With the kid in the house the romance is surely finished. Wonder if you say no if she will find somone to take the kid. Sad situation really and you are dating mommy and that has baggage but you need not adopt a family. No way id put that kid or her in.my book.

Best of luck -really.

BillD - you are 68! This guy is 50.

Why is the romance finished if there is a child in the house?

What difference does my age make?

Not much opportunity for sex, as they are awake and running around all the time.

(and sleep in the bed with you, which sort of puts me off)

So I think the point was at 68 you don't do it much (if at all), so once a month won't bother you.

But at 50, most guys like to do it every day.

Edited September 15, 201213 yr by TommoPhysicist

With the kid in the house the romance is surely finished. Wonder if you say no if she will find somone to take the kid. Sad situation really and you are dating mommy and that has baggage but you need not adopt a family. No way id put that kid or her in.my book.

Best of luck -really.

BillD - you are 68! This guy is 50.

Why is the romance finished if there is a child in the house?

What difference does my age make?

Not much opportunity for sex, as they are awake and running around all the time.

(and sleep in the bed with you, which sort of puts me off)

So I think the point was at 68 you don't do it much (if at all), so once a month won't bother you.

But at 50, most guys like to do it every day.

I thought you hated agism remarks ?

I thought you hated agism remarks ?

Reduced libido due to age affects us all ....... nothing to do with ageism.

Send 5000 bt every month back to the family and they will care for the child. It will cost you that much anyway and you will retain your same happy life. Also, then you'll know for sure, it was only about the money.

Send 5000 bt every month back to the family and they will care for the child. It will cost you that much anyway and you will retain your same happy life. Also, then you'll know for sure, it was only about the money.

Even better, let the girlfriend send 5k back every month.