse, oh yea, don't forget a mushroom shaped toilet in the yard.   When you get time, check the sink, and that ceiling needs a touch up.

 

Y'all need to be 'Master of your Universe', not the servant ...

 

 

You are fortunate that your companion is small enough to fit under the sink and is handy.   I am at a loss why you have an outhouse in the backyard. Why not invest in a toilet in the house? It looks like a diseased penis used to warn of the perils of unprotected sexual activity.

I just had to bring dirty glasses to the sink as she was doing the dishes and forgot to bring the living room porcelain. I feel so used.

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

That's why some of us are wise enough not to marry them

You don't have to marry them for that. 

7 hours ago, emptypockets said:

I thought the headline would have grabbed your attention.

It certainly did ...it certainly did 

3 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Only if you let them ,you have to make it very clear from the start who is going

to be the boss, who decides the way things are going to go,after all your the man,

and that is the way it's got to be.

 

regards worgeordie

100%,,ive told her, i wear the trousers in this relationship,, ive got to iron them first like..

4 hours ago, FolkGuitar said:

That's one hell of a reason for ruining the rest of your life. You're unhappy with your current life situation, but you stay because you don't want to lose things? What's more valuable? 

 

Is this 2025? Or 1925?  You're the man? If my wife heard a comment like that, she'd laugh herself silly!  I wonder, do you keep a list of what men are supposed to do and what women are supposed to do? God help us if you get asked to do the dishes!

Time to change your screen name to Archie Bunker.

 

 

 

 

", she'd laugh herself silly!"

She's so lucky to have you , hope she's not laughing at you behind your back....

Telling her friends , "He's a keeper , does everything I tell him .

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

regards worgeordie

The headline got my attention but it turns out it was a masterful bait and switch.