payak Posted November 8, 2012 Share Posted November 8, 2012 (edited) what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. Edited November 8, 2012 by payak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted November 8, 2012 Share Posted November 8, 2012 what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. All women are the same eh? Bet you are a popular guy with the girls..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turboturtle Posted November 9, 2012 Author Share Posted November 9, 2012 what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. I think that men being so dishonest with Thai women has created an inate urge to seek revenge against a western man and it causes the Thai's to lose interest in us and respectable women are afraid to be frowned upon with a western man outside of bangkok! Thats the trouble here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigJohnnyBKK Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 I think that men being so dishonest with Thai women has created an inate urge to seek revenge against a western man and it causes the Thai's to lose interest in us and respectable women are afraid to be frowned upon with a western man outside of bangkok! Thats the trouble here! You honestly think that western men coming here for sex are lying to the girls? About what? And you honestly think that the hundreds of thousands of Thai girls selling their bodies to the tourists are more often than not being honest with their customers/sponsors/boyfriends/husbands? Not sure what planet you're from but not the same as where I live. It is refreshing though to see someone accurately identifying the moral issue as honesty rather than condemning the sexual practices themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trembly Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 I love being single in Thailand. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trembly Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. I think that men being so dishonest with Thai women has created an inate urge to seek revenge against a western man and it causes the Thai's to lose interest in us and respectable women are afraid to be frowned upon with a western man outside of bangkok! Thats the trouble here! That sounds like one TV forum post too many to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turboturtle Posted November 28, 2012 Author Share Posted November 28, 2012 what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. All women are the same eh? Bet you are a popular guy with the girls..... They only want an exclusive relationship with one man who truly loves them and they are easily contented in my experience thus far.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 You honestly think that western men coming here for sex are lying to the girls? About what? I lie when I tell them that I have missed them after not seeing them for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uptheos Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I never paid for a girlfriend in Britain; I won't do it here. Then I guess I understand why you've never had one. I have never paid for a woman in England, Wales or Ireland. So, the Scottish lassies must have been very special? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I've never seen any good come from a relationship in which a man has financially compensated a woman for being his "girlfriend". If a man can't retain a woman's interest without having to weigh her off each month, he's an epic failure. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 (edited) The times I've been single, I can count on both hands. Edited November 28, 2012 by Payboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 You honestly think that western men coming here for sex are lying to the girls? About what? I lie when I tell them that I have missed them after not seeing them for a while. oooo you playah. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I've never seen any good come from a relationship in which a man has financially compensated a woman for being his "girlfriend". If a man can't retain a woman's interest without having to weigh her off each month, he's an epic failure. Oh is that so. .Well, you know what? I got something to tell you mister.........................................I agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TallGuyJohninBKK Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 (edited) I have spent the last 2 months single for the first time in my life. After a 1 month ordination at the Forest monastery I have been trying to be celibate for atleast another month. When I first came here it was tough going 1 week without finding my first S. H. But now it is fun being the bachelor and all hottt college students smiling at me makes my life even more difficult but one of these days I'm going burst and give in to the temptation of seduction at university level! So many beautiful college students from wealth families want to be my companion after they are all well aware of my 17 year old GF. It seems like women always want what they can't have. When I was single, many women seemed to be interested but its like as soon as you get into a tighter bond with one Thai girl, your attractability meter jumps up 50 points to the ringer? www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/600972-why-are-so-many-young-hot-thai-girls-not-after-our-cash/ Maybe the OP should at least try a little to get his stories straight.... Edited November 28, 2012 by TallGuyJohninBKK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I've never seen any good come from a relationship in which a man has financially compensated a woman for being his "girlfriend". If a man can't retain a woman's interest without having to weigh her off each month, he's an epic failure. You stay with one woman a whole month? In Thailand? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turboturtle Posted December 3, 2012 Author Share Posted December 3, 2012 I have spent the last 2 months single for the first time in my life. After a 1 month ordination at the Forest monastery I have been trying to be celibate for atleast another month. When I first came here it was tough going 1 week without finding my first S. H. But now it is fun being the bachelor and all hottt college students smiling at me makes my life even more difficult but one of these days I'm going burst and give in to the temptation of seduction at university level! So many beautiful college students from wealth families want to be my companion after they are all well aware of my 17 year old GF. It seems like women always want what they can't have. When I was single, many women seemed to be interested but its like as soon as you get into a tighter bond with one Thai girl, your attractability meter jumps up 50 points to the ringer? www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/600972-why-are-so-many-young-hot-thai-girls-not-after-our-cash/ Maybe the OP should at least try a little to get his stories straight.... Well obviously my 'being single' didnt last so long...as I said in the that post also, THE temptation of college students is unavoidable and obviously i was corrupted by a beautiful 17 year old, but I was just testing others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeverSure Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I've never seen any good come from a relationship in which a man has financially compensated a woman for being his "girlfriend". If a man can't retain a woman's interest without having to weigh her off each month, he's an epic failure. I can see both sides of this. Just for me, it depends on what the two actually want. I have done the same thing in both the US and in Chiang Mai. I meet a gal and there is mutual attraction but neither wants a permanent deal. The gal has a low income relative to the area. She moves in with me and we both get what we want. Both know it's temporary. Especially in Chiang Mai they knew I was there for 90 days. They get free room and board, some nice meals out and I have a very pretty live in. In the case of the last one in LOS, I gave her a scooter when I left because I really liked her, but that was the end of it. What I got was what I wanted and I hope she felt the same. There were no lies or pretending. It's not whether I could attract a gal without "buying" her. It's whether I want to be tied down long term. Maybe I'm not explaining it very well. To each his own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 what we call single or what the thai woman call single. just look at one and they think your in a relationship with them. All women are the same eh? Bet you are a popular guy with the girls..... read my post again,until you understand it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 (edited) I've never seen any good come from a relationship in which a man has financially compensated a woman for being his "girlfriend". If a man can't retain a woman's interest without having to weigh her off each month, he's an epic failure. I can see both sides of this. Just for me, it depends on what the two actually want. I have done the same thing in both the US and in Chiang Mai. I meet a gal and there is mutual attraction but neither wants a permanent deal. The gal has a low income relative to the area. She moves in with me and we both get what we want. Both know it's temporary. Especially in Chiang Mai they knew I was there for 90 days. They get free room and board, some nice meals out and I have a very pretty live in. In the case of the last one in LOS, I gave her a scooter when I left because I really liked her, but that was the end of it. What I got was what I wanted and I hope she felt the same. There were no lies or pretending. It's not whether I could attract a gal without "buying" her. It's whether I want to be tied down long term. Maybe I'm not explaining it very well. To each his own. I was talking about real relationships not a 90 day GFE. What else could the so-called "Girlfriend Experience" be if not financially-based. If the money ran out after , say, 45 days then wouldn't the girl do the same? Edited December 3, 2012 by HardenedSoul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 If the money ran out after , say, 45 days then wouldn't the girl do the same? The trick is, not to have your money run out. One of the great things about being a pensioner! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomTao Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 Four years between marriges, by myself the whole time, this was back in Oz before I met my Thai wife over there. Sent from my GT-I9003 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 Perhaps but the upkeep of a GFE tends to place a greater strain on a pension than a regular relationship. Where the woman in the latter may be happy simply having the bills paid and the odd nice meal out, the the woman in the former almost always has more grandiose materialistic aspirations. Remember that if you ever get kicked kerbside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gary A Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I was confused when I read the title of the post. I didn't know how to reply because there is a HUGE difference between being celibate and being single. I was single for a number of years here but I certainly wasn't celibate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tingtongtourist Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I never paid for a girlfriend in Britain; I won't do it here. Then I guess I understand why you've never had one. I have never paid for a woman in England, Wales or Ireland. you dont ever pay a Thai woman to go with you, you pay to make her go away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rsquared Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I never paid for a girlfriend in Britain; I won't do it here. Then I guess I understand why you've never had one. I have never paid for a woman in England, Wales or Ireland. you dont ever pay a Thai woman to go with you, you pay to make her go away You've all got it wrong.....as the saying goes...."if it's got tits or tyres....it's gonna cost you". We all end up paying.....one way or another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinfoilhat Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I was confused when I read the title of the post. I didn't know how to reply because there is a HUGE difference between being celibate and being single. I was single for a number of years here but I certainly wasn't celibate. i reckon this is the whole point. i think there are a lot of people out there in thailand who have missed it. And not being celibate does not mean p4p, but rather dating, playing the field, sowing your oats, putting it about a bit, or simply having a few friends with benefits. but many go from one bad relationship to the next. personally, i quite enjoy being on my own. i have no need to fill space in my life with a hollow vessel. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poanoi Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I can conclude i have a lot more & better sex living solo than while living in relation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I can conclude i have a lot more & better sex living solo than while living in relation I'll admit the mia noi and gik thing is a bit to master. But once learned..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trembly Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Gigs are the best! Not all girls prefer this option, but I've found that a fair proportion are willing to settle for it eventually. I've courted a girl for over a year now and she has always insisted that she wanted a bf or nothing. In that year she has had a boyfriend come and go and now I'm sensing that she is tiring of her own hardline stance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I never paid for a girlfriend in Britain; I won't do it here. Then I guess I understand why you've never had one. I have never paid for a woman in England, Wales or Ireland. you dont ever pay a Thai woman to go with you, you pay to make her go away The last UK woman I paid to go away cost 600,000UKP I'm hoping the Thai woman will be cheaper, should she ever have to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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