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I got a text from my Thai lady friend saying she thought she was pregnant this morning. I am always very careful using condoms so I was pretty confident she wasn't - but it got me thinking (like a text like this would). I was thinking, dam_n! I don't want any kids! Looks like I am going to have to donate some cash for the next 18 years or so.

So i was thinking of making her an offer she could not refuse... not that kind of an offer, but a cash settlement to go to a clinic to get rid of it i am sad to say. She earns 6500 a month at the restaurant she works at - but I think she would probably love a leuk krung of her own. I think she would take a cash offer as she has asked me twice now for some money in less than 2 months (one time 2000b to repair her mums motorbike - I refused both times).

How much do you think she would take.

let the flames begin!

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ALWAYS tell them you are fixed/sterile due to congenital (no pun intended) defect so they can't pull this trick.

And FYI although widely available, abortions are illegal in Thailand, thus discussing them here is probably going to attract some moderation.

But to answer your question...ask HER how much an abortion is. There is your answer.

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This is almost certainly a troll post, but on the off chance that it is true, you should first accompany her to the hospital where you can verify the pregnancy. If she isn't actually pregnant, problem solved.

Then explain to her that in week 15 of the pregnancy you will again accompany her to the hospital for an amniocentesis. That will be used to check the DNA and determine if you are truly the father. If you are not the father, again, problem solved, and it will only cost you a few thousand baht. Further, the girl, if this is actually a scam, will not see a single baht of that money. Until the results of the paternity test from the amnio are back, don't give her anything, and don't commit to anything. Just wait.

If she is pregnant and it is your child, then you are responsible and should think about how you are going to fulfil your responsibilities as a father. Abortions are illegal in Thailand except where there are medical conditions that warrant it. Beyond being simply immoral though, it would be cruel to the girl you impregnated to force her into that kind of a decision at such an emotionally charged time of her life. You should ask her what she wants to do and come to a mutually acceptable decision between the two of you. But be prepared that this decision may involve helping to raise the child you fathered. You can't escape your responsibility.

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Well, I got her round and made her do a pregnancy test - negative.

I also said before we did the test that i did not want a baby and she said she would get rid of it if i wanted her to.

Posted (edited)

You know the drill…………..'Nick' if it waddles and quacks it is most probably a……………….Yes...... Troll!

However having said the above if you're being genuine, you sound like a 'dream boat' based on what, and how you wrote your tail of woe, you don't paint a very good picture of yourself in your post, based on this I think she is the one that has dogged a bullet, not you mate.

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it was in general before, but they moved it.

She has dodged a bullet rather than dogged one.

She knows where she stands, I have told her she is one of 3 giks and she still want to see me (once a week as I try not to see her anymore, but yesterday was an exception as I wanted her to use the pregnancy test) - thought this was just how it goes down in Thailand? Has done for me since I arrived anyway. I don't want to settle down over here, all the girls I have been with (non bar girls) have played around as well in some way or other.

Posted

Wowww,

OP is an action man, when one look at the time stamps on his posts, and the actions already carried out.

By the way, IMO, OP is also a cheap man.

Posted

nickmanchester, being an action man and all. Why don't you just dump her? After all, she is just

your "Thai lady friend". :rolleyes:

Posted

Wowww,

OP is an action man, when one look at the time stamps on his posts, and the actions already carried out.

By the way, IMO, OP is also a cheap man.

I did say i'd pay up for the next 18 years if it did happen.

Posted

Wowww,

OP is an action man, when one look at the time stamps on his posts, and the actions already carried out.

By the way, IMO, OP is also a cheap man.

I did say i'd pay up for the next 18 years if it did happen.

You got a message she was pregnant this morning.

Same day you post that you manage to make her take a preg test.

That is action.

lol

Yes you said dam_n, you had to donate for the next 18.

Posted

Wowww,

OP is an action man, when one look at the time stamps on his posts, and the actions already carried out.

By the way, IMO, OP is also a cheap man.

I did say i'd pay up for the next 18 years if it did happen.

You got a message she was pregnant this morning.

Same day you post that you manage to make her take a preg test.

That is action.

lol

Yes you said dam_n, you had to donate for the next 18.

actually, I said dam_n I don't want any kids!

but anyway, you are right, I am a cheap man as well ;)

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