Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. I'm laughing here cos my wife does exactly the same thing!aww so sweet.. wait is she trying to say u have smelly breathfloss and brush your tounge guys not being mean just what I find Not to get to doctoral, but it is also a very good idea to use hydrogen perioxide as a mouth rinse, upon waking.... this is a healthy way of assisting the bacteria and other germs and other accumulated deposits of toxins from the lungs and respiratory tract, which will occur best when laying in sleep position that awaits disposal upon waking, anyone just drinking water or coffee without a peroxide rinse, is just washing those toxins that your body worked hard all nite to bring to the surface to escape in your breath and saliva, right back into your blood steam, there are also tongue scrapers, which are more effectice than a tongue brush, I havent actually used one in a while, but now that it has come up, its not a bad idea... ask any dentist about peroxide rinsing, all good dentists will agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejcb Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Why are we asking and discussing this. We all know that Thailand is all about dosh, if you bung enough you can have what you want. There is nothing else to discuss. Love !! LOVE!!! WHAT ???? hahahhahhaha ridiculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZAKY Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Many of us want to work and live in thailand, if you invest there you have to invest for yourself and for two thai nationals as well, majority of shares should be theirs beside that they are in majority in numbers. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 Love full stop. is a con job perpetrated on males by their mothers from an early age and reinforced by almost every song they hear. The male of the species comes to believe that he will one day meet the perfect girl of his dreams and fall madly in love and live happily ever after. The female knows this and takes full advantage of it. Reality is mostly different, hands up those who have been through it and are in their second or third go. Yes it does actually exist and hopefully you find it. I already went the "love" from home route a few times in the States, 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 LTR's and a few hot affairs, they were all "that" love, I am not falling for anything like that, for now, and have interests back home still, so, I am not desiring that roller coaster again, just trying to figure out this particular one, and her overly cautious nature, and if it is over come with time, or, is it just a waste of time, hers too When I first came to Thailand, many years ago, I had a good lesson in the meaning of sincerity in a relationship, best summed up by the words of David Bowie... "Then I ran across a monster who was sleeping By a tree. And I looked and frowned and the monster was me." Width of a Circle Very true, and applies to me here, many times, but again, it is mostly communication issues, and our mutual lack of understanding of the other's culture, which is sort of out of step and American culture, isn't cultural, its more primal, and guttural Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willyumiii Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me. I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somsrisonphimai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me. I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. Are you sure it's not all about the money? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 Love is when you stagger in singing Nellie Dean at 3 am, fall over the dog, slobber all over her as she is sleeping, rub your penis randomly on her in the remote hope she'll find that a turn on, before passing out on the couch, and you still wake up with a blanket on you as well as a glass of OJ next to you when you wake up....and she smiles at you in the morning (though I suspect she wants to take my bank card to Central Bang Na and the new bed she's had her eye on for a while will be arriving later in the week.... Best of humor ro date for this thread! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 You should ask Thai girls, instead of foreigners Thai girls won't talk on this topic to us, only to eachother, this is an issue that I am sure many foreigners have encountered and it is their experience needed here, as they have already faced this issue and mostl have successfully over come it..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me. I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. Are you sure it's not all about the money? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Probably...can you lend us a tenner while payday? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZAKY Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Many of them have thrown their bodies from high buildings Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willyumiii Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 It is truly sad that so many here have such a negative view of relationships Thai women. Many must have had bad experiences and assume all Thai women are the same. I have a wonderful woman and a great relationship with her. I am 100% sure money is not a factor, she has always had more money than me. I doubt that I could be happier with any other woman in the world. I am sure I am not the only one who is happy with their Thai wife and their good relationship. I wonder why so many men stay in a relationship where the woman only wants their money. Are they so sorry that money is the only way they can get a woman to pay attention to them? Maybe it has to do with where they find the women they are with. If you start with ne who wants you to pay for her company in the first place, she will want you to pay for everything else too. On the bottom of the barrel, you will always find slime. Respect yourself and look a little higher next time. Again, it is truly sa that so many feel this way.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Docno Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Did you know Steve Hocking, the worlds most smartest(IQ) living human being, was married and got a divorce. We would best to study nuclear fusion and other less complexities! If you mean Stephen Hawking (who would probably deny being the world's smartest person - no way to test that), he actually has been marred and divorced TWICE. So I guess for all of his intelligence, he's not a fast learner. One of my favourite quotes comes from Albert Einstein: "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That's relativity." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 Whatever you can say, those who know can tell; thai girls live is different to other girls love where money comes first, i know many cases where a thai girl lives with a foreigner who takes care of her and may be also her family but behind the girl is having affair with a thai, some men even volontarily accept this kind of situation at least he knows with whom she is doing it. The more money you give her, the more she will show you that she is attracted by you but it is only superficial because the day after she will forget what you did for her. She will control your expenses, you may think that she wants you to save money!!! No she is just scared about nothing or little left for her. Always imagine what will happen at the time you have no more money. You will not be surprised of the number of suicides going on in this country most of the victims are people being well-off before. My advice is that If you can afford buying love then do it, there are thousand ways to do it and what you can for your money, she will not may be give you, you even have the choice of doing it when you feel like and not when you want and she refuses. You have the choice of changing girls when ever you want where as when you are with one this could be a problem. You may want to go out for dinner or any with a nice girl, there are classy young girls working as escorts you can hire for the day or as long as you want. It will cost you less energy, trouble and money to get commited with a single girl whom you beleive belong to you only,. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand I know this happens, and I am sure it happens a lot: There are also situations where, this shoe won't fit, ie; living in the same home.... When a woman spends all her time with only you, and is happy, there is little room for cheating, and from what I can tell from her friends, and their lives as I have gotten to knwo them from their facebooks and what she tells me about them, they are all monagamous, and what we would call "old school" I compare them to America, in the 40's Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 I made the missus a nice cup of tea and gave her a huge hug and all is fine now....that is love for you until she sees the state of me undies after I followed through last night but now I'm past 40 it does seem dry farts are but a distant memory.... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sturdyd Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Love is an emotion. Like happiness and depression, it comes and goes. Sex is a biological imperative. Learn to know the difference and achieve peace. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) Saying I love you and being affectionate do not come naturally to most of them, but when they love you, you can be sure they will be loyal, honest, faithful, supportive and respect you. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand that respect can easily be lost it is like success, it is not "transferable" it has to be re earned, every time example: Michael Jordan trying to take his physical prowess from the basketball court to the baseball field, it didnt really happen for him as he "expected" I believe my issues are expectations, which will either adjust, or we fail, we are both trying to learn the other's culture Edited February 22, 2014 by Scarpolo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somsrisonphimai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me. I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. Are you sure it's not all about the money?Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Probably...can you lend us a tenner while payday? I am sorry, I don't think I can. I have to get my hair done, my nails done, my shopping done, and I have my mommy, daddy, grandma, siss and bros back home waiting for me to send them money, luckily I don't have kids but I do have a long list relatives also asking for money. I think you need to give me money. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me. I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. Are you sure it's not all about the money?Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Probably...can you lend us a tenner while payday? I am sorry, I don't think I can. I have to get my hair done, my nails done, my shopping done, and I have my mommy, daddy, grandma, siss and bros back home waiting for me to send them money, luckily I don't have kids but I do have a long list relatives also asking for money. I think you need to give me money. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Awfully sorry, I'm off to town this afternoon to spend the remainder of my wealth on crumpet down Suk I could possibly help with the kids if that is you in your avatar and you're not a 30 stone Norwegian Death Metal drummer..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeijoshinCool Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. No bum gun? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 She tells me ten times a day that she loves me too much. Then she makes Somtham with Naam Pick for me.- 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somsrisonphimai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Mine expresses her love for me by putting up with me.I wouldn't put up with me and often wonder why she does. I can only be love. Are you sure it's not all about the money?Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Probably...can you lend us a tenner while payday? I am sorry, I don't think I can. I have to get my hair done, my nails done, my shopping done, and I have my mommy, daddy, grandma, siss and bros back home waiting for me to send them money, luckily I don't have kids but I do have a long list relatives also asking for money. I think you need to give me money. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Awfully sorry, I'm off to town this afternoon to spend the remainder of my wealth on crumpet down Suk I could possibly help with the kids if that is you in your avatar and you're not a 30 stone Norwegian Death Metal drummer..... Nothing is for free, you know. That is me in my avatar, now don't tell you are falling in love, 555. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 now don't tell you are falling in love, 555. Alas, there is only room enough in my heart/wallet/bank balance for one woman... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1Ping1 Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 With all due respect, from the sound of your posts: I would suggest that she is paranoid and not willing to give her heart to you as she senses, at least from what I have read in your post that you are not "totally in the game" yourself. Meaning that you do not trust her. As others have said, Thai girls are no different than any other in the world. If they do not sense commitment and trust, they sure as heck are not going to give you any in return and I do not blame them. Add to this the stigma and hurdle that all decent farongs have to get past, I call it the the "pump and run" farong, I do not blame any of the Thai girls for being scared, from Bar Girl to Master's degree Grad for being overly cautious headed into any long term relationship. Having a weekend grind is one thing. Finding someone that you want and desire to be with forever and committing yourself to them is quite another thing. . Yeah, been in more than a few relationships in my life myself. Based on these past relationships though, none more pure than what I have now with my beautiful Thai wife. Very honest and open as far as I am concerned. May last forever, may blow up down the road, but I have no complaints and trust her 100% and because of this, I at least suspect, that she trusts me. While it could all blow up in my face I know is that I refuse to go through life looking over my shoulder waiting for things to fall apart and tend to be forward thinking in this regard. I am happy, She is happy, trust is earned over time. No, my wife was not a bar girl, she has a masters degree in economics and comes from a solid family, having said that, I have many friends that have wives that were and they have a great life, and their wives are great and very appreciative of their husbands. I also am honest enough to know that education or past work history has little bearing on fidelity or life down the road. The only difference is that you may have to work a little harder to earn her trust if she was in the game. Again though, if you yourself are not 100% in the game, sure as heck do not expect her to be anywhere close to committed to you. She just sees you as another short time Charlie. Life is Short, This is not a dress rehersal........................................................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Saying I love you and being affectionate do not come naturally to most of them, but when they love you, you can be sure they will be loyal, honest, faithful, supportive and respect you. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand When you say, "them" do you mean most Thai women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zac5000 Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Scarpolo, I am experienced in these things and have thought about it a great deal my self. As in the fallang world relationships fall apart but I am sure they are taken a lot more lightly in Thailand, at least among the ladys you will meet in the bar areas. Protect yourself both emotionally and financially but stay with it, not easy to do and requires a lot of independence mentally. Your lady probably does love you a lot --today!. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somsrisonphimai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) now don't tell you are falling in love, 555. Alas, there is only room enough in my heart/wallet/bank balance for one woman... I know I was just playing. I don't even want to try, Thai women are also known for their jealousy, don't want to be on their bad side (: Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Edited February 22, 2014 by Somsrisonphimai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
55Jay Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Love is when you stagger in singing Nellie Dean at 3 am, fall over the dog, slobber all over her as she is sleeping, rub your penis randomly on her in the remote hope she'll find that a turn on, before passing out on the couch, and you still wake up with a blanket on you as well as a glass of OJ next to you when you wake up....and she smiles at you in the morning (though I suspect she wants to take my bank card to Central Bang Na and the new bed she's had her eye on for a while will be arriving later in the week.... Is above your wife or GF? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somsrisonphimai Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Saying I love you and being affectionate do not come naturally to most of them, but when they love you, you can be sure they will be loyal, honest, faithful, supportive and respect you. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand When you say, "them" do you mean most Thai women? Who do you think I referring to? Are you disagreeing? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancnx Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 I figure at least 4 trolls operating here all independently of each other, but eerily in tune with each other. Codswallop! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Saying I love you and being affectionate do not come naturally to most of them, but when they love you, you can be sure they will be loyal, honest, faithful, supportive and respect you. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand When you say, "them" do you mean most Thai women? Who do you think I referring to? Are you disagreeing? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Since you have only been in Thailand for 6 months I would imagine it referred to women in a country you know better. Or maybe you have been reading some Thai scientific studies you could mention here. 30 million women in Thailand! Seems it would take years and years to be able to make a generalization like, "love does not come naturally." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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