recently i have been taking my tgf in to work in pattaya and dropping her off at the go go at about 1.30pm then i go to jamesons for tiger in happy hours followed by maggie mays in chaiyapoon for pints of asahi and eat free nuts and do emails etc.

i manage to make this last until about 6.15 pm then i go to shenanigans in jontiem for more pints -----------happy hours-------which takes me to about 7.30 and so to robin hood bar or lovejoys 1 or 2 ---------there are 2 lovejoys now-----till say 8.45 and then back to the pattaya go go to pick up tgf at just after 9pm ----------what i want to know is -----------is this wrong in any way or should i carry on drinking and tell her to make her own way home-------comments please

Edited September 18, 201015 yr by neilf

perfectly acceptable and normal behavior i would say for someone especially an ex pat member of tv living in pattaya.

but then i would say that i live in bangkok sorry patties, but you had that one coming to you !

i forgot----------sometimes after i pick her up we get a bottle each from a 7 and sit on the beach with a baked fish and other food and listen to some music whilst looking at the waves and the moonlight----------------i suppose you have moonlight in bkk but not so many waves eh never mind he he

Maybe I should move this to the 'I drink too much Forum'

Maybe you should suggest she stay at work till the gogo closes, wouldn't clash with your drinking as much and she'd have more money in her pocket to buy you a few takeouts on the way home.

Maybe you should suggest she stay at work till the gogo closes, wouldn't clash with your drinking as much and she'd have more money in her pocket to buy you a few takeouts on the way home.

good idea but she is too old to be a dancer so she is a hostess so not big money

i think she should pay for her transport to and from work-----------ie. me at at least 2 big botts tiger a day -----very fair

It's OK as long as the gf hands over her days wages to cover your days expenses.

I honestly cannot believe you do so little with your drinking time.

Sounds like the perfect life to me. Carry on Sir!

Maybe you should suggest she stay at work till the gogo closes, wouldn't clash with your drinking as much and she'd have more money in her pocket to buy you a few takeouts on the way home.

good idea but she is too old to be a dancer so she is a hostess so not big money

i think she should pay for her transport to and from work-----------ie. me at at least 2 big botts tiger a day -----very fair

Never too old. My GF danced at 45 and made good bucks. Tell her to change clubs.

You should cut down on the nuts.

What impact is there on your drinking if she gets bar-fined ?

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

Impact would be more drinks in Lovejoys as there would be no need to go and pick her up.

Someone has done it for him, so more drinks......yippee.

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

Or just having sex?

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

That's what he wastes his spare time doing.

just tell her, what GG opens then, sounds a dood time to go.

Ask her if she can get booze at wholesale prices from work.

No! mate tell her to make her own way home,

Gotta get your priorities right.

just tell her, what GG opens then, sounds a dood time to go.

I think the OP is not the only one doing a bit of afternoon drinking

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

Come on Phil?how can he fit that lot into his drinking time?

Give the Guy a little bit of free time!

Never too old. My GF danced at 45 and made good bucks. Tell her to change clubs

<deleted> a Go-Go....No thanks...

Edited September 18, 201015 yr by glassdude007

What impact is there on your drinking if she gets bar-fined ?

none--------------as a hostess she is only fineable after she finishes her shift and she does not bar fine anyway---------------mind you she has been smiling a lot more lateley

Edited September 19, 201015 yr by neilf

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

believe it or not i do all those things in the mornings apart from the thai lessons and tgf is teaching me

i already know " where you go " and the slightly harder ' where you stay "

cant quite get to grips with ' i love you long time " yet

Edited September 19, 201015 yr by neilf

if she needs an escort (for her safety, mind you!) from the gogo to...say...home...I'm sure we can find on the board some volunteers for that job. Gives you lkess to worry about so you can concentrate more on the essentials in life.

if she needs an escort (for her safety, mind you!) from the gogo to...say...home...I'm sure we can find on the board some volunteers for that job. Gives you lkess to worry about so you can concentrate more on the essentials in life.

whos lkess and why do i have to worry about him---------------is he that swedish bloke

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

believe it or not i do all those things in the mornings apart from the thai lessons and tgf is teaching me

i already know " where you go " and the slightly harder ' where you stay "

cant quite get to grips with ' i love you long time " yet

Sorry but I have to call BS on that one.................. http://www.thaivisa....09#entry3892109

I think your GF is a selfish b!tch, interfering with your drinking like that. Tell her to get a MC taxi home and cook your supper after she has cleaned the house and done your ironing.

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Edited September 19, 201015 yr by QED

You drink too much. Are you an alcoholic?

Why don't you try going to the gym, swimming, reading a book, or going to Thai language lessons.

believe it or not i do all those things in the mornings apart from the thai lessons and tgf is teaching me

i already know " where you go " and the slightly harder ' where you stay "

cant quite get to grips with ' i love you long time " yet

Sorry but I have to call BS on that one.................. http://www.thaivisa....09#entry3892109

I think your GF is a selfish b!tch, interfering with your drinking like that. Tell her to get a MC taxi home and cook your supper after she has cleaned the house and done your ironing.

i agree but after she has washed the car and the motorbike and sucked ----------k for a couple of hours or so

Edited to make the link work..........

I do empathise with you on this. If only they could rouse these idle biatches earlier then the gogo's could open say ten o'clock morning. That way there would be no need to rush your beers in the afternoon, time for a big breakfast and maybe a short time in the soi 6 gym.

People never believe this, but it is a tough life being an expat but somebody just has to do it. Steel yourself my son, your rewards will manifest themselves in good time.