Why are you a butterfly?

[seancbk]

Anyone can get on those online porn sites. There are never any guys from Thailand.

Thai guys just don't seem to be into the same things that Farangs are.

No Thai go go's or other unusual places.

Thai men don't strike me as very kinky at all. Lady boys excepted.

No Thai Go-Go's or other unusual places?

Seriously? Have you never been to any Thai Gentlemen's Clubs? Hundreds of hot girls (usually all with large breasts) all dressed only in Bikinis.

Makes the 'Farang' places look like absolute shit.

[lostmebike]

'You are a butterfly'

And the hilarious part is, this expression is usually from bar girls, the epitome of a 'butterfly'.

[lostmebike]

I used to be a caterpillar.

I used to be a JCB.... fancy a meet up?

Touch my little caterpillar and I will bulldoze you to oblivion.

[kannot]

I used to be a caterpillar.

I used to be a JCB.... fancy a meet up?

Touch my little caterpillar and I will bulldoze you to oblivion.

Oh dear "little caterpillar" I don't think i'd admit to that in public.....not that I am

[lostmebike]

I used to be a caterpillar.

I used to be a JCB.... fancy a meet up?

Touch my little caterpillar and I will bulldoze you to oblivion.

Oh dear "little caterpillar" I don't think i'd admit to that in public.....not that I am

So you wanted to meet up with BudRight to ... see a big caterpillar?

Oh dear, what are we talking about?

[Seewolf]

There are too much beautiful Flowers around so it may be difficult to resist always, therefore some men are becomimg Butterfly !

[Greg Nixon]

SORRY I am not a butterfly. I am sure I have all the same thoughts as many other men but when it comes right down to it I have too much empathy. What will happen to this lady if I do not treat her well. I was married to my first wife for 42 years and she has been set up well with a doctorate, a good job and a decent pension.

For reasons I won't go into now, I have a second wife in Thailand. I have also been faithful to her and treat her very well. She has reciprocated. Obviously sex for fangs in Thailand can be easy. I have had multiple offers but I just think of the mess I may find myself in and the welfare of my wife and adoptive daughter. They do not deserve any ill treatment.

[MrWorldwide]

If I'm silly enough to shack up with another woman, it will be a Filipina - I dont believe their motives are any different, but IME they dont come after you with a knife. Absolutely no idea why the Thais even experience sexual jealousy in a society where the Gik and second wives are accepted as long as its done discretely.

As always, your mileage will inevitably vary.

[Somsrisonphimai]

I used to be a caterpillar.

And I am tinkerbell.

[NoshowJones]

Balls to the lot, nature wants us to be promiscuous, simple as that.

Yes, I agree with you, but what is not OK is lying and telling your partner they are the one for you, or leading them on making them think you want a long term relationship just so you can have sex with them.

[thailiketoo]

If I'm silly enough to shack up with another woman, it will be a Filipina - I dont believe their motives are any different, but IME they dont come after you with a knife. Absolutely no idea why the Thais even experience sexual jealousy in a society where the Gik and second wives are accepted as long as its done discretely.

As always, your mileage will inevitably vary.

Look at the age of the Beach Boys. That is appropriate for wanting a lady based on location.

[Costas2008]

Because I can.

Many (most) women love sex for just fun or as a sport once they've permission, it's social taboos holding them back. But I agree it's more rare for them to allow it to take over their whole life.

Since I first started coming to Thailand, I've never had any interest in any porn or even live shows.

Why watch when you can do yourself?

Wym, bet you whatever you like, you can't do yourself the ping pong act.

[dotpoom]

With the greatest respect.....I think the OP knows little about men and even less about women.

[thailiketoo]

Balls to the lot, nature wants us to be promiscuous, simple as that.

Yes, I agree with you, but what is not OK is lying and telling your partner they are the one for you, or leading them on making them think you want a long term relationship just so you can have sex with them.

OK, I'm sitting in the bar and the bus from Mukdahan stops and lets out 20 young women practicing to walk in high heels for the first time and they run up to me. "My name Nook, My name Nook Yai, My name Nook lek............ And I say, "baby I want you long time, for sure,"

And that's wrong?

[wym]

Because I can.

Many (most) women love sex for just fun or as a sport once they've permission, it's social taboos holding them back. But I agree it's more rare for them to allow it to take over their whole life.

Since I first started coming to Thailand, I've never had any interest in any porn or even live shows.

Why watch when you can do yourself?

Wym, bet you whatever you like, you can't do yourself the ping pong act.

I get absolutely no entertainment from such displays.

However they are useful demonstrations of the results of the girls's kegel weight-lifting sessions, takes about eight weeks to get them up to multiple kg.

Google Laura Berman for some good beginner's equipment, easy to modify for heavier loads later on.

Particularly good for older women too, Huff post had a good article a while ago, also Oprah.

[MrWorldwide]

Balls to the lot, nature wants us to be promiscuous, simple as that.

Yes, I agree with you, but what is not OK is lying and telling your partner they are the one for you, or leading them on making them think you want a long term relationship just so you can have sex with them.

No wedding ring on my finger, and I'm very thankful to have extricated myself from my last longterm relationship. Thailand is a fantastic teacher - you just have to survive the lesson

[NoshowJones]

Balls to the lot, nature wants us to be promiscuous, simple as that.

Yes, I agree with you, but what is not OK is lying and telling your partner they are the one for you, or leading them on making them think you want a long term relationship just so you can have sex with them.

OK, I'm sitting in the bar and the bus from Mukdahan stops and lets out 20 young women practicing to walk in high heels for the first time and they run up to me. "My name Nook, My name Nook Yai, My name Nook lek............ And I say, "baby I want you long time, for sure,"

And that's wrong?

No, that's not wrong, but if you have a girlfriend at home and tell her you do not butterfly, and you have her thinking she is in a long term relationship with you, then it is wrong. Read my post again.

[verywierd]

I don't have a wife or girlfriend of any race nor desire one. I prefer solitude to unwanted company.

To me prostitutes are the ideal woman, and I respect and value them for what they do.

[HooHaa]

i love it when people use terms exclusive to the sex trade as if they are common parlance.

[thailiketoo]

Balls to the lot, nature wants us to be promiscuous, simple as that.

Yes, I agree with you, but what is not OK is lying and telling your partner they are the one for you, or leading them on making them think you want a long term relationship just so you can have sex with them.

OK, I'm sitting in the bar and the bus from Mukdahan stops and lets out 20 young women practicing to walk in high heels for the first time and they run up to me. "My name Nook, My name Nook Yai, My name Nook lek............ And I say, "baby I want you long time, for sure,"

And that's wrong?

No, that's not wrong, but if you have a girlfriend at home and tell her you do not butterfly, and you have her thinking she is in a long term relationship with you, then it is wrong. Read my post again.

She is Thai. Her mother has told her all men butterfly. Her brother has told her all men butterfly. Her teachers have all told her all men butterfly and everyone she chats with on Line chat and facebook have told her all men butterfly.

Do you really think she believes you? A Farang? She may be a good actress but she doesn't believe you.

Oh BTW the check is in the mail.

[tbailo]

No Thai go go's or other unusual places.

Thai gogos at Saphan Kwai, just different style of girls. Also agree with the point about gentleman's clubs. Plus all the huge massage places built like shopping malls out at Huay Khwang - you think they are there to just cater to Westerners? I'd suggest that bars/clubs catering to Western guys makes up a small percentage of this 'industry'.

The 'a man is as faithful as his options' quote is Chris Rock from a sketch about the Bill Clinton/Monica Lewinski situation. Clip here

[arminbkk]

Whenever a Thai girl/woman tells me she does not want a Thai man but a farang man, and I ask her why, she will usually say that

Thai men are butterflies, or 'jao shoo'.

I will usually explain then that farang guys are just the same.

I will tell them that there are just too many pretty girls in Thailand, too many for most guys to keep their eyes on just one.

And when I want to 'shock' a bit, I will add: "you don't eat "kaow pad" everyday do you? sometimes you eat something else, sometimes

you want a nice steak meal (i.e. variation)"

[Cosmo88]

i love it when people use terms exclusive to the sex trade as if they are common parlance.

I doubt that the term "butterfly" is "exclusive to the sex trade".

In fact, the term would seem to be quite irrelevant to a prostitute...

[thailiketoo]

No Thai go go's or other unusual places.

Thai gogos at Saphan Kwai, just different style of girls. Also agree with the point about gentleman's clubs. Plus all the huge massage places built like shopping malls out at Huay Khwang - you think they are there to just cater to Westerners? I'd suggest that bars/clubs catering to Western guys makes up a small percentage of this 'industry'.

The 'a man is as faithful as his options' quote is Chris Rock from a sketch about the Bill Clinton/Monica Lewinski situation. Clip here

Too funny. Too true. A man is as faithful as his options. The reason Thai women don't call hubby to tell him to pick up milk on the way home is because there is a brothel next to the milk store.

[Malthus101]

Thai women are equally bad and I don't mean prostitutes, I'm talking regular girls.

I speak with several and they all tell me similar tales of their friends who wait loyally while their boyfriend goes to Europe for a month but after 3 days are already in the sack with someone else.

Another Thai girl, 20 year old student, goes out every night of the week and sleeps with a new Thai boy. That's 5 times a week, every week. I WISH I had that level of consistency!

24 year old, comes to "see" me then goes off on a date later to meet a new farang guy.

A 20 year old who was a virgin until 19, that's only 9 months ago, has now slept with over 60 guys. IN 9 MONTHS.

Don't feel bad about being a male butterfly - it's how God intended it anyway. Monogamy is just nonsense from the bible and marriage only brought in to end land ownership disputes amongst illegitimate children.

The Disney fantasy of "The One" is just that... a childish fantasy.

If you like one woman and her only, great, more power to you. It's good for raising kids, good for them...

For me, I get bored very quickly.

[Robininbkk]

Funny fact as well is that most farang pay for the girls that the Thai men gets for free...

[thailiketoo]

Funny fact as well is that most farang pay for the girls that the Thai men gets for free...

Tell me how do most Thai men loose their virginity? Tell me who parks in those hotels with the curtains concealing the cars? Tell me how much does a mia noi get these days? Tell me what nationality visits Thai only brothels? Tell me when are you coming to Thailand for your first visit?

[lostmebike]

Funny fact as well is that most farang pay for the girls that the Thai men gets for free...

Speak for yourself

[lostmebike]

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[thaibeachlovers]

Because I can.

Many (most) women love sex for just fun or as a sport once they've permission, it's social taboos holding them back. But I agree it's more rare for them to allow it to take over their whole life.

Since I first started coming to Thailand, I've never had any interest in any porn or even live shows.

Why watch when you can do yourself?

How many women under 30 move to a different country for sex? I've never even heard of one. A lot of young men here have moved to Thailand because of sex (or a reasonable facsimile). If the men in the West are so handsome why don't Thai ladies move to the West to butterfly?

Western women under 30 have no need to move to a different country for sex. Young western women have it all their way with the lads panting for a bit.

If it was as easy for western lads to get a bit as it is for women, they wouldn't be coming to Thailand either.

BTW, that's why western women don't like the way men can get sex so easily in Thailand, because it means they aren't in demand any more, while in Thailand.