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Posted (edited)
I think the scamp .............. I'm going to try and stop my comments on the scamp as anything I say or anyone else might say seems to have no effect on his thoughts or his posts. I've edited this one and it's about it for me.

take it easy please...

kiss you

:o

So when is this going to happen? :D

Kringle, I suggest you find out a bit more about your new friend BambinA before you pursue his.. oops I mean her... oops I'm not really sure how to phrase it... offer.

:D

:D:D

I wasn't gonna tell him... Is that bad of me...? :D

totster :D

I couldn't possibly be so mean... :D

:D

Well, Thank you "Totster" and "Jai Dee" ... Obviously, Kringle know me well, and he is a good friend of mine...

Be nice old men !! :D

Edited by BambinA
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Well, Thank you  "Totster"  and "Jai Dee" ...  Obviously, Kringle  know  me well, and  he  is a  good  friend  of mine...

Be nice  old  men !! :o

No problems BambinA... we're just having a little fun. :D

Hmmm... Kringle and BambinA... inlove.gif

Posted (edited)

wanna kiss me  now?

:D

The photo is a bit dark... can we see another? :o

how is this one? :D

Much better thanks BambinA... :D

But I'd better not cheat on my girl. :D

You know how it is... :D

Which beach by the way?

Edited by Jai Dee
Posted

ok but here's my question,

What's the difference between ###### buddies here and ###### buddies else where?

I understand the concept of booty call, mutual pleasure all that shabang. But how does that work in terms of a gig? And do you have to give your gig money? I've heard different things about having a gig (not that I'm interested in getting one), but what is the deal?

I know thai culture in quite different from any culture I've ever known, and expats often "give" money to their gf's or bf's while they're away from Thailand. (that concept is strange to me too) But what is the deal?

So if anyone knows the diff, can they distinguish this for me?

Posted (edited)

She is a very nice lady or as you say person, that is very intelligent with a degree in medicine. She speaks four or five languages and is a delight to talk with. I think she is very brave to expose her lifes' choices on a public forum and dare say that most people could not. I do believe that some people are trapped in a body that does not fit who they really are. If any of you get the opportunity to meet her, I'm sure you will agree with her decision and also say that SHE is a beautiful LADY. Enough said.

Edited by Kringle
Posted (edited)
She is a very nice lady or as you say person, that is very intelligent ... and also say that SHE is a beautiful LADY. Enough said.

Agreed 100% Kringle. :o

Totster and I were just having a bit of light hearted fun before and didn't think anyone would be annoyed... please take it in the vein it was offered.

BTW, the OP and I have exchanged a couple of PM's and I agree again with you... she seems like a very nice lady.

:D

Now... can we get back on topic... where were we... that's right... "benefit friends".

Edited by Jai Dee
Posted
ok but here's my question,

What's the difference between ###### buddies here and ###### buddies else where?

I understand the concept of booty call, mutual pleasure all that shabang. But how does that work in terms of a gig? And do you have to give your gig money? I've heard different things about having a gig (not that I'm interested in getting one), but what is the deal?

I know thai culture in quite different from any culture I've ever known, and expats often "give" money to their gf's or bf's while they're away from Thailand. (that concept is strange to me too) But what is the deal?

So if anyone knows the diff, can they distinguish this for me?

The concept of "GIG" in Thai is..more than friend , but not GF(BF) , wife nor mistress ..you can go out with "GIG" have fun with..

People who have "GIG" , are people who have own relationship already (not single status)

paid or not .. i think maybe paid for dinner,movie..etc but no paid as BG

"expats often "give" money to their gf's or bf's while they're away from Thailand" >> well, this one i think its up to person, maybe they just want to support each other..or maybe just to be tricked..

me,myself .. i dont like "GIG" concept ..and dont want any "GIG" too

Bambi :o

Posted (edited)

Not everybody has the same definition of "gig". My former bf and I once bickered over what a "gig" was (this was during the good times). I was mentioning that before him, I used to have a few "gigs", meaning some guys I would date, but was not committed to. To me, a "gig" is just someone you flirt with, talk on the phone with, and can go out with - with or without sex involved, and with or without already having a bf/gf. But to him, a "gig" is someone you cheat on your partner with. He hated the word and hated the idea of having a "gig", because he was a one-woman man.

Very ironic because much later in our relationship he ended up having a "gig" (who I knew but didn't confront or anything because I thought it was a harmless flirtation) and eventually cheated on me - he later admitted they had had sex, but only once. This was during a time I wasn't giving him all the TLC (Tender Loving Care) that he needed.

I agree with Knotter Bill, if you have an "open relationship" and are both okay with it, fine. But if you are unhappy in a relationship then just end it instead of cheating on your partner. When the truth is out things are never quite the same. I totally understand how the "mia luang" feels now when she finds out her husband has a "mia noi".

There is the fashion these days for what is called 'open relationships' i.e. where both parties go and have sex with others......"free love" OK if that is how you want to lead your lives, I respect that.

For my part, I believe in monogamy too.Call me old fashioned, but  how can you truly  love with more than the one person? ( that is if you believe in true love, if not then you are just 'playing around' with your partners emotions) if you cannot be faithfull to that one person then end the relationship altogether . Better that than have them find out that you have been cheating on them and hurting both parties in the long term. Infidelity is the biggest cause of  love turning into bitter hatred.

Edited by siamesekitty
Posted (edited)
Not everybody has the same definition of "gig". My former bf and I once bickered over what a "gig" was (this was during the good times). I was mentioning that before him, I used to have a few "gigs", meaning some guys I would date, but was not committed to. To me, a "gig" is just someone you flirt with, talk on the phone with, and can go out with - with or without sex involved, and with or without already having a bf/gf. But to him, a "gig" is someone you cheat on your partner with. He hated the word and hated the idea of having a "gig", because he was a one-woman man.

Very ironic because much later in our relationship he ended up having a "gig" (who I knew but didn't confront or anything because I thought it was a harmless flirtation) and eventually cheated on me - he later admitted they had had sex, but only once. This was during a time I wasn't giving him all the TLC (Tender Loving Care) that he needed.

I agree with Knotter Bill, if you have an "open relationship" and are both okay with it, fine. But if you are unhappy in a relationship then just end it instead of cheating on your partner. When the truth is out things are never quite the same. I totally understand how the "mia luang" feels now when she finds out her husband has a "mia noi".

sawassdee ka khun siamesekitty

i understand you well, coz i got it the same with my ex-bf

i confess that i had some GIGs thai ,Luk Krueng (mixed farang+thai) and farang

yes fews months ago i was nearly a mistress of a farang(who has farang's wife)..ok dont call me b1tch .. its over

anyhow..i quit all of relation.. i think its not fair for their GF,wife ..

and imagine ,if i was their GF,wife how would i hurt when i know my BF,husband has GIG... no doubt

ps..i like your Gig's definition

Regards,

Bambi :o

Edited by BambinA
Posted

waddee ka, khun Bambi :o

Welcome to ThaiVisa naka, I've seen your posts over the past couple of weeks but have been too busy to post. Looking forward to more interesting topics like the ones you've been bringing up! :D

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She is a very nice lady or as you say person, that is very intelligent ... and also say that SHE is a beautiful LADY. Enough said.

Agreed 100% Kringle. :o

Totster and I were just having a bit of light hearted fun before and didn't think anyone would be annoyed... please take it in the vein it was offered.

BTW, the OP and I have exchanged a couple of PM's and I agree again with you... she seems like a very nice lady.

:D

It was just leg pulling... what mates do to each other.. :D

And Kringle.. I agree ... she seems vey lovely, and is obviously intelligent... I enjoy reading her posts. :D

BambinA - nice pic... :D

totster :D

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