alanb2 Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 (edited) And so I join the masses!!! Well, after three years with my Thai wife I can now finally confirm that I am joining the lied to, robbed, cheating on (repeatedly) and humiliated masses of foreigners with Thai wives. I should point out that we met in a bar (what can I say – it was my first trip to Pattaya…. I knew nothing….. lamb to the slaughter etc). Doesn’t make it any easier to take though; I won’t bore you with the depth of the betrayal… all I’ll say is that on top of it all, I feel like a complete fool! All came to a head 2 months ago now and happily I’m bearing up already. Knowing what an evil witch she really was has actually made it easier to realise that splitting with her is a bit like cutting a cancer out of my life… good riddance! I can’t believe all Pattaya girls are like this. I’ve read widely on the net (Stickman and the rest) and there is broad condemnation. The 'Pattaya-Adventures' website is also damning but does at least suggest that success is possible. Is there anyone at all out there that can claim to have found real long-term relationship success with a girl met in Pattaya??? Edited April 18, 2012 by metisdead Font reset to forum default font, use this when posting, it's easier to read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardholder Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I can't understand how you can have been married to a Thai for 3 years and not made use of the Thai Visa forum before........................................ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxme Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Perhaps is not where you find them more like how you find them. I would strongly advise reading any of Stickman's suggestions as he cannot be counted as anything more than a walking liability. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAMSOBAD Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Dream The Impossible Dream Another One Bites The Dust I Cant Get No...Satisfaction Help! So many great song titles to describe the Farang man-Pattaya woman relationship. Please add your two cents worth. Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Dream The Impossible Dream Another One Bites The Dust I Cant Get No...Satisfaction Help! So many great song titles to describe the Farang man-Pattaya woman relationship. Please add your two cents worth. Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com My favourite is " Love in vain " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Hmmmm, perhaps you should have visited this forum BEFORE your leg over eh. BUT, for you, life will go on and you can look back and see stuff. DO NOT make the same mistake again. Read between the lines and do not ignore any warning signs eh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Since you're talking about Pattaya, let's move this on over the Pattaya forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAMSOBAD Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I Left My Heart...In Soi Bukao If you Cant Be With The One you Love...Drug The One Youre With! Thats a bar girl favorite. Once Twice Three Times a Ladyboy Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wana Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 you forgot to tell us ,even though you met in a bar ........she only had popped in for a quick mineral water on her way home from a meeting with the board of directors of the multinational corporation her hi-soc chinese family owns ...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boater Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Is there anyone at all out there that can claim to have found real long-term relationship success with a girl met in Pattaya??? TV Members only marry / Date the HI SO of Bangkok .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arthurwait Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Has there been threads like this before ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardholder Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Has there been threads like this before ? Occasionally 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huayrat Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Not all the girls are like that.. Ive met a nice girl from there who now is my wife.. been together 2 years and does not lie , cheat or steal.. goodluck to you and remember there are bad ones and good ones allover the world.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petercool Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 We only the hear the horror stories and the successes are rarely talked of so a very biased view is there. It is not so easy for retired men in Pattaya to meet girls who are working in a bank or an office whereas those living and more normally working in Bangkok get to meet many in their daily working life. However, I know many men who have had very successful relationships for many years that started right here in Pattaya regardless of where they first met. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aneliane Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 You married a girl in the Biggest Brothel in the World and it does not work out? I'm shocked ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spalpeen Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 "Ain't no love in the heart of the city", Whitesnake. . To the OP, learn from your mistakes and roll the dice again. You're not going to live forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
easyride Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I'm sure that most bar girls are here merely to assist their families back home or escape the life there. Pattaya's streets are paved with fat, rich farang just ready for plucking (I know, I know). Similarly Beach Road is packed with katoeys who can't prance around in Nackon Nowhere. That's Pattaya! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Markland Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 (edited) marrying a prostitute never works out well heck marrying in general is insane old men marrying girls that are decades younger then them denying them there youth note to anyone who is with a girl decades younger then you she does not love you she loves your monaaaaayyyyyyyyy Edited April 18, 2012 by Markland Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiola Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 (edited) jeez, why you guys mess with whores in bars, i cant believe it. She must have personality of a whore from the start. And be agressive and stuff. I date regular chicks only. From shops, see them in the streets etc. Why mess with whores. But f them, they can be good in bed. I had a freebie last week, she invited me to her condo in pratumnak, i though well she is a regular chick, but her colored hair kind of got me thinking. When i came to her room she soon told me she is a go go dancer. And later that she goes with men to home. I used my technique to get her naked pretty much soon. Easy job. After rumble in the bed, she told me to give her some money. I was thinking you are stupid girl. I will not pay you anything. I gave her 50 bht. I did not know she was a whore, cute one, bust still ok to get a freebie. I will never mary whore, in fact I will never get married. Loosing a house hurts more than loosing love but god bless Thailand, i have so many chicks in 1 month that I would get is stupid europe in all my life. they love falang, but play their game, it is a game to play, but americanos aint better, they will divorce you and you will loose half. At least in my small europea country the divorce is not a common thing. Maybe like 10 % of couples get divorced. How much is the rate here I wonder... Edited April 18, 2012 by radiola Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 splitting with her is a bit like cutting a cancer out of my life… good riddance! There are a lot of men that have felt like that at the end of a relationship throughout the world. You will be fine, carry on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wana Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 note to anyone who is with a girl decades younger then you she does not love you she loves your monaaaaayyyyyyyyy have never heard this before .....plz elaborate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wana Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 but god bless Thailand, i have so many chicks in 1 month that I would get is stupid europe in all my life. this is a reflection on yourself ,not thailand ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BugJackBaron Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Farngs who marry educated middle or upper class thai ladies have more chance of success... Yes you can meet them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigJohnnyBKK Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 While it isn't impossible, hunting for a sincere girl in p2p areas really reduces your odds so much IMO it isn't worth it. If you don't mind uneducated peasant girls, PM me for a sure-fire formula. Nothing new for those that know me, I just don't want to retype all the same old boring stuff again for public debate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovelaos Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I can't understand how you can have been married to a Thai for 3 years and not made use of the Thai Visa forum before........................................ Really? So you think that everyone who is married to a Thai woman uses this forum? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Markland Posted April 18, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted April 18, 2012 I can't understand how you can have been married to a Thai for 3 years and not made use of the Thai Visa forum before........................................ Really? So you think that everyone who is married to a Thai woman uses this forum? The smart ones don't use this forum. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropo Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 Not all the girls are like that.. Ive met a nice girl from there who now is my wife.. been together 2 years and does not lie , cheat or steal.. goodluck to you and remember there are bad ones and good ones allover the world.. It's still early days for you. At 2 years the OP was probably still happy, not knowing about the cheating, stealing, lying etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropo Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 marrying a prostitute never works out well heck marrying in general is insane old men marrying girls that are decades younger then them denying them there youth note to anyone who is with a girl decades younger then you she does not love you she loves your monaaaaayyyyyyyyy My wife is nearly 3 decades younger. There is wisdom in what you've said. One of the difficult things is to try not to deny then their youth. She wants to go out and play with water - I don't. You have to compromise. I know one thing for sure - she don't love me for my money because I don't have much. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropo Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 jeez, why you guys mess with whores in bars, i cant believe it. She must have personality of a whore from the start. And be agressive and stuff. I date regular chicks only. From shops, see them in the streets etc. Why mess with whores. You probably are messing with whores, it's just that you don't know it... not all whores work in bars...or maybe they go with you because you're so good looking. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manarak Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I can't understand how you can have been married to a Thai for 3 years and not made use of the Thai Visa forum before........................................ 1+1 = ... I suspect OP made his post solely to promote the website pattaya-adventures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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