Finding A Nice Intelligent Thai Girl To Marry

[a2396]

Don't get painted in a corner and assume anything in a relationship with a foreign woman. There seem to be many institutionalised "zingers" in LOS than what we are accustomed to in "Christiandom", such a dowery demands, income/support expectations and the use of sex as a bargaining chip. It may sound unromantic, but try to get all the financial and other expectations nailed down before you get to far down the road. I did not and got "swept off my feet" with romantic attraction and am paying the price now.

[lookingforwife]

Ok, I am scared now. I booked a trip to Thailand for February 1 with thailandromancetours.com

I was married for 21 years to an American girl. I have a Korean girlfriend right now. She is the first Asian girl I have ever been with. I have been seeing her for 9 months now. All she cares about is material thinks. $1200 handbags, $400. Jeans. Now I found out that she has $60,000 us on credit cards. Then she told me a couple of days ago after the disaster in Thailand that I can never scuba dive again. She said I could never go to an Island again. She also has a 2 year old kid. I told her I was scuba diving way before I met her and I would continue to do so. I told her I would love to have her to come with me whenever I go to Islands. She said no way. She is 1 of the best looking Asians I have ever seen. 5'7" size 2. By far the best lay. I think she would put me into bankrupsy eventually. So I was headed to Thailand to find a wife. I think after reading all of the horror stories here I will go on my dream scuba trip and forget Thai girls. I only want to marry one more time.

[aughie]

If you have your wits about you and remember a few tips only you can allow yourself to get screwed over. Your first trip over relax and enjoy yourself and enjoy the women. They are great. I wouldn't rush anything. There are plenty of people here who post they are happily married.

Where are diving?

[lookingforwife]

Marina Phuket resort. They sent me a email saying that they are back to normal.

[kreon]

Ok, I am scared now. I booked a trip to Thailand for February 1 with thailandromancetours.com

I was married for 21 years to an American girl. I have a Korean girlfriend right now. She is the first Asian girl I have ever been with. I have been seeing her for 9 months now. All she cares about is material thinks. $1200 handbags, $400. Jeans. Now I found out that she has $60,000 us on credit cards. Then she told me a couple of days ago after the disaster in Thailand that I can never scuba dive again. She said I could never go to an Island again. She also has a 2 year old kid. I told her I was scuba diving way before I met her and I would continue to do so. I told her I would love to have her to come with me whenever I go to Islands. She said no way. She is 1 of the best looking Asians I have ever seen. 5'7" size 2. By far the best lay. I think she would put me into bankrupsy eventually. So I was headed to Thailand to find a wife. I think after reading all of the horror stories here  I will go on my dream scuba trip and forget Thai girls. I only want to marry one more time.

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yeah, i know korean gals

only problem, as i can see with your post, they clean you out financially

stop thinking with your dick..enjoy the thai ladies..and don't get suckered

[Dickie]

sizing you up "Is this guy a sex-tourist jerk, or a sociopath loser who can't have a meaningful existence at home? Is he here for Thai women, like the others? "

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So: which one are you? What was so bad abut your life that you needed to immerse yourself in an alien world? The length of your post indicates an incredibly defensive attitude to any criticism.

[SiamJai]

How many in this 'group'? Millions?

Well, let's see: I'm talking about:

-not all men;

-not all white men;

-not all white men coming to Thailand;

-not all white men coming to Thailand alone;

-not all white men coming to Thailand alone, being losers at home;

-but all white men coming to Thailand alone, being losers at home, looking for a wife over here.

That pretty much narrows it down, doesn't it? At any rate, this group is much smaller (I hope!) than just "all western women". Then remember what I just said about generalizations in the previous post: I acknowledged, I do it too. So, what's new?

Good looking women can also make good partners.

Yeah - maybe. But you put yourself at the mercy of chance a lot more this way. Babyface, big boobs and a nice butt has nothing to do with personal character - which is the only thing that counts when ensuring a good, successful marriage.

You said that you don't want to take a chance to find exceptions - well, that's what you've been doing all along! You could have had a minuscule chance of striking lucky and get a supermodel with great personality, but let's be realistic here. Especially at your age and... hmmm, how shall we say, "string of quickies all around the world" that you brag about more than once around here. What really good woman would put up with that?

As far as experience goes: your "several live-in relationships and more others" hardly qualify for experience for proclaiming how bad western women are for marriage. Apples and oranges, buddy. Same goes with your friends and family members. It is their experience that you, as an outsider, can interpret any way you like.

I have a commitment... to my personal happiness.

Oh, of that I have no doubt. What a great character! I pity any people living with you.

I do not consider 'bad times' to be when a wife fcuks one of your ''friends'' for example. eh? Or one of your employees, eh?

This is about as surprising as when some losers complain that they got cheated on by a bargirl. Again, you won't have much of a chance of finding a good marriage partner when looking for butts and tits. Divorce is best to be prevented before marriage, did you know that?

I have a genuine problem with languages

Oh, I see. I understand too; though languages are easier for me, I had difficulty with math. But the thought that I could use this as an excuse never even came to mind. I just sat down and worked harder on it, until I got it up to standards. And that was just for university! I'd notice something lacking in a more important thing, say, marriage, I would put extra effort to correct it.

So, yes; it is laziness and lack of commitment on your part. No one is perfect in everything, but if it is really important, everything can be improved. Where there is a will, there is a way.

Edited January 2, 2005 by SiamJai

[SiamJai]

which one are you? What was so bad abut your life that you needed to immerse yourself in an alien world?

An international student traveling the world to satisfy the thirst for knowledge; not only that of academic nature, but cultural and social as well. I hope that this knowledge will enable me to better the lives of those less fortunate than me.

In the meanwhile, also looking for a home away from my communist-oppressed country of birth which I haven't seen for many years. Thailand has all the qualities I was looking for in a new home, and thus I intend to be part of it as much as possible.

I hope this answers your question.

BTW, my posts are long only because I learned ten-finger blind-typing and do it fast.

Edited January 2, 2005 by SiamJai

[SiamJai]

I still can't make any sense of this. So now all the Western women who got married in their 20s -whom you labelled "good" - are "giving"? What are they "giving" exactly, that their counterparts don't?

Head?  

LOL, that was one of the possible answers that came to my mind too! But then again, is that a "spousal privilege"? In today's world, I don't think so.

Edited January 2, 2005 by SiamJai

[Pie Boy]

stop thinking with your dick..enjoy the thai ladies..and don't get suckered

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This seems a bit contradictory to me.

[kreon]

How many in this 'group'? Millions?

Well, let's see: I'm talking about:

-not all men;

-not all white men;

-not all white men coming to Thailand;

-not all white men coming to Thailand alone;

-not all white men coming to Thailand alone, being losers at home;

-but all white men coming to Thailand alone, being losers at home, looking for a wife over here.

That pretty much narrows it down, doesn't it? At any rate, this group is much smaller (I hope!) than just "all western women". Then remember what I just said about generalizations in the previous post: I acknowledged, I do it too. So, what's new?

Good looking women can also make good partners.

Yeah - maybe. But you put yourself at the mercy of chance a lot more this way. Babyface, big boobs and a nice butt has nothing to do with personal character - which is the only thing that counts when ensuring a good, successful marriage.

You said that you don't want to take a chance to find exceptions - well, that's what you've been doing all along! You could have had a minuscule chance of striking lucky and get a supermodel with great personality, but let's be realistic here. Especially at your age and... hmmm, how shall we say, "string of quickies all around the world" that you brag about more than once around here. What really good woman would put up with that?

As far as experience goes: your "several live-in relationships and more others" hardly qualify for experience for proclaiming how bad western women are for marriage. Apples and oranges, buddy. Same goes with your friends and family members. It is their experience that you, as an outsider, can interpret any way you like.

I have a commitment... to my personal happiness.

Oh, of that I have no doubt. What a great character! I pity any people living with you.

I do not consider 'bad times' to be when a wife fcuks one of your ''friends'' for example. eh? Or one of your employees, eh?

This is about as surprising as when some losers complain that they got cheated on by a bargirl. Again, you won't have much of a chance of finding a good marriage partner when looking for butts and tits. Divorce is best to be prevented before marriage, did you know that?

I have a genuine problem with languages

Oh, I see. I understand too; though languages are easier for me, I had difficulty with math. But the thought that I could use this as an excuse never even came to mind. I just sat down and worked harder on it, until I got it up to standards. And that was just for university! I'd notice something lacking in a more important thing, say, marriage, I would put extra effort to correct it.

So, yes; it is laziness and lack of commitment on your part. No one is perfect in everything, but if it is really important, everything can be improved. Where there is a will, there is a way.

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you sound a like a brainwashed communist purist

..............oh i better run now

[SiamJai]

That's about as funny as calling any Germans Nazi. But whatever floats your boat, dude. <shrugs>

[Harmonica]

And what, may I ask, happened to Mr. Ventura's thread? Have we gone and wandered off again?

>>>>>> I think after reading all of the horror stories here I will go on my dream scuba trip and forget Thai girls. I only want to marry one more time <<<<<<

That would be a mistake, amigo, a very big one indeed! But why rush it? Just take it slow. As for Korean women? Bah humbug! Thai lasses run circles around them in the "feminity" department. If by any chance our friend Ravisher reads this gross generalization, may I request that he spare me a lecture, though, Lord knows I deserve one from time to time.

Greetings Rav -- good stuff!

[mbkudu]

In my earlier days, I screwed many a guys wife who 'imagined' he had a perfect marriage.

[/quote Ravisher]

Some serious karma in the works, eh Rav?

[mbkudu]

In my earlier days, I screwed many a guys wife who 'imagined' he had a perfect marriage.

[/quote Ravisher]

    Some serious karma in the works, eh Rav?    

Yep! What goes around comes around.

Just curious, do the postmen in Turkey deliver the mail at home ?

Edited January 2, 2005 by mbkudu

[mbkudu]

In my earlier days, I screwed many a guys wife who 'imagined' he had a perfect marriage.

[/quote Ravisher]

    Some serious karma in the works, eh Rav?    

Yep! What goes around comes around.

Just curious, do the postmen in Turkey deliver the mail at home ?

Yes they do. Why do you ask and why do you ?

You got me curious now

Sorry, I meant Greece (that's what I had typed first, but then changed it to Turkey)

[gburns57au]

A couple of things that struck me was...

He has personally interviewed each and every girl and yet he lives in Denver USA.

He and his family gets a free trip to Thailand every month courtesy of your money.

All the people in economy class look miserable and all the ones in the upgraded pics are smiling.....bit of a put up job there....

Personally it all sounds a bit to glib for me....

Edited January 4, 2005 by dr_Pat_Pong

[lional6]

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[lookingforwife]

Maybe I should go on my own. It is a little scary going that far alone.

[aughie]

This is the right one:>) http://thailandromancetours.com/

It's your call. I don't know anything about the guy's business. Who else went through the pics of the girls? Check out the photo on page 9 girl 6. Does this girl exist and why did she submit a photo of herself sitting on a bed?

Why doesn't the url change as you click thru the pages?

[lookingforwife]

I kinda like the looks of the first girl on page 7. he said he and his Thai wife took all of the picture but the one that are studio shots.

[mbkudu]

Just curious, do the postmen in Turkey deliver the mail at home ?

Yes they do. Why do you ask and why do you ?

You got me curious now

Sorry, I meant Greece (that's what I had typed first, but then changed it to Turkey)

I lived in Turkey for three years before coming to Greece. Yes they deliver mail to the door here in Greece.

Still lost?

Ravisher, there's an old American movie called the 'The Postman Always Rings Twice.'

Edited January 3, 2005 by mbkudu

[mbkudu]

Some of them also look like bar girls.

What does a bar girl look like ?

The only good thing about that tour deal is that you get lots of different girls to meet; not just one. $6,000.00? Ouch.

Edited January 3, 2005 by mbkudu

[mbkudu]

The one on the bottom looks ok, but the one on the top looks like a hooker to me .

[mbkudu]

Ravisher, there's an old American movie called the 'The Postman Always Rings Twice.'

Dunno the movie?

See you like Kahlil Gibran... Great writer. Good taste we got.

Well anyway, it was a poorly delivered joke. What I meant was we never know

who might be shagging the missus while we're at work; hence the postman arriving in time for the dutiful, neglected wife. Nothing directed at you personally; like I said, a joke.

Yes he is a great writer. That quote comes from 'The Prophet.' Such a small book with a huge influence on me.

[SiamJai]

Well, all I can say is this... go on with your present way of thinking with your university education.

But of course. Why would this conversation with you change that? If anything, it just reinforced my notions about your kind of losers. But what does any of this have to do with education?

In my earlier days, I screwed many a guys wife who 'imagined' he had a perfect marriage.

Oh, here we go again... I thought that at the age of sixty, one would grow out of teeny 'locker-room stories'. Maaan! Amazing! Don Juan and Casanova are like shy monks compared to the guy you paint in your stories. I wonder how many readers think whether it's real or just wishful thinking.

Those who can, will do it. Those who can't, will boast about it.

Seeya's

Edited January 3, 2005 by SiamJai

[SiamJai]

Personally it all sounds a bit to glib for me....

Agree. But it's fun, actually. The ones getting scammed will just get what they deserve, lol.

In fact, if I had the time and inclination, I'd set up such a scam as well. Lure the losers in, take their money and leave them with nothing. Ingenious!

He and his family gets a free trip to Thailand every month courtesy of your money.

Yep. Six grand per capita, not a bad paycheck... and all one has to do for it is just collect pics of Thai girls, get a few buds in to pose as "previous customers" who will reassure the gullible morons that they really get a great deal, and there you go.

Edited January 3, 2005 by SiamJai

[kreon]

Some of them also look like bar girls.

What does a bar girl look like ?

The only good thing about that tour deal is that you get lots of different girls to meet; not just one. $6,000.00? Ouch.

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Well..... a bit like:

and possibly like this:

And this one was taken in a Photo Studio... (advert on the wall behind her)

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to know this you must have shagged them all

[kreon]

This is the right one:>) http://thailandromancetours.com/

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It's your call. I don't know anything about the guy's business. Who else went through the pics of the girls? Check out the photo on page 9 girl 6. Does this girl exist and why did she submit a photo of herself sitting on a bed?

Why doesn't the url change as you click thru the pages?

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Name : ANN

Age : 19

Weight : 108 lbs

Height : 5'7"

Education : High School

Interested in : 30 - 45 man

Marrtal status : Mia Noi

Children : 1

She lives with her parents and 2 older sisters.

She is shy, curious yet confident.

She likes to sing songs and swimming

Worked part time as a clothing sales representative.

She would like to meet a honest, sincere man

to have a family. She would like to have children

oh..is a mia noi ....and has one kid already

looks like a has been ladies club to me

Edited January 3, 2005 by kreon

[gburns57au]

Some of them have boyfriends also......

lets face it.....it looks like a scam and probably is a scam....

as suggested for that money you could do 3 trips and find your own girl.

Get a flight sorted, book into Nana Plaza or the Dynasty, plenty of US guys there to show you the ropes. Many guys go there solo first time and have a great time.