Hey, Married-men, Do Your Wives Sometimes Turn To Be Your Mommy?

[MidoriApple]

Got reading some old topics recently and amused by some answers..

I found it was so lovely that most of the TV members who have got married, love and adore the wives and seems living happily.

I am not yet married, but do have BF.

One of my married GF, once told me to treat my man like he is my oldest son.

Sometimes have to pamper, but sometimes have to force him to do thing also.

She said at any age, men always have childish-liked.

Is that true to you, guys? Do you ever awared of and how do you feel when been forced to?

[canuckamuck]

I am extremely pleased that my wife and I treat eachother like adults.

If my wife did act like you suggest, we wouldn't have made it a week. But different things work for different couples. Some guys need a mommy. Being mothered drives me nuts

[LiveSteam]

Most guys like to think they are in control but in reality their not. The woman controls you all the time even though most men are sure they are the boss in the family.

The lucky ones are the guys that married a girl that really love him and not for any economic reasons. This way they share everything they like equally and there isn't a motive to deceive.

LiveSteam

[Shotime]

Got reading some old topics recently and amused by some answers..

I found it was so lovely that most of the TV members who have got married, love and adore the wives and seems living happily.

I am not yet married, but do have BF.

One of my married GF, once told me to treat my man like he is my oldest son.

Sometimes have to pamper, but sometimes have to force him to do thing also.

She said at any age, men always have childish-liked.

Is that true to you, guys? Do you ever awared of and how do you feel when been forced to?

Not Thai related, but so true. My GF saw a picture of my son and his new wife, and she said that's his 2nd Mom. Just by looking. You ladies already know this. Why you give away secrets like this? "Treat my man like he is my oldest son." The oldest son part is new to me, but perfect. Except for the ones who married a girl that really loves him, I agree. My Mom loved me, too

Edited June 12, 2008 by Shotime

[SaiTheSin]

This is why I will never get married. I can have a gf till I die. But I will always be free in some way.

[Shotime]

This is why I will never get married. I can have a gf till I die. But I will always be free in some way.

Good Luck

[cluezo]

It hasn't changed in centuries. Six months after your marriage, your wife disappears and returns as your mother.

[cluezo]

This is why I will never get married. I can have a gf till I die. But I will always be free in some way.

Right on, bro!

[a2396]

I for sure would not want a woman, GF or wife, who was going to act like my Mother. I heard enough nagging from a real Mother & certainly don't need a surrogate overseer in my adult life. Some positive charcteristics, which my Moter had, would be fine in a woman, but I don't want or need another Mother.

[Saiyan]

A wise woman lets a man think he is in control.

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

[MidoriApple]

I am extremely pleased that my wife and I treat eachother like adults.

If my wife did act like you suggest, we wouldn't have made it a week. But different things work for different couples. Some guys need a mommy. Being mothered drives me nuts

Yes, everyone loves being treated as equal,

I don't mean she will become or act like your real mother, but how she takes care of your living...

like...take care of your dietary, your clothes, stuffs, do the errand for you..etc.

Sometimes you are too lazy to do thing, like fixing things in house... she would beg and also force you to do so...

these are what I mean...

[MidoriApple]

Most guys like to think they are in control but in reality their not. The woman controls you all the time even though most men are sure they are the boss in the family.

Right..this is so true.....

Seen loads in history... Cleopatra and Ceasar, for instance.

[MidoriApple]

Not Thai related, but so true. My GF saw a picture of my son and his new wife, and she said that's his 2nd Mom. Just by looking. You ladies already know this. Why you give away secrets like this?

"Treat my man like he is my oldest son." The oldest son part is new to me, but perfect. Except for the ones who married a girl that really loves him, I agree. My Mom loved me, too

Right, the oldest son... because she (your wife) will love you and treat you like your mother.

Love without conditions, love you even you fart to her, even you are dirty... something like that.

You may get old, may get fatter....

She always adore you, no matter how....

[MidoriApple]

This is why I will never get married. I can have a gf till I die. But I will always be free in some way.

Actually, me too... My BF may become my father in some ways...

like controlling my expense, though I earn money myself....

still love to be single..eiei

[Travel2003]

Got reading some old topics recently and amused by some answers..

I found it was so lovely that most of the TV members who have got married, love and adore the wives and seems living happily.

I am not yet married, but do have BF.

One of my married GF, once told me to treat my man like he is my oldest son.

Sometimes have to pamper, but sometimes have to force him to do thing also.

She said at any age, men always have childish-liked.

Is that true to you, guys? Do you ever awared of and how do you feel when been forced to?

No, and I feel good.

[PhilHarries]

In answer to the question in the thread title : Only if my name is Oedipus.

And the rest is history.

[GracelessFawn]

Men used to confused me. Someone once told me to just think of men like 6-year old boys. It made my life easier.

[GracelessFawn]

A wise woman lets a man think he is in control.

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

Men likes to feel in control and loves to be appreciated. So 'prase his actions' if he does or gives you something.

About the control part, my strategy is to let the man win when it comes to the small things that doesn't matter. E.g. He wants to go to the movie. I might say no but, after 10 mins tell him, "You're right. That movie does sound interesting. Let's watch it." Little things like that........ I do tend to hold my ground when it comes to the things that matter but, coz I let him win a lot when it comes to small things, he doesn't feel that he's losing control when he doesn't get his way.

[GracelessFawn]

I am extremely pleased that my wife and I treat eachother like adults.

If my wife did act like you suggest, we wouldn't have made it a week. But different things work for different couples. Some guys need a mommy. Being mothered drives me nuts

Yes, everyone loves being treated as equal,

I don't mean she will become or act like your real mother, but how she takes care of your living...

like...take care of your dietary, your clothes, stuffs, do the errand for you..etc.

Sometimes you are too lazy to do thing, like fixing things in house... she would beg and also force you to do so...

these are what I mean...

A wise woman won't put her man in a tofu diet. Give him his greasy favourite. (Just cook it in olive oil and some aspirin). Never ever mess with the man's favourite greasy food if you don't.

[Naam]

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

never heard that nearly 8% of all men have a straight or latent Oedipus complex? and NO, you can't buy an Oedipus complex in a supermarket and you can't eat it!

[canuckamuck]

Now I see why I waited so long to get married. Too many women with this arrogant belief that they run the show and men are simpletons. (6 year old boys as one poster put it) We are not incompetant, the International Space Station runs fine when there are no lady astronauts about. Of course you'll never see a man with superior intellect or having more common sense than a woman, in any movie or TV show; that just isn't cool. Even the little girls are put up as being more clever then men. Reverse sexism is all that is.

I get along just fine with or without my wife in the house, even during long absences. Not much has changed here since she moved in, I still do what I like, and she does what she likes, sometimes we do stuff that we like to do together. She doesn't tell my what to eat, or what to wear. Yes she does take care of me if I am sick, that is a logical thing for a life partner to do.

I think that people are confusing mothering with manipulating. Females seem to take endless pride in their ability to acheive results through subterfuge and wiles. I prefer an honest relationship with up front discussions and agreements (or disagreements). I despise manipulation.

[bonobo]

Got reading some old topics recently and amused by some answers..

I found it was so lovely that most of the TV members who have got married, love and adore the wives and seems living happily.

I am not yet married, but do have BF.

One of my married GF, once told me to treat my man like he is my oldest son.

Sometimes have to pamper, but sometimes have to force him to do thing also.

She said at any age, men always have childish-liked.

Is that true to you, guys? Do you ever awared of and how do you feel when been forced to?

Not married now, and the nagging was one of the three main reasons I got divorced.

I do not want a mother (or boss) in that sense. I absolutely hate to be nagged, especially for minor things. (For example, being told to change my shirt while I sit on my sofa alone watching a Sunday afternoon football game because said shirt had a hole in it.)

However, despite my honest and heartfelt feelings of equality, I realy do appreciate it when a woman takes care of me. If she washes my clothes, cleans up after I cook, gives me shoulder rub, etc.--all these things make me feel loved and wanted.

[bratpack]

I havent read any of the posts yet,this is my personal view.Whoever your married gf is,thai or farang,she doesnt seem to have a clue about men.This is not meant as flaming in any way but i do find what she said insulting and mt view is do not listen to her.

From mummies boy heheheheheehe lol.

[bratpack]

I have read all the posts now and quite frankly i dont understand a word of some posters,but in all fairness the ladies dont seem to be farang.Am i right or wrong or is it me not understanding a farang lady,and thats nothing new lol lol.

[GracelessFawn]

Men used to confused me. Someone once told me to just think of men like 6-year old boys. It made my life easier.

This is what I meant..........

1 Men wants attention

2 They want to be acknowledged

3 You need to call them out if they do something wrong

4 And you spank them if they do something wrong

Now, what's wrong with that?

[GracelessFawn]

I havent read any of the posts yet,this is my personal view.Whoever your married gf is,thai or farang,she doesnt seem to have a clue about men.This is not meant as flaming in any way but i do find what she said insulting and mt view is do not listen to her.

From mummies boy heheheheheehe lol.

Maybe you should learn to mind your q's and p's first, before we start talking about bigger things.

I don't think I said anything insulting. Is it bad if I'm easy going and I don't worry about the smaller things? Is it bad that I take a stand when it comes to the things that matter?

Sometimes, we just have to learn to read between the lines.

Peace!

[villagefarang]

Best friend, lover, companion, confidant, partner and maybe a touch of Mommy when I'm feeling under the weather.

No confrontations or standing ground if you are both on the same page to begin with. Why do people assume relationships must be confrontational and someone needs bossing around or to be put in their place.

If it took that much work and stress we wouldn't be celebrating 9 years this month.

[DCasper]

All women will try to Mother (Control) in someway. No man can change this.

My Wife even before we married would change my clothes around, being a normal guy would grab the first set of clothes. She started to change the clothes are around. She was dressing me. . I think this is the first sight or is there one before?

[villagefarang]

All women will try to Mother (Control) in someway. No man can change this.

My Wife even before we married would change my clothes around, being a normal guy would grab the first set of clothes. She started to change the clothes are around. She was dressing me. . I think this is the first sight or is there one before?

Wait just one minute. What is manly or "normal guy" about being a slob with no style or dress sense?

[villagefarang]

Men used to confused me. Someone once told me to just think of men like 6-year old boys. It made my life easier.

I doubt it did much for them or your relationships, however.