dotcom Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Tell us more about the annuity, or do you just mean regular old life insurance? An annuity that pays out monthly, that she can't cash and blow on gambling and parents, would be fine. I would have to pull out the paperwork. But I know I paid 169,000 baht as the first years installment. Upon acceptance - they agreed to pay my nominated beneficiary 1,000,000 baht should I die. Lump sum - not payments. If she blows it? So what? I have done the right thing. You can call into any BB branch & check out the paperwork. I have a dangerous job on oil rigs so I feel it's prudent. Hopefully I'm playing poker with the devil. Keeping it a secret is not an option. Little wife would presumably have to show proof of my death. Possibly with the assistance of my consulate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabum Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 You do know about the other oil rig worker that was shot to death the instant he signed up for 1 million baht life insurance right for his wife right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a2396 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband So, anyone who doesn't speak Thai is an ignoramouse? Does that include the old folks in Issan who only speak Lao? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imaneggspurt Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 " My wife and my Mia Noi know, respect each other. No jealousy , truly.". But do they respect you ?,. This seems to me like a financial arrangement for both women as opposed to love with feeling,.there is greed and jealousy there for sure, its just not seen,..a proper wife that is in love with her husband ( in my opinion ) would not allow a "mia noi " .but as we all know thai women ( some ,before im jumped on ) will do nything for money, this includes faking feelings for a sugar daddy, dont kid yourself ! .and personally i wouldnt want a woman that allows herself to be abused like this, as thats what i think it is,.( both women in this case id say ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imaneggspurt Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 mia nois are people too! Why is it that so many farang can only see a slut in each and every Thai woman? Perhaps these guys themselves never come out of the social environment of bars. I wish a few more guys would speak up who are in a normal relationship ( of course with some natural different-society-conflicts ) My question was a pure factual one related to financial matters. I consider myself in a "normal " marriage,one wife one child, no mia noi, by no means am i an angel, however i dont have the conscience for a mia noi ,i love my wife too much, i know if i had one and she found out she would be hurt, and i have a 6 year old ,.i dont think anyone is saying all thai women are sluts but i for one cant hold these mia noi types in high esteem,they have no morals, and certainly no regard for wife number one, . but thats just my thoughts, . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malcolminthemiddle Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Assume you have been in a very good, trusting relationship with your Thai partner for a number of years.Assume you will not marry her, i.e no pension rights. No kids, no property so far. How to secure her financial future after you are dead?? Life insurance on yourself, if so Thai or foreign insurer? What else ?? What did you do?? You could start by buying her a condo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesunset75 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Gotcha !!! I want one too and he dont have to give me anything but himself ...drooling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beardog Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Life insurance is a bad idea.You might end your days the Pattaya way, accidentally fall of balcony. I think Bellini was saying put the policy on her. The upside is she would have to push herself over the balcony to collect.......ending the 12 story dive for the farang. Sounds like a good insurance policy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gravelrash Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Even if he is small if he makes up for it in enthusiasm then he deserves something as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midasthailand Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Hey honey, I think you mean a minor husband rather than a "small" husband. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midasthailand Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Gotcha !!! I want one too and he dont have to give me anything but himself ...drooling Talueng mark! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesunset75 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Gotcha !!! I want one too and he dont have to give me anything but himself ...drooling Talueng mark! A man can have Mai Noi why woman couldnt have Sami Noi Noi ? Yes im Talueng, sorry if I offending someone, didnt mean that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midasthailand Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Gotcha !!! I want one too and he dont have to give me anything but himself ...drooling Talueng mark! A man can have Mai Noi why woman couldnt have Sami Noi Noi ? Yes im Talueng, sorry if I offending someone, didnt mean that. Lor Len Na. I have no problem with equality of the sexes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesunset75 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh cool what about a Samee Noi as well please - for the ignoramouses who can't speak Thai that means small husband Gotcha !!! I want one too and he dont have to give me anything but himself ...drooling Talueng mark! A man can have Mai Noi why woman couldnt have Sami Noi Noi ? Yes im Talueng, sorry if I offending someone, didnt mean that. Lor Len Na. I have no problem with equality of the sexes. Duh ! yes that why I want more oops !!! Sorry all the OPs I posted...always off the topics. Plz forgive me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tartempion Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Having a mia noi is not just a Thai thing, mistress is the English word, isn't? Millions and millions of them, so what? French president Francois Mitterand had one and his "illegal" daughter Mazarine attended his funeral. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrong Turn Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Assume you have been in a very good, trusting relationship with your Thai partner for a number of years.Assume you will not marry her, i.e no pension rights. No kids, no property so far. How to secure her financial future after you are dead?? Life insurance on yourself, if so Thai or foreign insurer? What else ?? What did you do?? You could start by buying her a condo. I know someone who bought a condo in his name and then the condo is willed to her when he dies. Mia Nois probably understand than in most circumstances they are....mia nois. The little wife. A guy should be honest about financial matters in the beginning, regardless of whether he intends to leave her anything or not. Perhaps the Mia Noi should get married and be the primary wife with someone else or try to improve her job situation. That would be better and safer in the long-run perhaps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayjayjayjay Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Assume you have been in a very good, trusting relationship with your Thai partner for a number of years.Assume you will not marry her, i.e no pension rights. No kids, no property so far. How to secure her financial future after you are dead?? Life insurance on yourself, if so Thai or foreign insurer? What else ?? What did you do?? You could start by buying her a condo. The OP could buy her some land, this way we can speed the process up to find out how it comes out in the wash !!!!!! My guess is it will be ex-mia noi by Christmas and the OP is still alive! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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