After some advice

[Jdelta]

Been here a few years working for a MNC in bagkok. My current GF who I have been seeing just over a year has an ex who used to beat her and her 6 yer old (at the time) son. The guy who is Scottish is living back in London at the moment but has been back in touch. He has plans to run his interney company in thailand. No doubt illegally without the correct visa / tax in place. She has not responed to him but too be honest from the stories I have heard this guy does not deserve to be in this country. I want to know the best way to prevent him entering the coutnry. My experience with Law enforcement is that involving them even on the right side can be costsly. I have connections at work that could help, but would rather keep this private. Is there an way of contacting anyone to some how keep this POS out of the country.

I have seen pictures and old texts and e-mails so am 1000% confident that my GF is telling the truth. Any advice would be greatly welcomed. J

[CharlieH]

I would guess that legally you can do nothing, he hasnt broken any laws and isnt even here yet. IF he returns, and IF then causes trouble, then and only then can you do anything about it. If she no longer lives where she used to, has no contact with him whatsoever. There is little chance of there being a problem.

If however he does no where she is and knows she is in a new relationship etc he may stay clear. If not then its up to you to have a "word" initially if that doesnt work and he becomes a nuisance then you must seek "alternative" methods, legally of course.

But no sense panicking when he is not even in the country.

[Seastallion]

Firstly, I hope "Scotland", "6 years old", "son", and "internet company" are all fictitious alternatives to what's real, as they make no difference to the gist of the story, but could very easily be something he recognises himself with if he reads this forum, and thus puts him on his guard.

Wait till he gets here. Dob him in once he starts working.

[wow64]

He is not even here.. Dont worry about it.

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[CWMcMurray]

Nothing you can so to prevent him coming, but if he does and decides to work illegally and you know where he is working ...

Immigration is real keen on catching people working illegally now a days

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[Soutpeel]

My experience with Law enforcement is that involving them even on the right side can be costsly

You have answered your own question

No doubt illegally without the correct visa / tax in

I want to know the best way to prevent him entering the coutnry

Is there an way of contacting anyone to some how keep this POS out of the country.

I have heard this guy does not deserve to be in this country

I am surprised that someone who professes to have been in law enforcement is even making the above comments like this,

you have jumped to conclusions without facts, you are undertaking a vendetta against someone who hasn't broken the law as far as you are aware, your being a judge jury and executioner...based on what ?

if the guy does return to the country starts a business, and stays away from the EX-GF & you and is not interfering with your life, what right do you have to take the steps your proposing above ?

I am not defending the guy or saying your GF is wrong, but as an EX law enforcement person, you know yourself there are always two sides to every the story, and you have only know this girl a year....

My advice, stay out of it, if the guy does come back and start making problems for your GF/you, then yes by all means take what ever steps you wish, but at the moment you have absolutely no right to do anything...what happens if you do and it turns out it was the GF who was BSing you and you have just messed up someone's life for no reason ?

[choochoo]

Best thing would be to get rid of your bargirl-type gf......................lol. Theres millions of hot kid-less thai girls just waiting 4 a guy like you........................double lol!

[chrisinth]

Until he breaks a law there is very little you can do, legally. If he starts causing your GF or her son problems then this of course opens new paths.

Word of warning though, if it is your plan to amass evidence against him to get him out of the country, be very careful when you are doing that. I know certain people who would go on the offensive if someone did it to them, and judging from your/GF's description of him he already has tendencies towards violence.

Just sayin'.....................