Popular Post payak Posted October 1, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 1, 2012 i agree, the sexpats and sex tourists are the root of the problem, I myself am a one lady man. she's enough for me,how could i face her and my children if i screw around when she is so good to me. i dont see much respect for thai woman in here, 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 and when i say sexpats, imnot refering to expats Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Wise words......and @Jake...each to their own mate....not my cup of tea but there it is for those who want it...let them enjoy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. In all relationships people use each other, if we didn't gain anything we would all stay single. usery is a whole different thing then fulfilling each other as partners, its not even in the same ball park. Many on here will never understand the concept of becoming stronger and happier together with a woman. Its why they moved to Thailand in the first place. Don't waste your time labouring the point. My post says we use each other, that's all. It maybe to gain love, kids companionship or even happiness. Only saying. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonjake Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 smokie, ive been saying each to there own for most of the time ive been a member on TV and that been a long time, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I wouldn't marry a dirty prostitute here or in any country of the world! How about a clean one? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisinth Posted October 2, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 2, 2012 being that i only judged people in false relationships, using each other. only people here in such a situation could be upset. I think you are judging people on what you conceive to be false relationships. I don't think you (or anyone else for that matter) are qualified for this. I know a gentleman that has been married twice, has five children. He has just recently married again, to a Thai boy in Vietnam. This guy lead his life outwardly appearing happy in his previous marriages while all the time hiding the fact that he was gay. Peer pressure! I know couples (foriegner/Thai, Thai/Thai) that outwardly seem to have the perfect relationship. Out of the public eye, they need to be locked in seperate rooms to avoid physical injury inflicted by each other. I know bargirls and punters that are in long term temporary relationships (if that makes sense), both understanding the situation that they are in, and never expecting more from that situation. They are extremely happy people! What you see on the outside is not neccessarily what is! Never judge a book by it's cover. It really is a fcuked up world, but what is seen as utopia for one doesn't mean it is paradice for another; everyone is different. As for the people conned and duped, that is another story. If they can't recognise that fact, or when they do recognise it and don't do anything about it, who really is at fault? It is a tango of life; takes two to do it! Just sayin'...................... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisinth Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I wouldn't marry a dirty prostitute here or in any country of the world! How about a clean one? Clean of body, filthy of mind doesn't sound that bad.............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I wouldn't marry a dirty prostitute here or in any country of the world! How about a clean one? Did I miss that one? Did anyone mention they have showere on stage at many places in Pattaya. I always wondered why and now I now. Thai Visa comes through again, INformatin you can use every day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post maxme Posted October 2, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Perhaps it has something to do with the rising racism and stereotyping which come with the increasingly number of tourists visiting here but could also have something to do with stricter immigrant laws that make it harder even on honest mixed couples who are trying to live in the west How many of tourists and even law makers don't base the rules and laws on heresay? I find these kind of judgments racist and uneducated but hey... if you can beat them then you join them right? Edited October 2, 2012 by maxme 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Perhaps it has something to do with the rising racism and stereotyping which come with the increasingly number of tourists visiting here but could also have something to do with stricter immigrant laws that make it harder even on honest mixed couples who are trying to live in the west How many of tourists and even law makers don't base the rules and laws on heresay? I find these kind of judgments racist and uneducated but hey... if you can beat them then you join them right? exactly, i may not be in a position to judge who or what relationship is real, but i never pointed to a specific couple anyway. but yes laws and minds are affected by behaviors, because we have to prove we are not one of them, guilty till proven innocent. it does affect us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovelaos Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Perhaps it has something to do with the rising racism and stereotyping which come with the increasingly number of tourists visiting here but could also have something to do with stricter immigrant laws that make it harder even on honest mixed couples who are trying to live in the west How many of tourists and even law makers don't base the rules and laws on heresay? I find these kind of judgments racist and uneducated but hey... if you can beat them then you join them right? exactly, i may not be in a position to judge who or what relationship is real, but i never pointed to a specific couple anyway. but yes laws and minds are affected by behaviors, because we have to prove we are not one of them, guilty till proven innocent. it does affect us. Well you're doing a pretty good (or bad) job of judging people's relationships so far on this and the other thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nietzche Posted October 2, 2012 Author Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 payak The people that think Thai women are like this do not bother me, I just put it down to a very narrow mind. It does happen and I admit it however personally I judge people by their appearance and actions. You are obviously happy in your relationship and that is what we all want so why worry ? Perhaps it has something to do with the rising racism and stereotyping which come with the increasingly number of tourists visiting here but could also have something to do with stricter immigrant laws that make it harder even on honest mixed couples who are trying to live in the west How many of tourists and even law makers don't base the rules and laws on heresay? I find these kind of judgments racist and uneducated but hey... if you can beat them then you join them right? exactly, i may not be in a position to judge who or what relationship is real, but i never pointed to a specific couple anyway. but yes laws and minds are affected by behaviors, because we have to prove we are not one of them, guilty till proven innocent. it does affect us. Well you're doing a pretty good (or bad) job of judging people's relationships so far on this and the other thread. thankyou, i shall keep up the good work then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. I 'm not some old maid busybody sneaking a peek through the keyhole at a normal man and woman. I don't have an opinion because I am a gentleman. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoDogz Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Would you marry a prostitute back in your home country? Yes, I would, as long as she accepted my previous life too. Why does being a prostitute make someone a bad person? I wouldn't say so. But it certainly isn't something you should put on your C.V. Why not ? It might get you the job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. Everybody with a brain have opinions, men and women too..One may change opinion as well, it's a sign of development. However, some people may choose not to express their opinion because they respect other people choices, it's a sign of politeness. In short, " live and let live " Just saying.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoDogz Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? even writers have editors, who sits there and re checks every word, those who fear the spell police. spell police = someone who is lacking confidence, and must scrape the bottom of the barrell looking for a fault. if you can read it its right, that what communication is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoDogz Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? even writers have editors, who sits there and re checks every word, those who fear the spell police. spell police = someone who is lacking confidence, and must scrape the bottom of the barrell looking for a fault. if you can read it its right, that what communication is. and don't forget to be dressed appropriately to be a spell policer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
londoedan Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? even writers have editors, who sits there and re checks every word, those who fear the spell police. spell police = someone who is lacking confidence, and must scrape the bottom of the barrell looking for a fault. if you can read it its right, that what communication is. Hmmmm, wouldn't know where to start with this characters spelling, punctuation, grammar, etc.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? even writers have editors, who sits there and re checks every word, those who fear the spell police. spell police = someone who is lacking confidence, and must scrape the bottom of the barrell looking for a fault. if you can read it its right, that what communication is. Hmmmm, wouldn't know where to start with this characters spelling, punctuation, grammar, etc.. Why don't you start on another forum. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JUDAS Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. You are off course entitled to your opinion regarding my manhood, something I see no need in proving to you. A man who has an opinion and feels the need to voice it on every subject under the sun is usually, in my "opinion" not worth listening too. Who am I to judge another man's relationship? What gives me the right? I'm not going to belittle a man's wife/partner online because I wouldn't do it to his face. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. You are off course entitled to your opinion regarding my manhood, something I see no need in proving to you. A man who has an opinion and feels the need to voice it on every subject under the sun is usually, in my "opinion" not worth listening too. Who am I to judge another man's relationship? What gives me the right? I'm not going to belittle a man's wife/partner online because I wouldn't do it to his face. you are right, but i never say anything here i will not say to someones face, so am i wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 live and let live, but what if there behavior affects others. Like your spelling will on some of the spell police about in here ? even writers have editors, who sits there and re checks every word, those who fear the spell police. spell police = someone who is lacking confidence, and must scrape the bottom of the barrell looking for a fault. if you can read it its right, that what communication is. Hmmmm, wouldn't know where to start with this characters spelling, punctuation, grammar, etc.. I see you've lent him one of your apostrophes already, and a dot from your last ellipsis.I always double-check my own writing when I criticise that of others, and even then, it's not normally enough to avoid embarrassment. Thank Heavens Bill Gates can spell embarrassment, eh? I had to look ellipsis up as well. SC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoDogz Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Every time I come across one of these threads, which is actually fairly regularly, I'm always left wondering why so many people feel the need to comment on, or even judge other relationships. I'm more than happy with my life, wife and kids to feel the need to put someone else down for what I may perceive to be a "flaw" in their relationship. You've never commented or had an opinion on someone else's relationship? A man that does not have an opinion is not a man. You are off course entitled to your opinion regarding my manhood, something I see no need in proving to you. A man who has an opinion and feels the need to voice it on every subject under the sun is usually, in my "opinion" not worth listening too. Who am I to judge another man's relationship? What gives me the right? I'm not going to belittle a man's wife/partner online because I wouldn't do it to his face. you are right, but i never say anything here i will not say to someones face, so am i wrong What about a member that sends you a PM like this... 'Is your mother still sucking Aboriginals off for grog money' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BookMan Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 What about a member that sends you a PM like this... 'Is your mother still sucking Aboriginals off for grog money' Clearly anyone that sends a message like that is imbalanced 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoDogz Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 What about a member that sends you a PM like this... 'Is your mother still sucking Aboriginals off for grog money' Clearly anyone that sends a message like that is imbalanced I tend to agree, but they were the nice words that he was trying to sweet talk me with. You should see the rest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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