just wondering...

there are so many beautiful girls in thailand

I just wonder how to meet them…

I just want to meet a natural and nice young girl/woman in Thailand/bangkok

Please, can somebody help me with advices?

/andreas

It depends what kind of girl you want to meet.  If you want to meet a girl just for some fun for a while go to a Go Go Bar and be done with it.  If you want to meet a nice woman for a possible relationship and you are a farang, it takes a lot of work, persistance and patience.  I know all about it too because I went through it with my wife. Good luck

Let me tell you what happened to me this year.

I met a nice girl who was working in the local Honda dealer.

She worked in the accounts dept, had a 7year old son and lived at home with her parents as the thai husband had left years ago.   After several chats I found out that she worked as a waitress in the evenings.  I didn't like the sound of that so I visited the restaurant twice a week at midnight ( it closed at 1am) to see what was going on.     The restaurant sold more beer than food but the girls never left with a customer.  I visited her there twice a week for four months and everything looked OK,  the only worry I had was that when she drove home on her motorcycle at 1am she turned the wrong way and didn't head towards her home.

Eventually suspicion got the better of me and I followed her one night,  straight to a brothel.

This girl worked 9-5 as an accountant at Honda, 8-1am as a waitress,  but still found time to earn a bit extra.

If you want to find a decent girl in LOS you must be VERY careful.

Personally I think life is too short to play detective for 4 months , each to his own  

Oh, the excitement of finding a woman in Thailand... particularly Bangkok...

Keep your eyes open really... someone will come eventually. Like the post above, it also depends on the kind of relationship you want, although I would personally avoid the bar girls. I've found that most of them are more interested in money than love or a relationship.

If you're looking for a good mannered girl, then there's plenty of those. You may find that they are less likely to get in bed though, if that's a priority. Myself, I find this kind of woman more desirable... and trustable.

In all cases, be careful. Some Thai women live for revenge...

Personally I think life is too short to play detective for 4 months , each to his own  

Better than spending the rest of your life in regret.

The best way to find a non bar Thai girl in a suitable environment (ie tipsy) is to go to a Thai music bar, such as, (in Bangkok) Lung Kee Mao (drunkard Uncle) on Suk about 80, or the rock or isaan music "pubs" in Paternakan. There are always groups of 2 to 6 absolute darlings, who do not have much contact with farangs, and are really pleased when one cracks up a conversation with them (although it helps if you can speak Thai or at least a few words)

Notwithstanding the girls, it's a bloody good and cheap night out.