What Problem You With You Thai Girlfriend

[Canada]

My thai gf or soon to be ex girlfriend shuts off her phone soon as she goes to see any of her family. I'm ok with family coming first because it is the thai way but sometimes its rediculous. Its like I don't exist and pretty soon I won't for her .

She took off to her sisters one time for a cremation and left me to sit 2 hours waiting for her on msn without so much as a phonecall paid for by my own money I've sent her.

Now she went home to see her pa and ma but she told me her phone doesn't work up north in mae hong song. This is complete bullshit because she told me before her family likes to use her cell phone when she goes home because its cheaper. I've also called and had the busy signal several times and one time her father answered and cursed me(I think) for interupting him lol. Really she can't take 15 minutes for me though every couple days? I'm paying for the phonecalls.

Its like a big contradiction though because shes done some very sweet things for me. I don't understand it.

ditto

[desertrat]

Are there enough terrabytes on this server ??

[fridgemagnet]

What problems ?

She can't kiss properly. She just stick a rigid tongue in my mouth and leaves it there. what can I do? nothing.

It freaked me out and now I avoid it.

yes, it's a bas&ard isn't it? Willing enough, but unwilling to be a bit more relaxed and explorative.

[bonobo]

just give then you hab no problem

are your friends getting bargurls for gfs , then you got problems.....lol?

tell them go for middle class -hiso chicks.

Yes, 4 sure!! Middle class high-so chicks are just falling all over themselves to have a relationship with a foreigner. No problem man. Send all the extras you got my way, OK?

isnt this place crawling with guys who married midlle to hi class women . al l they want is to be treated kindly and a "i love you honey in the morning"

Why is it that there is a pervailing belief that only poor Issan girls or bargirls who will date/marry a farang? Sure, if guys only hang around the bars, then that is the type of girl they will probably meet and with whom they will form a relationship.  But if they have other venues, then they will meet a different type of woman.

In the last 6 years, I have had at least some degree of a personal relationship with around 6 or 7 women (two somewhat serious, the rest rather casual).  Only one fit the "poor girl from Issan" mold, and none were bargirls.  Except for the one girl, all had university degrees and were either middle class or hi-so. WHile I wouldn't say that these women were "falling all over themselves to have a relationship with a foreigner," they were certainly open to dating a foreigner if there was some mutual attraction.

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner.  But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you."  Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

[Chaimai]

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner. But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you." Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

This is most frustrating at times - especially when you are trying to establish what your partner would actually LIKE to do. Making decisions (along with planning) is not their string suit but it would help if sometimes they would contribute to the decision making process. "up to you" and "I don't know" feature too often.

[bonobo]

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner. But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you." Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

This is most frustrating at times - especially when you are trying to establish what your partner would actually LIKE to do. Making decisions (along with planning) is not their string suit but it would help if sometimes they would contribute to the decision making process. "up to you" and "I don't know" feature too often.

Exactly!  Sometimes I just want to know what she wants. I want her to be happy, too.  I don't want her to resent sitting through a film, for example, which bores her to tears when there is another option which is suitable for both of us.

[benjamat]

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner. But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you." Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

This is most frustrating at times - especially when you are trying to establish what your partner would actually LIKE to do. Making decisions (along with planning) is not their string suit but it would help if sometimes they would contribute to the decision making process. "up to you" and "I don't know" feature too often.

Yeah, th eold up to you really gets me going after a while.

[mmushr00m]

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner. But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you." Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

This is most frustrating at times - especially when you are trying to establish what your partner would actually LIKE to do. Making decisions (along with planning) is not their string suit but it would help if sometimes they would contribute to the decision making process. "up to you" and "I don't know" feature too often.

You guys are lucky, DONT complain. My wife always knows what she wants even when she uses the "up to you". And when I decide, she will then tell me that I decided wrong and suggest that what I really want to do is this or that (which is basically what she wants.)

So now I use the "up to you" back to her. HAH!!! Take that!!!!!

[Aries74]

To the OP's original post, my bigest problem is having a Thai woman say what she wants. Somedays, quite frankly, I am too tired from work to make a decision, even a simple decision such as what to have for dinner. But if I ask my companion what she wants, I invaribly get "up to you." Or if I want her opinion on something, she will ask me what I think first, then base her response on what I stated.

This is most frustrating at times - especially when you are trying to establish what your partner would actually LIKE to do. Making decisions (along with planning) is not their string suit but it would help if sometimes they would contribute to the decision making process. "up to you" and "I don't know" feature too often.

You guys are lucky, DONT complain. My wife always knows what she wants even when she uses the "up to you". And when I decide, she will then tell me that I decided wrong and suggest that what I really want to do is this or that (which is basically what she wants.)

So now I use the "up to you" back to her. HAH!!! Take that!!!!!

Same here, I alway asked her what would you like to eat, she said "it's up to you" when I decided for her, she said no I don't want that, I thought you remembered. I said no I don't, they alway try to test you.

[Chaimai]

Same here, I alway asked her what would you like to eat, she said "it's up to you" when I decided for her, she said no I don't want that, I thought you remembered. I said no I don't, they alway try to test you.

I agree, "up to you" is a no win situation.

I occasionally reverse roles and if I am asked e.g. where do you want to eat ? I will say up to you

[Naam]

What Problem You With You Thai Girlfriend

me no problem with Thai girlfriend. me no problem with any girlfriend. wife says that me no can have any girlfriend.

[demerdin]

I heard somewhere no money no honey. Have money no problem

I was living in Chefchaoen, Morocco a few years back and was told that exact thing by one of my hosts. He owned a small stall and seemed to make pretty good money. Anyhow, when I asked him why he did not have a girlfriend, he told me, "No money, no honey. I got no money, I got no honey."

That's all.

/first post, not last post.

[demerdin]

My thai gf or soon to be ex girlfriend shuts off her phone soon as she goes to see any of her family. I'm ok with family coming first because it is the thai way but sometimes its rediculous. Its like I don't exist and pretty soon I won't for her .

She took off to her sisters one time for a cremation and left me to sit 2 hours waiting for her on msn without so much as a phonecall paid for by my own money I've sent her.

Now she went home to see her pa and ma but she told me her phone doesn't work up north in mae hong song. This is complete bullshit because she told me before her family likes to use her cell phone when she goes home because its cheaper. I've also called and had the busy signal several times and one time her father answered and cursed me(I think) for interupting him lol. Really she can't take 15 minutes for me though every couple days? I'm paying for the phonecalls.

Its like a big contradiction though because shes done some very sweet things for me. I don't understand it.

I was like that once. It's very important to be confident in yourself. Maybe call less often.

/Nevermind, don't listen to me. I shouldn't tell you how to live your life.

[Datsun240Z]

just give then you hab no problem

are your friends getting bargurls for gfs , then you got problems.....lol?

tell them go for middle class -hiso chicks.

Yes, 4 sure!! Middle class high-so chicks are just falling all over themselves to have a relationship with a foreigner. No problem man. Send all the extras you got my way, OK?

al l they want is to be treated kindly and a "i love you honey in the morning"

That's all we men ever ask, when will they get it?