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You Just Died: Burial in Thailand, or back home?

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Just curious how connected people feel to Thailand and if it extends past the last breath. I'm not 100% sure myself as I've lived in alot of different places that I have some attachment to. Have you become so attached to Thailand that it's natural to stay, or do you worry about being forgotten if you're away from your roots?

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Cremation here. A body's just a body....

But I grew up in a family that has never bothered with funerals or other death ceremony.

My step-father died when we were on Shanghai on holiday a decade or so ago. (He had a heart attack and was hospitalized there for a month before he passed away.) My Mom had him cremated there, took the ashes home and scattered them in the garden.

I'd rather be spread in Sweden at the moment anyway. That doesnt mean I am not planning to stay in Thailand for long.

I'd like to go in the family pagoda up past Saraburi.

Everyone who sees it wants to be popped in there. It has a view over rice paddies and towards the mountains.

<...see , you're envying me my grave now!>

If and when I ever decide to retire in Thailand, I would still want to be buried back in my own country of my birth. I as much as I would like, no matter how many Thai women I marry, or half -Thai children I may have in the future, in the end, I just will never be truly connected to Thailand as a Thai would.

But since I may just decide to end up being cremated like Budhai, I may just have my ashes buried in more than just one country.... :o

Thailand is my home now... and when I die, I want to be cremated and my remains put in a little urn in the burial ground outside the temple in my missus' village... just like the Thais do.

My roots have been uprooted and I'm now firmly planted here... :o

Taoism: shit happens

Buddhism: if shit happens, it isn't really shit

Islam: if shit happens, it is the will of Allah

Catholicism: if shit happens, you deserve it

Judaism: why does this shit always happen to us?

Atheism: I don't believe this shit

Cremation here in Thailand. Not so much because I'm attached to Thailand, but because it's the most practical way to do it and the easiest/cheapest for anyone living who has to make the arrangements. I would choose "sky burial" (i.e. vultures) if it was still available in Thailand. Wat Saket used to do it, which is perhaps why there are many ghost stories about Wat Saket.

Let the soi dogs eat what ever's left of me, I don't care.

Sounds a bit morbid to me camerata, could you please explain why you would chose it?

Not that it matters much once you've snuffed the bucket I guess, but at first glance to me it seems a bit disrespectful of the vessel you used for your journeys in this world, even if it has stopped serving its purpose.

Is it because you like vultures and dont want them to starve?

I'm with Jaidee. Nice big funeral (but no gambling :o), cremation,then ashes in an urn at the local wat.

Let the soi dogs eat what ever's left of me, I don't care.

You know what, exactly the moment I finished reading that sentence, a heck of a racket started outside. I think they like the idea! :o

Cremate me here and then leave my ashes somewhere nice.

The Billion Bar would do.

I'm an oraganic gardener and large mammals are difficult to compost. I like the sky burial that camerata mentioned. Its probably the best way to support the natural environment...and god knows the natural environment is in desperate need of support these days.....one thing that shows how poorly we support the environment is the fact that sky burials are no longer allowed.

Cremate me, mix my ashes with cement, form it into blocks engraved with my name, and then place them in Soi Diamond.

Can't we have a nice cheerful topic for a Saturday morning?? I've got a bit of a morning head on me at the moment.........

Sky Burials are quite common in Bombay to this day at the Tower of Silence but you have to be a Parsee.

Provided that my parents go before me, I can't really see any reason to be sent home.

I've always wanted to be buried at sea... feed the crabs instead of the vultures.

Failing that, being cremated in Thailand and ashes dumped in the ocean would be OK too.

Sounds a bit morbid to me camerata, could you please explain why you would chose it?

Not that it matters much once you've snuffed the bucket I guess, but at first glance to me it seems a bit disrespectful of the vessel you used for your journeys in this world, even if it has stopped serving its purpose.

Is it because you like vultures and dont want them to starve?

No, I just like the idea of my body being used as food for other living things, which may then have offspring containing a small part of my (former) body, or perhaps will be eaten by other living creatures. Ultimately, the molecules that were once my body would be spread out over thousands or millions of living creatures. I can't think of a better purpose for an ex-body, really.

This kind of thing could be pretty rough on the next-of-kin, though. My GF is already threatening to have my ashes made into a bone china vase to remember me by, which I suppose is a kind of immortality (as long as no one drops me), but I think I'd prefer to have them scattered somewhere nice.

Toss me in a wood chipper aimed at a catfish pond. :o

My original plan was to be buried in a pine box with a mullbury tree planted on top. I can feed the tree and the tree can feed the birds. If I die in Thailand I'll go with cremation and then store me with the others.

I guess I'm going to have to think about this sometime in my life heck why not start now.

I saw how my family couldn't handle the thai cremation so I think I'd rather be taken back home then burnt and my ashes spread somewhere beautiful with a nice view. I couldn't be kept in a vase I see that as not letting a soul free. And afterwards not a big party or anything just a few glasses of red wine after for family and guests talking about happy memories.

I've always thought that funerals were not really about the person that died but more for the people that were left behind, so I dont really care, it will be up to my wife and family to do what ever makes them feel better. Which will probably mean a buddist funeral and then into the chedi in the garden.

I would like to specify that there would be lots of drinking and gambling at the funeral though :o

There was a news report recently that the actor who played Scotty in the Star Trek series is having his remains shot into space and scattered in orbit, where they will eventually fall to earth after a number of years.

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