Went to shake stand, women smiles at me a lot. Next day I return her friend asks if I have a gf. She says I have one. Both looked disappointed.

The second one says she has a 1000cc bike. She would be fun.

7 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Went to shake stand, women smiles at me a lot. Next day I return her friend asks if I have a gf. She says I have one. Both looked disappointed.

The second one says she has a 1000cc bike. She would be fun.

Why did you go back the next day?

8 minutes ago, novacova said:

Why did you go back the next day?

To buy another shake.

This never happens in Bangkok but in smaller cities all the time. They rarely see farangs but want a bf. Gold mine really if single.

Bangkok people are too busy normally or maybe don't like farangs as much.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

To buy another shake.

Perhaps you were caught off guard and too shaken to reciprocate the hit-on and came back the next day hoping to see smiley face again to see if you could conjure up enough courage.

20 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Went to shake stand, women smiles at me a lot. Next day I return her friend asks if I have a gf. She says I have one. Both looked disappointed.

The second one says she has a 1000cc bike. She would be fun.

Now was she smiling at you or laughing at you , there is a difference.

regards worgeordie

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

Perhaps you were caught off guard and too shaken to reciprocate the hit-on and came back the next day hoping to see smiley face again to see if you could conjure up enough courage.

Shakes are 35 to 45 baht. Good value plus I liked her face lol

Both had pretty faces but a bit chubby. Both super nice country girls.

1 minute ago, worgeordie said:

Now was she smiling at you or laughing at you , there is a difference.

regards worgeordie

I speak Thai and I'm half your age. They would laugh at you no doubt.

6 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

I speak Thai and I'm half your age. They would laugh at you no doubt.

I get Aunties hitting on me all the time , it's the yung hussies I'm after tho ...

Edited July 23Jul 23 by PhilipHabib

Why don't farangs tour the countryside picking up these women? Too lazy?

1 minute ago, PhilipHabib said:

I get Aunties hitting also all the time , it's the yung hussies I'm after tho ...

These two were 30s. The bike one would be fun. Chicks that ride bikes can root well.

38 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Went to shake stand, women smiles at me a lot. Next day I return her friend asks if I have a gf. She says I have one. Both looked disappointed.

The second one says she has a 1000cc bike. She would be fun.

A woman with a large motorcycle is a woman that I would not want to meet.

16 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Shakes are 35 to 45 baht. Good value plus I liked her face lol

Both had pretty faces but a bit chubby. Both super nice country girls.

Probably they spend most of their time planting rice.

So, how could they be chubby?

How do you know they weren't married?

Most are.

Just now, GammaGlobulin said:

Probably they spend most of their time planting rice.

So, how could they be chubby?

How do you know they weren't married?

Most are.

No rings on fingers and can tell by the way they talked to me. They sell food for a living. Where did you get the rice idea from?

Thai women that are married don't flirt with farangs. They shy away. These two were both flirting with me.

Did you let @bob smith know? Happened to him a lot (in all of his incarnations).

1 hour ago, tjintx said:

Did you let @bob smith know? Happened to him a lot (in all of his incarnations).

He married a Trans

Two skint fatties behind the counter of an underpaid job without a future, watching every farang walk past with a wallet thrice as fat as their monthly wage, and you decided you were the lucky one. They smile at every bloke who walks up, mate, that is called customer service in Thailand, not destiny.

Some wet behind the ears chap on his first trip to Thailand mistakes basic politeness for a cosmic sign, and out of the hundreds of tourists they serve every year, you convinced yourself you are the irresistible exception. Bold of you, in a shop seeing fifty farangs a day, to assume the universe singled you out.

Then the girl's mate starts asking about your girlfriend status like she is doing market research, because she is. Once they thought you had one, they looked disappointed, the way an appliance salesman at HomePro looks disappointed when you say you aren't buying a new refrigerator today.

The 1000cc bike story is the masterpiece. Completely normal for a girl working a tea counter to own a motorcycle worth at least roughly five or six years of her salary before spending a single baht on food, rent, or anything else. Either she is a secretly wealthy heiress moonlighting at a tea stand for shizz and giggles, or she clocked immediately that you are the type of tosser who hears “1000cc” and pictures a Ducati instead of picturing yourself as a meal ticket. My money is squarely on the latter.

Keep telling yourself they were overwhelmed by raw magnetic attraction. It is more comforting than admitting you were sized up, priced, and filed away as an easy mark before you finished your first cuppa. You built an entire romantic theory out of two women doing their jobs, and the delusional version flattering you most is the one you fully imagined. Funny how that works.

2 hours ago, Alpha84 said:

Some wet behind the ears chap on his first trip to Thailand mistakes basic politeness for a cosmic sign,

First trip? You serious?

The guy's been to Thailand 600 times.

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

First trip? You serious?

The guy's been to Thailand 600 times.

Or was that 600 cities?

7 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Why don't farangs tour the countryside picking up these women? Too lazy?

Because they fear leaving the ghetto.

Edited July 23Jul 23 by Enoon

8 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

This never happens in Bangkok but in smaller cities all the time. They rarely see farangs but want a bf. Gold mine really if single.

Bangkok people are too busy normally or maybe don't like farangs as much.

They are looking for someone who can pay them a wage

8 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

I speak Thai and I'm half your age. They would laugh at you no doubt.

I speak the language of love. No one can resist my magnetism and charm. I am irresistible.

Thai Language conversation: When Thai women used to ask me if i had a Thai wife or Thai GF I would answer: BOTH!

No brag, just fact, mamn.

sure but were they old & obese

7 hours ago, Alpha84 said:

Two skint fatties behind the counter of an underpaid job without a future, watching every farang walk past with a wallet thrice as fat as their monthly wage, and you decided you were the lucky one. They smile at every bloke who walks up, mate, that is called customer service in Thailand, not destiny.

Some wet behind the ears chap on his first trip to Thailand mistakes basic politeness for a cosmic sign, and out of the hundreds of tourists they serve every year, you convinced yourself you are the irresistible exception. Bold of you, in a shop seeing fifty farangs a day, to assume the universe singled you out.

Then the girl's mate starts asking about your girlfriend status like she is doing market research, because she is. Once they thought you had one, they looked disappointed, the way an appliance salesman at HomePro looks disappointed when you say you aren't buying a new refrigerator today.

The 1000cc bike story is the masterpiece. Completely normal for a girl working a tea counter to own a motorcycle worth at least roughly five or six years of her salary before spending a single baht on food, rent, or anything else. Either she is a secretly wealthy heiress moonlighting at a tea stand for shizz and giggles, or she clocked immediately that you are the type of tosser who hears “1000cc” and pictures a Ducati instead of picturing yourself as a meal ticket. My money is squarely on the latter.

Keep telling yourself they were overwhelmed by raw magnetic attraction. It is more comforting than admitting you were sized up, priced, and filed away as an easy mark before you finished your first cuppa. You built an entire romantic theory out of two women doing their jobs, and the delusional version flattering you most is the one you fully imagined. Funny how that works.

You sound jealous. Probably never happens to you being ugly on the inside and out.

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

They are looking for someone who can pay them a wage

All women are looking for a wage. But 30yos in the west don't want sex just the wage.

Women are all liars. Worse than men. White women the worst. Less sex but get more money cause the system allows it.

In Thailand you can kill two birds with the one stone. Travel and root women.

But betas can't even do that. Hiring bargirls and complaining about Trump cause they are miserable.

It's almost always banter done for self-amusement rather than anything which should be treated as "love at first sight" romantic interest. If OP is staying in girlfriend's village, the juice stand ladies probably already know the answer to whether or not you have a girlfriend or not and they're probably asking just to test your honesty. If you lie and tell them you don't have one, your philandering behavior will almost certainly sooner or later, directly or indirectly be reported back to your girlfriend. Also, not true that married women all wear wedding rings, and never flirt with other men. I've seem married Thai women jokingly say they're looking for a farang husband right in front of their Thai husbands. The question "Do you have a girlfriend?" the vast majority of time shouldn't even be treated as a romantic overture. Most of the time it should be viewed as a probe for information, small talk, or a test to see how you'll react or whether they can still manage to hook a naive foreigner's interest. Most of the time it's just banter to pass the time. And in a village, 99% of 18-35 y/o women are romantically involved already.

Edited July 24Jul 24 by Gecko123

1 minute ago, Gecko123 said:

It's almost always banter done for amusement rather than anything which should be treated as "love at first sight" romantic interest. If OP is staying in girlfriend's village, the juice stand ladies probably already know the answer to whether you have a girlfriend or not and they're probably asking just to see if you'll give an honest answer. If you lie and tell them you don't have one, your philandering nature will almost certainly be reported back to your girlfriend, directly or indirectly. Also not true that married women wear wedding rings, and never flirt with other men. I've seem married Thai women jokingly say they're looking for a farang husband right in front of their Thai husbands. The question "Do you have a girlfriend?" the vast majority of time shouldn't even be treated as a romantic overture. Most of the time it should be viewed as a probe for information, or a test to see how you'll react or whether they can still manage to hook a naive foreigner's interest. Most of the time it's just banter to pass the time. And in a village, 99% of 18-35 y/o women are romantically involved already.

They never asked me if I had a gf. Smiley 1 said to Smiley 2 in Thai that I did cause 2 asked 1 if I did. It was not in a village.

I speak Thai and read body language well. Being friendly and flirting are two different things.

Women give significant tells in the body language. Their is a female host of Who Wants to be a Millionaire that gives the answer away with her eyes. Surprised nobody has noticed but the show is pre recorded by months and getting on the show is hard.

The other factor is country women are more likely to date farangs. Bangkok Thais are less friendly and less open to it.

11 minutes ago, Gecko123 said:

And in a village, 99% of 18-35 y/o women are romantically involved already.

Where are you getting these stats from? Lots of Thais are single.

There are plenty of single women aged 27 to 35. Their first marriages or relationships often fail.

25% of country gals are single but 50% in Bangkok are yet they flirt more in the country. Bangkok does offer better jobs which may explain it.

29 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

All women are looking for a wage. But 30yos in the west don't want sex just the wage.

Women are all liars. Worse than men. White women the worst. Less sex but get more money cause the system allows it.

In Thailand you can kill two birds with the one stone. Travel and root women.

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But betas can't even do that. Hiring bargirls and complaining about Trump cause they are miserable.

Yeah, all women are garbage.

But the fly by night tourist who scams his way into their pants and does a runner is a role model.

And by the way, why not mention Trump haters in your philosophical masterpiece of a post.