noob7 Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I once parked a car in a street in Khon Kaen. I was not blocking any entrance and did not see any warning signs. After doing some shopping I came back to find both my front door locks had been injected with glue. Had to get two new locks fitted. I can understand why Michael chose to feel annoyed by the ladies inconsiderate parking but one of the ladies did say sorry and as already pointed out by others it was not reasonable to say "you Thai people have no manners". The words "Thai people" should have been omitted; (obviously many Thai people do have manners, including Michael's son I assume). I am not claiming to be "holier than thou" - I once made a similar mistake in another forum when I referred to "the Chinese...". It was explained to me that I was guilty of "ethnic stereotyping" or some such term; similar to being racist. I was not being politically correct. Even now, I still sometimes find myself being politically incorrect. I like Bananabender's reply - perhaps he's right! JB 1. you parked in front of someones house, for sure! this fighting 'before my fence, only I/friends can park my/his/her car' is like a Adam and Eve story. Haven't in Europe, 40 years ago, me think I remember, too! 2. Why do you worry? U don't have a remote for the car? Also: The cheap superglue isn't water resistant. Need a while but....! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jbrain Posted October 2, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) Thank you for you replies. I didn't lay it on thick at all. The whole conversation was over in about 1 minute. At least once a week I get home from work and find a car parked across my gateway. Usually the driver rushes over, apologizes, gives a wai and I smile and say no problem and that is that. I am well known in this community. It was the attitude of these ladies that they had done no wrong that caused me to say that they had no manners. Ok I shouldn't have said you Thai people have no manners, I also should have smiled and laughed when I said it. But what concerns me is the deep seated resentment expressed in the letter. Is this typical of the middle-class mindset in Thailand? For saying something, I am evil, a birdshit farang who comes to Thailand to make it dirty? My American friend in Ubon says many people here think like this. I have never met any kind of person like this before in my life. Mr Hare, I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience, and I'm sure that if you live here for such an extended time that this is not the first similar event you encountered.It just proves that no matter how long you live here,no matter how well you mix into society and financially support them or how many resident permits you carry,if you just say one single word wrong one time, their real hate against foreigners shows up. It should be another lesson for those members with rose tinted goggles, that they will never be a Thai and that in fact they will always be hated deep inside. Edited October 2, 2012 by jbrain 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeeya Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I don't know about this assumption that thai's tip toe around situations like this. My wife would go apeshit at the old ladies and id be the one telling her to calm down! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I don't know about this assumption that thai's tip toe around situations like this. My wife would go apeshit at the old ladies and id be the one telling her to calm down! It's OK for a Thai, not good, but OK and the perpetrators will take note. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike123ca Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Forget it. Life is too short to be wasting time thinking about a Thai woman that has issues with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JungleBiker Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 1. you parked in front of someones house, for sure! this fighting 'before my fence, only I/friends can park my/his/her car' is like a Adam and Eve story. Haven't in Europe, 40 years ago, me think I remember, too! So you think it's okay to put glue in people's door locks? Wouldn't it be better to put up a sign or say something? 2. Why do you worry? U don't have a remote for the car? No. Also: The cheap superglue isn't water resistant. Need a while but....! I don't know if it was superglue. Was I supposed to take a sample and send it to a laboratory for analysis? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noob7 Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) No offense! So you think it's okay to put glue in people's door locks? Wouldn't it be better to put up a sign or say something? No, it's kind of childish! Also there is no such thing, that the parking space before the house belong to the house! Only the gateway is a 'no park, if you not belong to the house' area! But I tried to point out, that this thinking shouldn't be totally new, even to us Farang. And now think, where we are, in timeline, here in Thailand: Everyone gets cars, but no one has space, to park them! No. I was thinking so, but again, no offense, ok? It's kind of funny, wasn't it? At super cheap, remote cost less than 1000 baht! How much did you pay for the locks? Also: The cheap superglue isn't water resistant. Need a while but....! I don't know if it was superglue. Was I supposed to take a sample and send it to a laboratory for analysis? It's the most available glue, in Thailand. Cheap and easy to use for locks 'injection', cause it comes with this funny tip. And it has a typical smell, I think. But anyway, most people not even knowing, what superglue was meant for, before they sold it as superglue. I apologize for making a kind of a joke out of it. Edited October 2, 2012 by noob7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huayrat Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 seems to be plent of bird shit hitting the farang .. get urself in the shower it takes the paint off u know ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Btw:For the future, you can try the 'water bottles' -thing. I see it everywhere around. And looks like, it is working! Does it work for unwanted cars ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noob7 Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Btw:For the future, you can try the 'water bottles' -thing. I see it everywhere around. And looks like, it is working! Does it work for unwanted cars ? probably the question will be: What's placed at first? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elwood Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Thank you for you replies. I didn't lay it on thick at all. The whole conversation was over in about 1 minute. At least once a week I get home from work and find a car parked across my gateway. Usually the driver rushes over, apologizes, gives a wai and I smile and say no problem and that is that. I am well known in this community. It was the attitude of these ladies that they had done no wrong that caused me to say that they had no manners. Ok I shouldn't have said you Thai people have no manners, I also should have smiled and laughed when I said it. But what concerns me is the deep seated resentment expressed in the letter. Is this typical of the middle-class mindset in Thailand? For saying something, I am evil, a birdshit farang who comes to Thailand to make it dirty? My American friend in Ubon says many people here think like this. I have never met any kind of person like this before in my life. Mr Hare, I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience, and I'm sure that if you live here for such an extended time that this is not the first similar event you encountered.It just proves that no matter how long you live here,no matter how well you mix into society and financially support them or how many resident permits you carry,if you just say one single word wrong one time, their real hate against foreigners shows up. It should be another lesson for those members with rose tinted goggles, that they will never be a Thai and that in fact they will always be hated deep inside. I've lived here for 16 years and, although during that time I must have said a few wrong words to Thais, I certainly do not feel hated. Don't you think you are going just a tad over the top with those remarks? Fair enough if you feel hated, but please don't include all expats in your group. Now you can blast me for wearing those rose-tinted glasses! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gk10002000 Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 I see too often Thais rationalize things away. Look at all the thiefs they catch that then say things such as: " i was unhappy and wanted money to go party". the more I go there the more "deflections" and fallacious reasoning I see them try to apply. All that is fine, except when they turn it around and then do the same to others. Oh well. Still is one heck of a place to visit and vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kruangfaifar Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 To the OP I dont understand what the big deal is. If they took the time to write to you to complain it suggests that they handled it in a very civil way. In many countries you might have got a lot worse. I also have a feeling that your behaviour was a lot worse than you admit to. Your attempt to make judgements against the whole nation and reference them as if they are inferior speak volumes Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David006 Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 this happens every place in the world...must admit to doing it myself for that 10 minute errand.....the usual thing is to park your car to stop egress of the offending vehicle for an hour or so..won't stop it for others but the short term revenge factor may help...of course it may get keyed.... When I was a kid my dad used to have a hissy fit at people turning round in our driveway in the UK......very entertaining. My wife won't let me park in font/beside food stalls ....she says it is because of the exhaust fumes.....then later when she thinks I am not looking the plastic bag goes out the window...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SantiSuk Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 (edited) Mr Hare, I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience, and I'm sure that if you live here for such an extended time that this is not the first similar event you encountered. It just proves that no matter how long you live here,no matter how well you mix into society and financially support them or how many resident permits you carry,if you just say one single word wrong one time, their real hate against foreigners shows up. It should be another lesson for those members with rose tinted goggles, that they will never be a Thai and that in fact they will always be hated deep inside. "Never be a Thai" (or accepted as a resident) = realistic "Always be hated deep inside" = paranoid Just an opinion PS Many Thais (my TW included) believe that Thailand is going to the dogs on manners and selfishness (particularly as regards cars and driving habits). Not much different from expats, who mostly seem to think their home country is going to the dogs for some reason or other. Edited October 4, 2012 by SantiSuk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SantiSuk Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 (edited) Duplicate deleted. Edited October 4, 2012 by SantiSuk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaspercat Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 The letter you got sounds about right. Kudos to the old ladies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharp Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Next time just let the air out of their tyre Thai compassion style. Yeah and don't forget to drag ya key down the side for good measure ... Sent from my iPad using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharp Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Ah, the killer argument : "By saying we Thai people have no manners you are also saying that ..... has no manners." "Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience." Class...... Sent from my iPad using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharp Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Michael, you have misinterpreted this situation very badly. You are obviously a very hansum and charming falang man. One or both of those dear ladies definitely thinks so. I would suggest that the sole purpose of their parking in your driveway was to set up a meeting with you and hopefully some further assignation with you. The mild letter of rebuke you received ( who amongst us has not been called a kee nok falang?) was an act of passion, of love spurned.You must repair the bridges and write a letter back to the lady begging forgiveness for your unspeakable rudeness. Who knows what a bountiful harvest you may reap? Cheers bb. Wwwwwwwoooooooaaaaahhhhhhh.. Sent from my iPad using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacnl2000 Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 (edited) You are quite right when you do not to let her notions of space and time block your access to the street. Edited October 4, 2012 by jacnl2000 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travel2003 Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I once parked a car in a street in Khon Kaen. I was not blocking any entrance and did not see any warning signs. After doing some shopping I came back to find both my front door locks had been injected with glue. Had to get two new locks fitted. JB I more than once put superglue into locks, as well as broken off match sticks. For no other reason that cheap fun. Many times I did it, when I was 10 years old. Great fun for immature kids. Great fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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