13 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Yes and we are talking to a screen. The other guy maybe totally different to our image of them. Think of radio. You hear the voice then the face does not match.

Yep - yonks ago I ran a sex-chat sms-to-tv screen service in Europe, with the avatar of a sexy woman who replied in kind to all the filthy text messages that were sent. In reality, that 'sexy woman' was this overweight old man (me!) sitting in a Thai restaurant in Hemel Hempstead with his Thai GF.....

On 6/12/2026 at 5:32 AM, Hummin said:

You want it to be true, huh? 😁 Well, self-esteem and knowing where you come from must hurt.

What a great start to a fresh new morning. 🌄

Nothing beats engaging with the Mirror Club and a ☕

Still, the world news is a bit more serious. That is reality, while some here prefer to stay inside their own heads and misery, trying to escape their reality by putting others down. It has actually become a lifestyle

I come back after spending time with my girlfriend and I see things never change. I noticed, once again, how he turns things around and points them back at you.

Lifestyle for sure, with a very limited amount of ammunition from a limited mind. The same exact things, day after day, like it's coming from a bot or AI.

I was PM'D by two others also, telling me it's like I never left. Waffle, sensitive, freaking out, rage, rant, gone off the rails, rubbish,childish, limited vocabulary, birds of a feather, etc etc etc. Copying some of my own words, likely as he cannot think of any others to use, unless he goes, like his crony, to AI once again, who says I abuse members, when I never have.

Calling out trolls in their behavior isn't abusing but necessary, so they don't get away with their high school insults, and others are made aware of their behavior. No other member besides the trolls have I been harsh to.

It's funny actually, as all you need to do is let them talk, and they further bury themselves in the same droll rhetoric. Add those smiling emojis also as a veiled insult, and you have him, in all 15 of his personalities.

Full blooded NPD, with all the classic symptoms, deflections being a hardcore one with him. Show him what he is, and automatically it's you that's the guilty party. Actually said we have a limited vocabulary, when he can't think of anything new to say. Makes you wonder what his childhood was like.

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On 6/11/2026 at 11:43 AM, Rockyroad said:

Get off your ass and go look.

I don't need to. It was nonsense.

On 6/11/2026 at 12:05 PM, Rockyroad said:

I went there before. It was mostly a dump then. No desire to go back. Apart from gyms and restaurants I saw no appeal. Given the poor beach, trashy people and traffic it is not for me. My rankings are correct for me. Your rankings are correct for you. You have a very narrow mind.

You, of all people, calling other people trashy? Start by looking in the mirror. You're not qualified to judge others.

10 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I come back after spending time with my girlfriend and I see things never change. I noticed, once again, how he turns things around and points them back at you.

Lifestyle for sure, with a very limited amount of ammunition from a limited mind. The same exact things, day after day, like it's coming from a bot or AI.

I was PM'D by two others also, telling me it's like I never left. Waffle, sensitive, freaking out, rage, rant, gone off the rails, rubbish,childish, limited vocabulary, birds of a feather, etc etc etc. Copying some of my own words, likely as he cannot think of any others to use, unless he goes, like his crony, to AI once again, who says I abuse members, when I never have.

Calling out trolls in their behavior isn't abusing but necessary, so they don't get away with their high school insults, and others are made aware of their behavior. No other member besides the trolls have I been harsh to.

It's funny actually, as all you need to do is let them talk, and they further bury themselves in the same droll rhetoric. Add those smiling emojis also as a veiled insult, and you have him, in all 15 of his personalities.

Full blooded NPD, with all the classic symptoms, deflections being a hardcore one with him. Show him what he is, and automatically it's you that's the guilty party. Actually said we have a limited vocabulary, when he can't think of anything new to say. Makes you wonder what his childhood was like.

You have never met him.

3 hours ago, JensenZ said:

You, of all people, calling other people trashy? Start by looking in the mirror. You're not qualified to judge others.

Start by waking up. Pattaya is full of sleaze. If you can't accept reality then you are in denial. People don't go there for the temples. Stop lying to yourself.

On 6/13/2026 at 10:30 AM, Hummin said:

Look at yourself. Why in heaven’s name do I owe you an explanation after all the abuse you serve me? Just look at what you produce.

I owe you nothing, mostly because you take everything that is explained, twist it, and use it to lie. Dishonest is just the first letter.

Just look at all the assumptions, deflections and insults in a few replies, and he says you're on repeat, when it's the same things every day. Called out, then into deflection mode. Then onto assuming how you live, that you take pills and potions. Later come the insults, calling someone he's never met a little girl, weak and a puffed up chicken. Cowardly and petulant, but consistent. He wonders how you were as a child, yet he acts like the toddler left behind in a ruined childhood. Let's see what he come can up with next, although we know it'll be much the same on repeat.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Just look at all the assumptions, deflections and insults in a few replies, and he says you're on repeat, when it's the same things every day. Called out, then into deflection mode. Then onto assuming how you live, that you take pills and potions. Later come the insults, calling someone he's never met a little girl, weak and a puffed up chicken. Cowardly and petulant, but consistent. He wonders how you were as a child, yet he acts like the toddler left behind in a ruined childhood. Let's see what he come can up with next, although we know it'll be much the same on repeat.

Carl Jung observed that the things we cannot stand in other people — the small irritations that seem disproportionate, the people we find ourselves unable to forgive — are almost always reflections of the parts of ourselves we have not yet acknowledged, in a quiet psychological pattern he called the shadow,

Look at how he sticks up for the very person who cuts him down daily.Trauma bonding it's called.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Look at how he sticks up for the very person who cuts him down daily.Trauma bonding it's called.

I don't see him as better or worse than you. You both rant on and on about nothing except yourself mostly.

You have serious flaws as a human and that is reflected in your rants.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Look at how he sticks up for the very person who cuts him down daily.Trauma bonding it's called.

You should read Jung. He will make you confront your demons. You must have a lot to rant on so much about Isme who you have never met. He is a mirror of yourself.

3 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

You should read Jung. He will make you confront your demons. You must have a lot to rant on so much about Isme who you have never met. He is a mirror of yourself.

I have no demons. I don't rant but call out the demons.

He's much the opposite of me, being of NPD persona.

You are not one to judge anyone, being the top, or second, depending on the day, worst troll we have here. Look at what all people say to you and your score, then look at how they are reacting to his latest incarnation, with open eyes, although you might not be capable, and you'll see the differences.

Deflecting and assuming about me is one of your failures, as you need to look at yourself first, and see why you act this way. I already know why he does.

By the way, I've read more books and listened to more podcasts than you'll ever imagine, on why people act the way they do. Over 30 years lets you know from where they start. You might think before you take the side of a person who looks down on you as if you don't exist.

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2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I have no demons. I don't rant but call out the demons.

He's much the opposite of me, being of NPD persona.

You are not one to judge anyone, being the top, or second, depending on the day, worst troll we have here. Look at what all people say to you and your score, then look at how they are reacting to his latest incarnation, with open eyes, although you might not be capable, and you'll see the differences.

Deflecting and assuming about me is one of your failures, as you need to look at yourself first, and see why you act this way. I already know why he does.

By the way, I've read more books and listened to more podcasts than you'll ever imagine, on why people act the way they do. Over 30 years lets you know from where they start. You might think before you take the side of a person who looks down on you as if you don't exist.

There you go again. You're a saint and anyone who disagrees with your crap is the devil. You will never wake up.

27 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Just look at all the assumptions, deflections and insults in a few replies, and he says you're on repeat, when it's the same things every day. Called out, then into deflection mode. Then onto assuming how you live, that you take pills and potions. Later come the insults, calling someone he's never met a little girl, weak and a puffed up chicken. Cowardly and petulant, but consistent. He wonders how you were as a child, yet he acts like the toddler left behind in a ruined childhood. Let's see what he come can up with next, although we know it'll be much the same on repeat.

True Comedy, Fred, and we live another day to see it

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Look at what all people say to you and your score, th

Yes Marin and other 80yos who can't handle the truth. Celsius said Marin perved on his profile daily for 20 years.

These are the weirdos you claim as credible.

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

There you go again. You're a saint and anyone who disagrees with your crap is the devil. You will never wake up.

I'll answer you again, seeing you are still assuming now and about earlier times. I have NO problems with anyone besides three here. You, him and another who acts much the same, and disagreeing with me isn't the problem but how it's done. Think again, as your replies to me are always the same. I don't talk anything besides facts and personal experiences.That you and him see things differently, from not only me but most everyone else, is on you.

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2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

True Comedy, Fred, and we live another day to see it

So you admit to enjoying it? You and Isme fighting?

3 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Yes Marin and other 80yos who can't handle the truth. Celsius said Marin perved on his profile daily for 20 years.

These are the weirdos you claim as credible.

Do you actually think Marin and other 80 year olds (whatever that means, as wisdom comes from age), are the ones who give you all the negative emojis and replies? It's everyone. I don't anymore, preferring to just tell things as they are, besides the thumbs ups and laugh ones.

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

He's much the opposite of me, being of NPD persona.

He is self centred just like you. Britman and others have called you out too.

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

He is self centred just like you. Britman and others have called you out too.

The only ones who have called me out, a couple, have serious issues and are misogynists and cheaters. My lifestyle, as most everyone here knows, is as far from being self centered as possible. That you either aren't capable of understanding that or are just trolling is plain to see.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Do you actually think Marin and other 80 year olds (whatever that means, as wisdom comes from age), are the ones who give you all the negative emojis and replies? It's everyone. I don't anymore, preferring to just tell things as they are, besides the thumbs ups and laugh ones.

I can see their names. All left wing people. It is not everyone. It is mostly 5 guys daily or it was before the names were shown. They are all old lefties mostly based in Pattaya.

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

whatever that means, as wisdom comes from age

False, wisdom comes from knowledge. Thinking slows down as you age. After 77 humans go into decline.

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

I can see their names. All left wing people. It is not everyone. It is mostly 5 guys daily or it was before the names were shown. They are all old lefties mostly based in Pattaya.

When you get 20 thumbs downs in one topic, it isn't 5 people, and labeling people as leftists is weak, as you don't know anyone's political leanings unless they speak of them, and that still has nothing to do with how they are, unless they are extreme to one side. Where they live also means nothing, as you don't have a home so cannot comment on another's lifestyle based on their homes. People live where they're comfortable or where their wives are from, as in this country.

4 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

There you go again. You're a saint and anyone who disagrees with your crap is the devil. You will never wake up.

We cannot brag, any of us, about what we have contributed to this thread, can we? Even when we think we are right, we still contribute to the carnage.

Trying to pretend one is better than the other after seeing how bad it has become is pure deflection. When someone keeps accusing you of something that was not your intention, and you keep trying to explain with common sense, you are already caught in the net of the troll, or trolls. And you even help them.

The question is whether you are willing to admit that or not. More importantly for yourself than for us.

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

We cannot brag, any of us, about what we have contributed to this thread, can we? Even when we think we are right, we still contribute to the carnage.

Trying to pretend one is better than the other after seeing how bad it has become is pure deflection. When someone keeps accusing you of something that was not your intention, and you keep trying to explain with common sense, you are already caught in the net of the troll, or trolls. And you even help them.

The question is whether you are willing to admit that or not. More importantly for yourself than for us.

Mostly just banter on here. People letting off steam.

13 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Yes Marin and other 80yos who can't handle the truth. Celsius said Marin perved on his profile daily for 20 years.

These are the weirdos you claim as credible.

A little more positivity to start the morning would help a lot. Let people be people. We are all strangers here.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

When you get 20 thumbs downs in one topic, it isn't 5 people, and labeling people as leftists is weak, as you don't know anyone's political leanings unless they speak of them, and that still has nothing to do with how they are, unless they are extreme to one side. Where they live also means nothing, as you don't have a home so cannot comment on another's lifestyle based on their homes. People live where they're comfortable or where their wives are from, as in this country.

Safety first got 50 thumbs down on one post. Online forums are packed with negative people. Mostly poor pensioners with no hobbies on here.

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

False, wisdom comes from knowledge. Thinking slows down as you age. After 77 humans go into decline.

Still reading other's opinions. If you read constantly, you keep increasing knowledge until you die. Wisdom comes from learning from mistakes, and looking back on your experiences in life and using them to grow. Aging has you learning things slower, but you still can learn, and retain things the older you get.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

A little more positivity to start the morning would help a lot. Let people be people. We are all strangers here.

Positive topics get hijacked all the time.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Still reading other's opinions. If you read constantly, you keep increasing knowledge until you die. Wisdom comes from learning from mistakes, and looking back on your experiences in life and using them to grow. Aging has you learning things slower, but you still can learn, and retain things the older you get.

Only if you read sensible content. Lots of misinformation.