Discovered Sister In Law On Internet Sex Sites

[mrtoad]

Not only have you shot yourself in the FOOT - in time to come it (reporting to the brothers-in-law) will come back and bite you elsewhere -"Blood is much thicker than water".

Thinking that myself when these 4 brother's see how low you have stooped they may pay you a little visit.

Keep ya nose out in future its much safer.

I believe that the sister in law (high class professional) works in insuarnce as well as media. Well, if they have got financial worries at the moment, maybe taking a life insurance out on the OP might not be such a bad idea.

[wensiensheng]

Thinking about it, the OP did his digging around because of the fear that his mother in law would find out about her daughter being on a pay per view web cam site. Just how often does the old dear frequent these sites? Anyway, however frequent or infrequent it may be, she sounds less of a prude than her son in law!

No one ever truly knows what goes on in a marriage other than the two partners. Best keep it that way unless one is suffering physical or mental abuse. Sounds like these two were having some fun and making a bit of money......until SOMEONE ruined it all.

[bino]

I'm with the crowd for the most part... what the sister in law is doing (with the knowledge / consent of her husband) is none of anyone's business but theirs.

However, if the sister in law is using a real / family name online, that is pretty stupid. I can understand the family's concern.... esp if their family name is 16 characters long and a fairly unique search term!

Some sick puppy might seek her out, and it makes it too easy for meddling family members / brothers in law to suss you out!

Someone should tell the sister in law to develop an alias or nickname for this kind of thing!

Edited to add.... Gotta wonder OP, why the sister in law is coming to your daughter for advice on this!! Is your daughter a source of knowledge / experienced with this? That would concern me much more!

Edited December 30, 2008 by bino

[polecat]

I'm just really pleased that some of these girls really are well-educated and from well-to-do families. I'd always suspected it was just a front, designed to lure us poor TV members who only ever date high-class totty.

[MyphuketLife]

It would have been safer to stay out...

I don't understand why you got the other brothers involved. Once you found out, you should have told them that you and your wife knew what they were doing and said its only a matter of time before others figure it out.... I think getting the other brothers involved could prove to be harmful.

One question how far did you investigation go? Did you end up becoming a paying customer to see exactly what she did on cam?

[sassienie]

I'm with the crowd for the most part... what the sister in law is doing (with the knowledge / consent of her husband) is none of anyone's business but theirs.

However, if the sister in law is using a real / family name online, that is pretty stupid. I can understand the family's concern.... esp if their family name is 16 characters long and a fairly unique search term!

Some sick puppy might seek her out, and it makes it too easy for meddling family members / brothers in law to suss you out!

Someone should tell the sister in law to develop an alias or nickname for this kind of thing!

Edited to add.... Gotta wonder OP, why the sister in law is coming to your daughter for advice on this!! Is your daughter a source of knowledge / experienced with this? That would concern me much more!

This was because my wife`s sister in law`s english is not 100% and required help with translating a reply to the letter.

On her websites, the English is perfect, which has made us wonder, if she is receiving help from somewhere?

Edited December 30, 2008 by sassienie

[Lopburi99]

As for getting involved:

My daughter was the first to tell my wife about the situation who found out about this when my wife`s sister in law asked my daughter for advice about how to deal with a client met on the Internet who she believed may be a scammer.

This lead to my wife becoming concerned about her brother, as she thought that his wife was planning to find someone else and leave him. Also that this girl was using the family name for her activities on the Internet.

So my wife begged me to do some checking, in which I reluctantly did.

Those who say that this is none of my business, I`m not disputing that, and as for being brought in as a fool guy between the family, maybe this is the case.

I'm wondering if you are another husband who over time has lost his balls to stand up for yourself. If you were reluctant to do it, why did you? (and pleeze don't say because you love your wife!!)

Edited December 30, 2008 by Lopburi99

[lazygourmet]

Little bit off topic,

the story of the "happy family":

after sleeping together, the sister said to her brother: you've got a bigger one than daddy; then brother replied: I know, mum already told me...

Happy (family?!?) New Year...

[Lopburi99]

As for getting involved:

My daughter was the first to tell my wife about the situation who found out about this when my wife`s sister in law asked my daughter for advice about how to deal with a client met on the Internet who she believed may be a scammer.

This lead to my wife becoming concerned about her brother, as she thought that his wife was planning to find someone else and leave him. Also that this girl was using the family name for her activities on the Internet.

So my wife begged me to do some checking, in which I reluctantly did.

Those who say that this is none of my business, I`m not disputing that, and as for being brought in as a fool guy between the family, maybe this is the case.

I'm wondering if you are another husband who over time has lost his balls to stand up for yourself. If you were reluctant to do it, why did you? (and pleeze don't say because you love your wife!!)

I didn't mean to offend you, just hoping you will learn something from all this. My experience over the years has consistently shown reluctance to be a significantly accurate emotion, often closely tied to basic common sense. So many times in my life I have complied, ignoring reluctance and it resulted in huge mistakes being made. Seldom now do I allow myself to be hood-winked. Learned the hard way, but at least I learned.

Edited December 30, 2008 by Lopburi99

[sassienie]

Yes it is.

[dingdongrb]

I want to know if it was paying well?

Yeah, I have the same question... How much was being taken in each month?

I had a friend in the USA that he and his wife did essentially the same thing many many years ago as dotcoms were just being evolved. He mentioned to me that that just doing this a few hours on the weekends they were taking in anywhere from $6k - $13k USD every month!!! Sure beats selling drugs....

[Briggsy]

It's the "insurance company" bit that worries me.

That profession has an appalling reputation in Thailand and nobody from a decent family concerned about their reputation would work for one.

[DavidOxon]

Sounds like he has the hots for her and she blew him off, now he's just out for revenge - or a preemptive strike!

David

[samuibeachcomber]

Little bit off topic,

the story of the "happy family":

after sleeping together, the sister said to her brother: you've got a bigger one than daddy; then brother replied: I know, mum already told me...

Happy (family?!?) New Year...

i love it, so funny.nice humour.

[sassienie]

It's the "insurance company" bit that worries me.

That profession has an appalling reputation in Thailand and nobody from a decent family concerned about their reputation would work for one.

This is interesting.

Because my brother in law and his wife once tried to convince me into investing a lot of money into a life insurance policy in the large company in which they work. On one of the dating web sites my wife`s sister in law quotes that she is looking for a guy in put money into that company.

Also, my wife noticed that the photo of her sister in law on the profile of Tagged and dating web sites was taken in the office at the insurance company.

[Sakeopete]

Heck after telling her I know I would have asked her for some free shows to keep quiet!

[khundon]

My wife and I had an awful shock recently.

My wife's brother and his 32 year old wife were married only 7 months ago. His wife is very educated, has a master's degree and is a high flyer executive for an insurance company in Chiang Mai.

My daughter gave me a tip off that something strange was going on with her Uncle and aunt. So this led me to do an Internet search.

2 weeks ago I discovered my wife's sister in law's profile on MSN. From there I found she has a profile on a social networking site called *Tagged* and after doing some more searches in Google found that she had also been advertising herself on dating sites.

In Tagged and on the dating websites she described herself as single looking for a guy. So I created a profile in Tagged as an alias to find out what was gong on.

Anyway to cut a long story short, it transpired that she is running a pay to view web cam show with the knowledge of my brother in law and that she went on Tagged so as to advertise her contact details for the cam chat.

I thought I'd seen everything in my lifetime, but this really took me by surprise. Because if anyone saw this upper class professional girl, they would never have imagined that this sort of person could ever be involved in such activities.

I emailed my wife's sister in law and explained that we all know what is going on. She replied and said, it is because her work has dried up with the insurance company but tried to tone everything down by saying that her Tagged activities is only for fun. My brother in law and his wife did not realise that I had copied parts of her website and chats onto my computer as evidence. I sent copies to my wife's 4 other brothers, who somehow managed to convince them to delete the profile from Tagged. I took this action because my wife is worried about her families reputation and worried that her mother may find out.

But although all my brother in laws showed concern after I informed them what is going on, their re-action to this news was rather less dramatic than I would have thought.

So now I am wondering, is working in Thailand within the sex industries acceptable to most Thai families and embedded into and as part of Thai culture?

FAQ

Will you tell us the website details?

Ans: NO

I cannot, for the life of me understand why you and your wife did not try to help your sister in law and her husband if they needed money badly. After all, you must have spent a fair bit tracking and "talking" to her online?

You then went ahead and told her brothers, why? what did you expect them to do, or say!!

This is Thailand and you have opened a can of worms and done untold harm within the family, for which I believe you will pay dearly, in the coming months and years.

They are both CONSENTING ADULTS and you should never have got involved.

Why did your wife not speak to her sister and keep you and her other brothers out of it?.

I think your wife and sister in law have issues and your wife has used you to get one over on her sister.

I think out of the two sisters, your brother in law got the best deal, as your wife seems to control you and pull your strings like a puppet.

If the English on the web site was good, I suspect she had been getting a lot of help from another English speaking member of the family, who is rather to close to home for comfort.

As for your reference to her being well educated and "upper class" what the he*l has that got to do with it!

Do you think that these attributes stop them enjoying sexual activities, that Millions of other people around the World enjoy. Get Real !!!

I cannot think why you copied parts of the web site to your computer, after all you only had to tell her that you knew what she was doing, so why copy and save what you call "such activities". I have my thoughts on that one.

Excuse me for pointing out that you have been a fool and have been used by your wife. I give you 1 chance in a 100 that you will remain part of this family for longer than six months.

Good luck but start checking the cost of one ticket on a one way flight home.

Edited December 30, 2008 by khundon

[Birdman]

I cannot, for the life of me understand why you and your wife did not try to help your sister in law and her husband if they needed money badly. After all, you must have spent a fair bit tracking and "talking" to her online?

You then went ahead and told her brothers, why? what did you expect them to do, or say!!

This is Thailand and you have opened a can of worms and done untold harm within the family, for which I believe you will pay dearly, in the coming months and years.

They are both CONSENTING ADULTS and you should never have got involved.

Why did your wife not speak to her sister and keep you and her other brothers out of it?.

I think your wife and sister in law have issues and your wife has used you to get one over on her sister.

I think out of the two sisters, your brother in law got the best deal, as your wife seems to control you and pull your strings like a puppet.

If the English on the web site was good, I suspect she had been getting a lot of help from another English speaking member of the family, who is rather to close to home for comfort.

As for your reference to her being well educated and "upper class" what the he*l has that got to do with it!

Do you think that these attributes stop them enjoying sexual activities, that Millions of other people around the World enjoy. Get Real !!!

I cannot think why you copied parts of the web site to your computer, after all you only had to tell her that you knew what she was doing, so why copy and save what you call "such activities". I have my thoughts on that one.

Excuse me for pointing out that you have been a fool and have been used by your wife. I give you 1 chance in a 100 that you will remain part of this family for longer than six months.

Good luck but start checking the cost of one ticket on a one way flight home.

Many good points. From now on it is minimising the damage. I would try to forget the hole issue and stay friendly to all the relatives of your wife without mention that. If somebody start talking about, better smile and say not too much. But if that issues is more than that, you should apologise, maybe buy a present.

[Kf6vci]

So you are the self-appointed defender of family honor and referee?

Just let other people handle their lives any they they want. Each of us has enough to clean up when it comes to dark areas: morality is what you do when nobody is watching.

Never watched porn? So - - -

let her be. In my culture, mixed saunas and nudity are common. I sat next to a 16 y.o. who came with grandma. so what?

Each of us has shameful secrets - let other people be!

[mrtoad]

I cannot, for the life of me understand why you and your wife did not try to help your sister in law and her husband if they needed money badly. After all, you must have spent a fair bit tracking and "talking" to her online?You then went ahead and told her brothers, why? what did you expect them to do, or say!!

This is Thailand and you have opened a can of worms and done untold harm within the family, for which I believe you will pay dearly, in the coming months and years.

They are both CONSENTING ADULTS and you should never have got involved.

Why did your wife not speak to her sister and keep you and her other brothers out of it?.

I think your wife and sister in law have issues and your wife has used you to get one over on her sister.

I think out of the two sisters, your brother in law got the best deal, as your wife seems to control you and pull your strings like a puppet.

If the English on the web site was good, I suspect she had been getting a lot of help from another English speaking member of the family, who is rather to close to home for comfort.

As for your reference to her being well educated and "upper class" what the he*l has that got to do with it!

Do you think that these attributes stop them enjoying sexual activities, that Millions of other people around the World enjoy. Get Real !!!

I cannot think why you copied parts of the web site to your computer, after all you only had to tell her that you knew what she was doing, so why copy and save what you call "such activities". I have my thoughts on that one.

Excuse me for pointing out that you have been a fool and have been used by your wife. I give you 1 chance in a 100 that you will remain part of this family for longer than six months.

Good luck but start checking the cost of one ticket on a one way flight home.

I find the whole thing fascinating, as the OP normally likes to point out how wealthy he is, and how respectable his 'Thai Family' are.

[mrtoad]

This is interesting.

Because my brother in law and his wife once tried to convince me into investing a lot of money into a life insurance policy in the large company in which they work. On one of the dating web sites my wife`s sister in law quotes that she is looking for a guy in put money into that company.

Also, my wife noticed that the photo of her sister in law on the profile of Tagged and dating web sites was taken in the office at the insurance company.

It's interesting, because you have dropped yourself into a big lake of shit.

[JimShortz]

I can only think that the OP did this because he is suffering from some sort of illness; perhaps Foot in Mouth disease?

Try "live and let live" as a very simple rule for future actions; or perhaps "mind your own ****ing business you nosey git!"

[totlanh]

FAQ

Will you tell us the website details?

Ans: NO

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I cannot, for the life of me understand why you and your wife did not try to help your sister in law and her husband if they needed money badly. After all, you must have spent a fair bit tracking and "talking" to her online?

You then went ahead and told her brothers, why? what did you expect them to do, or say!!

This is Thailand and you have opened a can of worms and done untold harm within the family, for which I believe you will pay dearly, in the coming months and years.

They are both CONSENTING ADULTS and you should never have got involved.

Why did your wife not speak to her sister and keep you and her other brothers out of it?.

I think your wife and sister in law have issues and your wife has used you to get one over on her sister.

I think out of the two sisters, your brother in law got the best deal, as your wife seems to control you and pull your strings like a puppet.

If the English on the web site was good, I suspect she had been getting a lot of help from another English speaking member of the family, who is rather to close to home for comfort.

As for your reference to her being well educated and "upper class" what the he*l has that got to do with it!

Do you think that these attributes stop them enjoying sexual activities, that Millions of other people around the World enjoy. Get Real !!!

I cannot think why you copied parts of the web site to your computer, after all you only had to tell her that you knew what she was doing, so why copy and save what you call "such activities". I have my thoughts on that one.

Excuse me for pointing out that you have been a fool and have been used by your wife. I give you 1 chance in a 100 that you will remain part of this family for longer than six months.

Good luck but start checking the cost of one ticket on a one way flight home.

Mate,

I shall put this as delicatly as i can,who the fuc_k do you think you are???You know your post has angered me more than any i can recall for a long time and how the OP must feel after you writing that he is going to lose his family,your words in essence.Get a grip fella,you appear to think you have intelligence that i suspect is grossly overestimated on your part.You in reality have no idea what is happening in the OP,s family situation other than what and i agree he has foolishly posted on the net.This beside you have no business in casting wild aspertions.I must ask why you felt the need to write your posinous piece,did it make you feel importand?Is perhaps your own life so empty and shallow you have to fill this void by predicting the ruination of some-bodys family.I wish sometimes people would maybe try to consider others feelings on this forum,you know,its not a fuc_king game!

Rant over

[Maigo6]

So now I am wondering, is working in Thailand within the sex industries acceptable to most Thai families and embedded into and as part of Thai culture?

Ask your wife, she's Thai, ask her mother, ask her brothers, ask the neighbours......

Why ask a bunch of Farangs on an anonymous internet Forum who may, or may not know anything about Thailand at all ?

My view is, your starting a troll post to diss Thai women but it's backfired on you......

If on the very slim chance the story is true, why on earth would you inform her 4 brothers when you don't want the mother to find out ?

[lordsux]

This thread is seriously in need of some evidence to back it up. Give the girl some free advertising and boost her and the family's income. Maybe when the baht starts to flow then the consequences of urinating in the rice bowl won't be too bad for you.

That is of course if she is not also a troll

[Master Chief]

All the secrets we have on the web, if revealed would hurt us down to dirt level.

Many societies new to the freedom of the web do not understand the power of it, many thai posters post quite revealing pictures and stories on the web as tought it is kept online only for a short flash moment.

Wrong, the whole web world has it almost forever to be found.

MC

[JiveTalker]

Mate,

I shall put this as delicatly as i can,who the fuc_k do you think you are???You know your post has angered me more than any i can recall for a long time and how the OP must feel after you writing that he is going to lose his family,your words in essence.Get a grip fella,you appear to think you have intelligence that i suspect is grossly overestimated on your part.You in reality have no idea what is happening in the OP,s family situation other than what and i agree he has foolishly posted on the net.This beside you have no business in casting wild aspertions.I must ask why you felt the need to write your posinous piece,did it make you feel importand?Is perhaps your own life so empty and shallow you have to fill this void by predicting the ruination of some-bodys family.I wish sometimes people would maybe try to consider others feelings on this forum,you know,its not a fuc_king game!

Rant over

Wow. That's one of the biggest spaz outs I've read for a while. Nice work.

[totlanh]

Mate,

I shall put this as delicatly as i can,who the fuc_k do you think you are???You know your post has angered me more than any i can recall for a long time and how the OP must feel after you writing that he is going to lose his family,your words in essence.Get a grip fella,you appear to think you have intelligence that i suspect is grossly overestimated on your part.You in reality have no idea what is happening in the OP,s family situation other than what and i agree he has foolishly posted on the net.This beside you have no business in casting wild aspertions.I must ask why you felt the need to write your posinous piece,did it make you feel importand?Is perhaps your own life so empty and shallow you have to fill this void by predicting the ruination of some-bodys family.I wish sometimes people would maybe try to consider others feelings on this forum,you know,its not a fuc_king game!

Rant over

Wow. That's one of the biggest spaz outs I've read for a while. Nice work.

Cheers

[Mr Jones]

And I bet you where the class room snitch as well

[tijnebijn]

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