Gossiping

[kreon]

although i live about 6 years at my apartment, i find that there is a lot of gossiping going on about my life-style

i know this from the visits of some of my gf's, who are often told about the number of other females being entertained at my place

why don't thai's mind their own business and respect other peoples privacy

is this so bad and is it common all over the place

what's your experiences with this, how do you handle this, apart from moving to a house which i hate

Edited January 27, 2005 by kreon

[penelope]

why don't thai's mind their own business and respect other peoples privacy

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last time I checked, gossiping was common the world over

[britmaveric]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it?

[ProfessorFart]

Read 'The Judgement' ( 'คำพิพากษา' ) by Chart Korpjitti!!

It's also the basis for the film 'Ai Fak'

[penzman]

One of my wife's co-workers once received a present. A brand new dog muzzle. She was unleashed from the office later on.

[Team Bukowski]

the thai's in the office I work at are woeful for gossiping. I have lunch with one girl, and that afternoon its right through the office that we're "together". I wish!

[Head Snake]

It was explained to me that gossip is prevalent mainly because of boredom. If someone is staying home, what else is there to do besides talk about others?

Because you are an "outsider", you are an easy target.

Let them have their fun.

[sua yai]

I reckon there's a thin and dangerous line between gossiping to relieve boredom and malacious gossip/rumours.

When I came over years ago, the ex and I ran a sucessful bar in town. It didn't take long for the dirt to start flying - I'd been seen walking down the road with another woman. I'd been seen buying a bar girl a drink etc etc.

Whilst it didn't particularly bother me, it certainly did the ex. And she was fiery!! Never was able to fully convince the ex, though.

All that stemmed out of jealousy. Beware the green eyed monster.

[Insight]

the thai's in the office I work at are woeful for gossiping. I have lunch with one girl, and that afternoon its right through the office that we're "together". I wish!

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Very similar experiences - give them the slightest impression (if any impression at all) that something's going on, the Thai staff here jump on it and then some.

My g/f also works in the office with me. When we first started dating, we made an agreement - the first sign of gossip about us around the office, instantly go public with what's going on. This way, they've got nowt to gossip about! Worked a treat

[HarryHacker]

For sure they gossip, especially about Farangs. I'm the only Farang in the company where I work and for sure I would never ever '&lt;deleted&gt; on my doorstep' Furthermore, I never discuss anything I get up to outside. If any GF wants to call me they must only use my mobile number, never to call my office etc etc.

Next month I'm moving to a new Serviced Apartment which has a reception unlike where I have stayed in the past, normal Condo......yep its going to be interesting to see the reaction once they discover my 'butterfly' lifestyle!

[pedro01]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

[HarryHacker]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

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That's a bit silly! What does a prostitute look like? Any working girl I would walk out with would easily get lost in the crowd!

[pedro01]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

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That's a bit silly! What does a prostitute look like? Any working girl I would walk out with would easily get lost in the crowd!

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Errr - in this case, what would make it obvious is the quantity & not the quality.

[Petesear]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

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That's a bit silly! What does a prostitute look like? Any working girl I would walk out with would easily get lost in the crowd!

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Come on, you can spot a tart at 100 yds..

[pedro01]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

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That's a bit silly! What does a prostitute look like? Any working girl I would walk out with would easily get lost in the crowd!

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Come on, you can spot a tart at 100 yds..

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Well Kreon can, obviously...

[HarryHacker]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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Exactly - I presume number of ladies means lots of prostitutes brought back home.

Wouldn't you expect people to gossip about this back home ?

Why should Thailand be any different - you think the whole society here is 'at one' with Nana Plaza ???

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That's a bit silly! What does a prostitute look like? Any working girl I would walk out with would easily get lost in the crowd!

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Come on, you can spot a tart at 100 yds..

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Bo11ox!

[fatter than harry]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

[HarryHacker]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

[Petesear]

Come on... A tart might blend into the crowd outside Nana, but that's about it... If you think otherwise you are kidding yourself..

[fatter than harry]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

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I was talking about the mods forum George has reeeeeaaaally nice legs

Wait, isn't that gossip? Wow, bought it right back on topic.

[HarryHacker]

Come on...  A tart might blend into the crowd outside Nana, but that's about it... If you think otherwise you are kidding yourself..

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hehehhee well tell that to those on here that have married one ;-)

[HarryHacker]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

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I was talking about the mods forum George has reeeeeaaaally nice legs

Wait, isn't that gossip? Wow, bought it right back on topic.

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I wanted to say that but don't want to be banned again!

[Petesear]

I think you are mising the point, people will always gossip and being seen with or visiting a girl, or boy, who everyone call tell is a ho gives them fuel to gossip...

[fatter than harry]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was talking about the mods forum George has reeeeeaaaally nice legs

Wait, isn't that gossip? Wow, bought it right back on topic.

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I wanted to say that but don't want to be banned again!

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Bless you, if you were worried it should be this comment 'hehehhee well tell that to those on here that have married one ;-)' that should concern you. However to continually earn the scorn of many members is, as they say, up to you.

[HarryHacker]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was talking about the mods forum George has reeeeeaaaally nice legs

Wait, isn't that gossip? Wow, bought it right back on topic.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I wanted to say that but don't want to be banned again!

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Bless you, if you were worried it should be this comment 'hehehhee well tell that to those on here that have married one ;-)' that should concern you. However to continually earn the scorn of many members is, as they say, up to you.

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Ah thats not fair....I was defending rather than attacking...don't pull one line out of context. Ok I should not have started with hhehehehe thats true.

[fatter than harry]

Then please accept my apologies.

[HarryHacker]

Then please accept my apologies.

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Hands duly shaken Sir!

[anna234cn]

although i live about 6 years at my apartment, i find that there is a lot of gossiping going on about my life-style

i know this from the visits of some of my gf's, who are often told about the number of other females being entertained at my place

why don't thai's mind their own business and respect other peoples privacy

is this so bad and is it common all over the place

what's your experiences with this, how do you handle this, apart from moving to a house which i hate 

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That people like gossipping about you means they care about you very much. haha

So that's not bad.

On the other hand, I cant understand what Thai ppl are gossipping.

[kreon]

An old saying don't sh*#e where you eat!!! If everyone knows your gf in your building it isnt the brightest thing to bring other ladies around now is it? 

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sorry forget to add that i live alone and am a butterfly

btw, even my maid is getting sick of it, because what mr. farang is his business

it often happens when my current gf goes past security and has been told that i have many lady's, the building manager laughs of my complaints, &lt;deleted&gt;

so my maid often has to become the intermediate explaining that all is well and that mr. farang is a good man

[kreon]

Thigh length boots and ultra mini skirt/bikini top combo is normal office attire where I come from.

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Don't see too many like that walking out of Nana with their happy customer! Maybe down in Patty and the like.

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my gf's either are students or have office jobs, does that make them tarts in disguise