chiangmaikelly Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 for the record i must say again, those of all ages who are happy, thats fantastic really. Ijust have little time for those being obviously fooled of all ages, who cannot or refuse to see it. I am man enough to admit fault, perhaps it is not age only, many young are fooled to, but i get annoyed by theones so obviously being played yet ignore it out of fear of losing her or whatever. Why does it annoy you? small things annoy everyone, admit it. I am honest enough to, they annoy the hell out of me. It does my head in, how grown men can fall for such obvious lies, not even good lies, not even believable. Thatsannoying to me, maybe not you, Someone should whisper in his ear That if he didn’t pay He might just find his lady love Would soon be on her way. He wallows in her loving gaze So puppy-dog serene Serenity for her of course His ATM machine. Someone should whisper in his ear That if he didn’t pay He might just find his lady love Would soon be on her way. He wallows in her loving gaze So puppy-dog serene Serenity for her of course His ATM machine. But he might whisper in our ears “Well, don’t you think I know? I made my choice and so will you With fewer years to go.” I’m not so sure what to make of him There is no guiding rule I wonder if he could be both A wise man and a fool. He turns his head to pay the bill And suddenly I see It’s a mirror on the wall The silly old man is me. http://www.fredoneverything.net/DeanBarrett.shtml 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 It does my head in, how grown men can fall for such obvious lies, not even good lies, not even believable. It is annoying, but at some time or another we were all guilty. I certainly was. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geekfreaklover Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 No fool like an old fool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 No fool like an old fool. But he might whisper in our ears “Well, don’t you think I know? I made my choice and so will you With fewer years to go.” I’m not so sure what to make of him There is no guiding rule I wonder if he could be both A wise man and a fool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. A friend of a friend is on his fifth Thai wife, they've all had a house off him, still living with number 5 in the house he bought in her name ....... they hate each other, but he doesn't have any money left. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. Bit similar to internet Trolls, it's foolish, even more foolish than an old guy getting laid, they won't get hurt though, they're anonymous, but just the same, I'm asking myself why they do it. Edited October 1, 2012 by Banzai99 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. A friend of a friend is on his fifth Thai wife, they've all had a house off him, still living with number 5 in the house he bought in her name ....... they hate each other, but he doesn't have any money left. There are many that will never learn but it certainly does not annoy me like it annoys payak. I may pity them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. I know of two people who would repetitively endure this financial and emotional treatment. One guy was 22, hooked up with a bar girl. Loved her, she had other customers, he moved in with her (because the guys he shared the company house with refused to let her move in with them). Threatened to commit suicide off the second story !, repetitively made a pratt of himself. Never had any money because he blew it all on his BG. He was fired after less than a year in country. Another guy was about 60, I’m not sure what type of woman he was with I only heard his story (First hand). She’d gambled away the car and house, he’d bought her another car and house. She’d been caught in affairs a number of times. His son was not his (from another affair). But he said he didn’t want to leave her ! I worked with both of these guys. In short they were real losers and both refused to accept or listen to reality. After a few short dealings with them I had to tell both of them not to tell me their stories, I’m not interested in their lives. I simply didn’t want to hear any more of their stupidity. The sad part is the older guy was nice. The younger guy was a real cock and deserved his demise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
true blue Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 have you seen those however who just continue doing it, get hurt, really hurt with tears and all. then do something even more foolish, wind up hurt again, and when you start asking yourself what the f, they do it again. A friend of a friend is on his fifth Thai wife, they've all had a house off him, still living with number 5 in the house he bought in her name ....... they hate each other, but he doesn't have any money left. might have no money,but boy what memories,marry in haste repent at leisure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
true blue Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 A Thai man I know from my work has a wife and several children, he seldom goes anywhere with his wife and kids, he socialises with a group of Thai men, mostly married, they deliberately drink at restaurants / venues where there are 'Chang / Leo etc beer girls' and it's basically a competition of who can get the most 'beer girls' into bed. Sounds fantastic some people are indeed lucky. why not you and me? oh yes chang beer ladies,one day my fantasties will come true,thai men dont no how lucky they are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 true blue, I dont think he will be living in leisure with a wife he hates and no money, and I dont think after 5 wives his memories will be good ones. so hasty decisions are wasted decisions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JUDAS Posted October 1, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 1, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. Maybe because those people are not so happy after all 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 so why is it everytime we post, it somehow means our relationship is not a happy one. thats a poor defence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post payak Posted October 1, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 1, 2012 do you realise that good thai girls in real relationships are judged and looked down on often by people simply because they are thai. this is a direct result of the behavior of bar girls and girls who use men and act like leeches, and men who support it. its not about being unhappy in a relationship, mines been going strong for years, but peoples actions are reflecting on good thai people, and many westerners push tose actions right along because they are deviates. so why should it not annoy me, to many good thai girls, and there are many are misjudged. when a fool enters a relationship thats not real, he feeds the thai stereotype, nothing to do with age,same are real as i said, but most are not. again to the real ones like pigeon jake, more power to you. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elektrified Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 Oh god....more of the same old BS. This has been done to death. get a life. ....and furthermore, I strongly suspect your bar was under a rather rickety old bridge Yep! same as I thought, just another way of having a Pop at the old fellas with gorgeous young wives or GFs, YaaawwwN. No one is having a "pop" at the old fellas. Just don't don't understand why fellas "old or young" choose to marry prostitutes. Would you marry a prostitute back in your home country? I wouldn't marry a dirty prostitute here or in any country of the world! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 Oh god....more of the same old BS. This has been done to death. get a life. ....and furthermore, I strongly suspect your bar was under a rather rickety old bridge Yep! same as I thought, just another way of having a Pop at the old fellas with gorgeous young wives or GFs, YaaawwwN. No one is having a "pop" at the old fellas. Just don't don't understand why fellas "old or young" choose to marry prostitutes. Would you marry a prostitute back in your home country? I wouldn't marry a dirty prostitute here or in any country of the world! See? Young people... Personally, I blame the parents for not bringing them up properly. We need someone with old-fashioned values and a good pedagogical pedigree to put these fellows straight. Where's Kelly when you need him... SC 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 do you realise that good thai girls in real relationships are judged and looked down on often by people simply because they are thai. this is a direct result of the behavior of bar girls and girls who use men and act like leeches, and men who support it. its not about being unhappy in a relationship, mines been going strong for years, but peoples actions are reflecting on good thai people, and many westerners push tose actions right along because they are deviates. so why should it not annoy me, to many good thai girls, and there are many are misjudged. when a fool enters a relationship thats not real, he feeds the thai stereotype, nothing to do with age,same are real as i said, but most are not. again to the real ones like pigeon jake, more power to you. IMHO. happy people are not so judgemental, and between the "good " and the "bad " people there are infinite shades of grey. Before pointing the finger, have a look in the mirror, and be sure you are perfect.. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 do you realise that good thai girls in real relationships are judged and looked down on often by people simply because they are thai. this is a direct result of the behavior of bar girls and girls who use men and act like leeches, and men who support it. its not about being unhappy in a relationship, mines been going strong for years, but peoples actions are reflecting on good thai people, and many westerners push tose actions right along because they are deviates. so why should it not annoy me, to many good thai girls, and there are many are misjudged. when a fool enters a relationship thats not real, he feeds the thai stereotype, nothing to do with age,same are real as i said, but most are not. again to the real ones like pigeon jake, more power to you. IMHO. happy people are not so judgemental, and between the "good " and the "bad " people there are infinite shades of grey. Before pointing the finger, have a look in the mirror, and be sure you are perfect.. there is a different between being imperfect, and being an outright disgrace to yourself, your family, and your nation yes, but you obviously dont see it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. We can agree to disagree then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. usery is a whole different thing then fulfilling each other as partners, its not even in the same ball park. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scully Posted October 1, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. usery is a whole different thing then fulfilling each other as partners, its not even in the same ball park. "Usery" You mean sometimes one is gaining more than the other ?. If a man is being used by a cheating, lying cow then he doesn't annoy me, she does. Thai girls don't in my opinion (as you say) get looked upon as bad because they are just Thai. They all get judged by their appearance and actions. Maybe I dont hang around with the same people as the usual tv users do but I have met many older men with younger wives that have both seemed happy. I am under 40 and am quite happy to admit that an older man may have qualities that I don't have. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. usery is a whole different thing then fulfilling each other as partners, its not even in the same ball park. "Usery" You mean sometimes one is gaining more than the other ?. If a man is being used by a cheating, lying cow then he doesn't annoy me, she does. Thai girls don't in my opinion (as you say) get looked upon as bad because they are just Thai. They all get judged by their appearance and actions. Maybe I dont hang around with the same people as the usual tv users do but I have met many older men with younger wives that have both seemed happy. I am under 40 and am quite happy to admit that an older man may have qualities that I don't have. BS, just admit that there is a nasty stigma attached to thai ladies, be honest one time. you could not possibly sit here and deny many people look down at thai ladies, regardless of what they do or wear. and it's sad, surely you see it, she could be the sweatest and best dressed girl, someone will say somewhere behind your back, oh i wonder where they really met. and if there is no stigma read these forums, isan ones most of all. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatballs Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 Every lady likes money. Men love sexy young ladies. They both have something they want and can offer one another. Right? It's just human nature. I met my wife in Thailand. She sold some clothes on the strees in Pattaya. But she needs money. Every lady out there is loooking for baht to support herself and her family. It's the way in Thailand and all over the world. Stop blaming the women. If you can't afford them don't get yourself involved with them. It's like a car. If you can't afford a Mercedes don't but one. Simple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post smokie36 Posted October 1, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. usery is a whole different thing then fulfilling each other as partners, its not even in the same ball park. Many on here will never understand the concept of becoming stronger and happier together with a woman. Its why they moved to Thailand in the first place. Don't waste your time labouring the point. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 Every lady likes money. Men love sexy young ladies. They both have something they want and can offer one another. Right? It's just human nature. I met my wife in Thailand. She sold some clothes on the strees in Pattaya. But she needs money. Every lady out there is loooking for baht to support herself and her family. It's the way in Thailand and all over the world. Stop blaming the women. If you can't afford them don't get yourself involved with them. It's like a car. If you can't afford a Mercedes don't but one. Simple. if you fall in love you dont need to buy anything, girls are not items to be bought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonjake Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 in my eyes smokie, this has been done to death again, some will allways come on here and pull, not only bar girls down but also if your wife dresses nice she,ll get pulled down too, theres never any mention of all the sexpat experts who come here for one thing only,, to fukc these girls, what does that say about them,?? there is allways two sides to every story, should be a topic, how many girls you fukced on your last visit, must make them feel very proud of themselfs, fullfiling what they cant do in the home country, jake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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