Where To Meet These "Nice" Thai Girls

[mark45y]

I used to frequent an internet shop owned by a lady who was also VP of an IT company. One day she was writing a business proposal and asked me to check her grammar. From that developed a relationship. She was only 28 and very attractive along with being rich. We went out a couple of times but I had the suspicion she was a lesbian so I stopped trying.

A special note to chunky. This is not England. I know you realize Thailand is a different culture and in a different place but in spite of your beliefs Thai women are not the same as English women. They don’t look the same. They don’t eat the same food. They don’t have the same morals. They don’t have the same aspirations and dreams. Thai women are the same as English women only in your head.

Actually most women are the same , regardless of Thai or Western.

Humans all have the same certain emotions and some cultural differences, but we are all pretty much programmed the same way.

You demonstrate the fact you have not lived in many different countries nor had relationships with many different women of different cultures. How many examples do you want? I have a degree in cultural anthropology. That is what the study of cultural anthropology is all about. The differences and the sameness of cultures.

Not only are you wrong, you are very wrong. Like I said I can give you one example or a thousand. But I think you would get bored. Have you ever made love to a Japanese woman? Have you ever made love to an African woman? Do they make the same sounds? Do they do the same things? Have you lived in a society where men have more than one wife legally? Do the women act different? In Swaziland how many husbands to women have? In China and Tibet do they have group marriages and do the women act the same as Irishwomen? What age do women commonly get married? Everywhere? How does that effect them? Are the marriages arranged or does the girl get to pick? Do all cultures like skinny women? How does that effect them? Do women live in a home with three generations or only with the husband and children? How does that work out? How is the wealth transferred? The oldest male? The oldest child? Who traditionally controls the money in the family? I'm just getting started. Do you really want me to go on?

[mark45y]

So you are in your fifties and want a casual relationmship with a much younger respectable Thai woman

Good news you are going to pay the dating cost --well isnt she the lucky one

the only one that willgo for that will be an ace scammer who will screw you left right and centre,and youll deserve all thats coming

There are two kinds of Thai women. The first kind wants the money up front the second kind has patience.

Sooner or later you will find this out. Have fun on your vacation.

If you are 25 there are two kinds of Thai women. The first kind wants the money up front the second kind has patience.

If you are 35 there are two kinds of Thai women. The first kind wants the money up front the second kind has patience.

If you are 55 there are two kinds of Thai women. The first kind wants the money up front the second kind has patience.

You get the idea. Did I mention enjoy your vacation?

[StreetCowboy]

A special note to chunky. This is not England. I know you realize Thailand is a different culture and in a different place but in spite of your beliefs Thai women are not the same as English women. They don't look the same. They don't eat the same food. They don't have the same morals. They don't have the same aspirations and dreams. Thai women are the same as English women only in your head.

Actually most women are the same , regardless of Thai or Western.

Humans all have the same certain emotions and some cultural differences, but we are all pretty much programmed the same way.

You demonstrate the fact you have not lived in many different countries nor had relationships with many different women of different cultures. How many examples do you want? I have a degree in cultural anthropology. That is what the study of cultural anthropology is all about. The differences and the sameness of cultures.

Not only are you wrong, you are very wrong. Like I said I can give you one example or a thousand. But I think you would get bored. Have you ever made love to a Japanese woman? Have you ever made love to an African woman? Do they make the same sounds? Do they do the same things? Have you lived in a society where men have more than one wife legally? Do the women act different? In Swaziland how many husbands to women have? In China and Tibet do they have group marriages and do the women act the same as Irishwomen? What age do women commonly get married? Everywhere? How does that effect them? Are the marriages arranged or does the girl get to pick? Do all cultures like skinny women? How does that effect them? Do women live in a home with three generations or only with the husband and children? How does that work out? How is the wealth transferred? The oldest male? The oldest child? Who traditionally controls the money in the family? I'm just getting started. Do you really want me to go on?

Oh, I feel really bad about stepping into this quagmire....

Taking consideration of the time to achieve meaningful change in characteristics through evolution:

In my view, human society (meaning after the neolithic age, when cultures began to get established) is not old enough (long enough) to have affected evolution. Therefore, people are the same, regardless of culture. However, the neolithic age and prior were sufficient to achieve some substantial divergence in characteristics - skin colour being the most obvious, though superficial one.

So: In my view, we are all pretty much the same, though people of different race might have differences other than skin colour - for example, I believe oriental children, and by extrapolation, adults, have a higher resting pulse rate than caucasians; I believe lactose intolerance is more prevalent in orientals. But these differences are probably as trivial as the colour of our skin; so in my view we are all pretty much the same. However, in the last hundred or two of generations, we have established quite divergent cultures. Regardless of the hardware, we are NOT programmed the same. That is the one thing that the user can easily tinker with, and we are not programmed the same. As Billy Connolly said ^*2- in the pre-software days - "what can be done by a man with a tap of a hammer or a twist of a screw, can be undone by man with a tap of a hammer or a twist of a screw...and I've no intention of flying through the air, with my trousers round my ankles."^*1

If you don't take an awareness of the programming, even simple machines that you thought you understood could leave you - metaphorically - sailing over the skies of Glasgow in a state of embarassing undress

SC

FOOTNOTES

*1 The last clause was irrelevant, but without it, the humour would have been - too indirect, or remote - by at least one step.

*2 The jobbie wheecher (your spelling may differ)

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Edited October 17, 2010 by StreetCowboy

[HermosaBeachGuy]

Ok, I can NOT complain about the few insulting demeaning replies here, since I thought the percentage of same would be MUCH higher, and I remain very grateful for the numerous well-intended replies. I'm fascinated by the cultural debate, and I come down squarely on the site of the anthropologist. Having lived in Indonesia for 7 years, and having been married in the US to a Chinese woman for 14 years, I also think that it's perhaps jaundiced to believe that all women have the same perspective/expectations when it comes to interactions with the opposite sex. I have noted numerous young Thai lady/older Thai man relationships in addition to the countless examples of same with farangs.

I do understand that by placing some limitations on what I'm willing to assume, in the way of financial responsibilities and marital commitment, I may be setting up an un-win-able preference. This is something that I'm reasonably confident that I can sort out on my own. I do have a job here, albeit more of a vocation. I did mention that before. The women with whom I work are, for the most part, very highly educated, most speak good English to work alongside the numerous expats. Several of them are quite young and attractive.

Not to agree with a few of the more mean-spirited posts (I can't help but feel sorry for anyone who's got that negative a view toward the lovely women who inhabit this country), and it's easy to dismiss someone who wishes me a good vacation, as they clearly didn't read my posts very closely, but I do understand that Thai women have a different degree of financial expectation when it comes to any male/female relationship. And I know this is heightened when it comes to us.

Still, I'm very satisfied to have gotten some very usable suggestions from this thread, and I'll leave you all at this juncture to continue your debate. Thank you again, and to those who have been so damaged that they can barely disguise their animosity for these women, my deepest sympathies.

[JimmyTheMook]

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I have a degree in cultural anthropology. That is what the study of cultural anthropology is all about. The differences and the sameness of cultures.

In China and Tibet do they have group marriages and do the women act the same as Irishwomen?

How does a Irishwomen act ?

Like an Irishman ?

[mark45y]

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I have a degree in cultural anthropology. That is what the study of cultural anthropology is all about. The differences and the sameness of cultures.

In China and Tibet do they have group marriages and do the women act the same as Irishwomen?

How does a Irishwomen act ?

Like an Irishman ?

Comparing an Irish Catholic woman's attitude toward sex and relationships with a Tibetan woman who is involved in a group marriage you would find a number of basic differences in attitude.

That was the point of my previous post. All women are not the same.

Thai women are not the same as women in England or America because of many cultural factors including religion, history and climate among others.

It may be easier for you to rationalize your lifestyle choices thinking they are the same. But although easier it is not accurate.

I realize your question about Irishwomen was an attempt to bait me so I will not respond. Even if I did respond you would have little chance of understanding what I said because if you don't know that Thai women are different than Irishwoman you must know little about Thailand.

Thai women are different that almost any other women on the planet.

Men from all over the world don't gather in Dublin to pursue the local flower of womanhood as lovely as Irishwomen may be. And we know from the many examples of happy marriages on Thai Visa to well educated Thai women that it is not only the naughty night life that attracts those men from all over the world.

[StreetCowboy]

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I have a degree in cultural anthropology. That is what the study of cultural anthropology is all about. The differences and the sameness of cultures.

In China and Tibet do they have group marriages and do the women act the same as Irishwomen?

How does a Irishwomen act ?

Like an Irishman ?

How does an Irishman act?

Does he act as well as well as William McGonnagall?

"The first man who ever threw peas at me was a publican..."

Oh, to be a great poet like the Rabbi Burns (JT will back me up on this - ooh err, steady on missus, you can't say that on a public forum!)

SC

PS

Ha ha - degrees! I've got a degree of intoxication from the Shah Alam Guinness brewery You need Three Degrees to get people singing, and anything less is just the third degree...

Edited October 19, 2010 by StreetCowboy

[JimmyTheMook]

Comparing an Irish Catholic woman's attitude toward sex and relationships with a Tibetan woman who is involved in a group marriage you would find a number of basic differences in attitude.

What if the lass was a bit of a Dirty Mary ?

Edited October 19, 2010 by JimmyTheMook