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Smearing Thai women

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What is with these men that come here, form a relationship with a Thai woman of questionable character and then smear all Thai women when it goes sour? In a Facebook group i'm in someone posted about a homeless Westerner who was 'swindled' by a Thai woman. Another guy kept posting comments about how horrible Thai women are. What is up with these men?

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  • Farang male comes to Thailand for the first time. Hangs out mostly in girlie bars and partakes in the BG scene. Is like a kid at Disneyland, getting more attention than he ever had back home. Comes

  • I have a friend here in Europe (male) who has been married for years with really nice, down to earth Thai lady. They have two adorable children together. He works hard here to provide for his family

  • Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives

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You ever heard the idiom; Where there is smoke, you will usually find fire? This is not to paint all Thai women with the same brush, but let's just say that Thai women are particularly opportunistic, if you catch my drift....

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Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives all work hard at their jobs and not one can speak English yet because they're all natives of Pattaya they're lumped in with bar girls and hookers.

Thailand never helped its self by promoting its sex industry, things maybe be changing slowly, but mud sticks, just look at the number of single men who head to Pattaya/Phuket, what are these places offering?

Don't Japanese believe all gaijin smell like butter? Funny beliefs everywhere.

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I thought this was a different topic on smearing laugh.png , but it's no different then the usual fare in general.

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I have a friend here in Europe (male) who has been married for years with really nice, down to earth Thai lady. They have two adorable children together. He works hard here to provide for his family, visits at least four times a year, have had them here for months on end.

And still people make comments, and rude ones about his family and their situation. Things like - why aren't they here, why isn't he there, etc. etc.

My friends have maintained dignity and have explained - he makes more money here, she works there, she would not be able to work here, the kids are in good schools. To no avail - there is always some uneducated pillock that makes the comment about bar girls, and how much do you pay, and also says nasty things about his children.

You know, he and his wife have heard it all. They let it run over them like rain water. There are some terrible ignorant people every where in the World - but they will not upset my friends, or others like them.

And it's not only Thai/Farang relationships. Look at Black/White etc. People who are ignorant are the first to talk loudly about things that they do not know about and are so sad in their own pathetic lives. And, perhaps, a wee bit of jealousy creeps in as well!!!

I thought this was a different topic on smearing laugh.png , but it's no different then the usual fare in general.

I misread the title,

Thought it was going to be about swearing Thai women.

Turned out a bit dull!

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"form a relationship with a Thai woman of questionable character and then smear all Thai women when it goes sour?" "What is up with these men?"


They are bitter and angry and they are poweless. All they can do is smear with a broad brush. Some men smear all women and not just Thai.

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Farang male comes to Thailand for the first time.

Hangs out mostly in girlie bars and partakes in the BG scene.

Is like a kid at Disneyland, getting more attention than he ever had back home.

Comes away thinking "Thai women love us!"

Comes back to live in Thailand full-time, thinking ALL Thai women love farangs.

Never bothers to learn the language.

Finds out quick that he really isn't that "hansum" and the BGs are only interested in his money.

Thai women who are not BGs really aren't that enamored with farangs.

The Thai women who are seem to be only interested in his money.

Still hasn't learned the language, so is relegated to a certain type of Thai females.

Most of his relationships are shallow as the farang-hunters are only interested in his money.

Comes to the conclusion that ALL Thai women are greedy, stupid, and dishonest.

A bit simplistic, but I'd imagine this happens a lot, in some form or another.

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They hated women at home, but thought things would be different here. Turns out they were wrong.

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They're bitter from past dealings and usually by their own ill manner ill temper and lack of understanding. Probably look down on them from the start meet them in his own comfort zones and feel like a king for a week or so after staying in a 5 star hotel and being wai'd all week like he's the king. They only speak English and that limits them to a few groups of Thai women and the ones that he found of course are the ones cooing him into the beer bars massage shops or gogo bars. It's all a big candy shop and his holiday money buys him ladies all week.

So suddenly he's important, rich and good looking! All the ladies tell him he's a hansum man.

Maybe he finds one he likes takes her on a trip to the islands, she's likely to be 10-20 years younger than him which dents the ego even more when such a young girl can put one over him.

Over the course of a week he probably fell in love believed all the usual run of the mill stories about her life, probably feels sorry for her and that she's pressured into this life. Goes back to farangland and calls everyday and sends the family money over western union.

The reality is - she probably keeps working in the bar - probably has 5 phones and 5 sponsors sending her money - enjoys the money and some nights the sex - probably has a boyfriend or husband upcountry - probably has more money than the foreigner that she just put one over.

In the start the foreigner had the money and she all the experience. Now she has all the money and he has had the experience.

He was Naive and she was a shrewd businesswoman.

He was 50 she was a 20 something with different interests and a different culture, was never going to end in true love and being his age should have known better. Some come back year after year with similar adventures and stories, some move here because of an addiction to this life, and figure plenty of fish in the sea but they don't change their attitudes or their playgrounds and the cycle repeats. Some become bitter twisted old men some lose fortunes and throw themselves off buildings.

Unfortunately, they never met hard working respectable thai women who don't deserve to be painted with the same brush.

These men are simply stupid.

First they are stupid enough to trust someone with their money and get conned/scammed.

Then, they will extrapolate from one anecdotical case (theirs) to form a rule regarding the general population.

There is no point in allowing oneself to be offended by stupid people, as their views hold no substance.

Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives all work hard at their jobs and not one can speak English yet because they're all natives of Pattaya they're lumped in with bar girls and hookers.

Got any examples of posters lumping ALL Thai woman together? I think it's against the rules anyway. You have to admit there are too many cheating Thai women around and that should make you feel more offended than people reporting scams, liars and cheats.

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For example true story smart guy working online in 20's comes to Phuket. Soon meets his perfect "Thai angel". She is a "nice" girl with own business. Obviously not to any rational person. Friends advise him, he won't listen. Problem is he has NEVER HAD SEX before let alone a girlfriend. His personality is an absurd cariacture of a neurotic mamas boy. They are talking Marriage when problems start. It's first "somebody broke in and stole laptop". Soon he is completely cleaned out by scams, theatened by her goons over something and runs away back to Montreal with his tail between his legs. The girl, who was working several Farangs turned out to be so "nice" she got knifed by a Belgian.

This is an extreme example but I suspect many of these guys are similiarly socially inept and have no experience with relationships. They are totally to blame when things go wrong here messing with professional girlfriends.

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Maybe if foreigners didnt turn up to thailand giving girls hopes and promises all because of the currency difference

then when they take them back to their countries they live life like a normal everyday 9 to 5 job ..

My family in Laos tell me all the time how foreigners go there flash all their crap like just to get a younger girl ..

HOPELESS PRIIICKS...

Its foreigners like that , that make the good ones look bad and its the bad in nature thai ladies that make the good ones look bad ..

If you can find a Thai girl that doesnt have to wear make up to look like a princess then she is a keeper ..

some women u wish u never took home cause in the morning they dont look like what they did last night .

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Many men come from broken or failed relationships and then fall into the bar scene in Thailand. It's a great shame that so many of them think so badly of Thai women because the majority are nothing like the bar girls they become involved in. As I think we know, and you women should see it more easily than us men, that the vast majority of Thai women are kind, considerate and caring people who do not deserve the terrible reputation so people give them.

It would be interesting to calculate how many farang men would end up hitched if the law allowed foreigners to buy land in their own name.

Pattaya red light would instantly get 30% smaller.

is this the smearing thai gal thread or smearing farang male thread? op, please change the title if you find the time between your smearing....

Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives all work hard at their jobs and not one can speak English yet because they're all natives of Pattaya they're lumped in with bar girls and hookers.

I wonder how your 'hard workin friends' would react if a gullible farang with a lot of moolah parachuted into their lives...wink.png

If you read it properly it is her relatives that work hard, not her friends. Can we leave the prejudice aside and stick to the topic?

Thai women smear themselves with whitening cream.

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Hmm, probably better to keep quiet but I think I owe a defense of the Thai "working girls". I have had a lifelong attraction to the oriental female. I blame it on "Suzi Wong". Anyway, after looking at a few countries for retirement I was attracted more to Thailand, in part from the aforementioned, a good deal of background reading and my orientation toward Buddhism. Made 2 monthlong trips in 2009 and 2 in 2010. On these trips, well, I confess to being a fat boy in the candy shop. Each of the Thai girls who spent time with me treated me very well as a boyfriend looking out that I was not taken advantage of when shopping and warning about pickpockets, etc. Yes, they were working and fairly paid but I had no problem with this as I was treated so well that...well, these trips cinched it for my retirement decision. Moving here, I tried different relationship scenarios but, in the end, I wanted to be with just one, traditionally raised Thai girl. I have been very fortunate and now am a spoiled western, retired male being cared for by a Thai female. Cannot get much better than this.

...I smear my thai gf at least 3 times a week with a massage oil.......

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For me Thai woman's are the best that Buddha created.

They are lovely, funny and hard working as most Asian woman's are.

I wouldn't exchange my Mrs for anything else in this world.

Until you are a somewhat prosperous benevolent (somewhat naive and trusting) middle aged man,

that moves to Thailand and then gets scammed in an elaborate and complex way, that nobody could have seem coming

(did tons of DD, checked out by pals living here 20 years speaking Thai etc) then you are like a virgin discussing sex.

Cheers,

NS

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Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives all work hard at their jobs and not one can speak English yet because they're all natives of Pattaya they're lumped in with bar girls and hookers.

I totally agree with you. This is one of the problems about Pattaya. I am British and my wife is Thai incidentally. The miscreants of Pattaya assume all Thai women are bar girls or the like. This is one thing that Thailand MUST get to grips with.

Females,women,Thai, Caucasian, black, brown, white, they're all sisters!

Being half Thai I find it particulary offensive when people lump Thai women all together as liars and con artists. Then when someone lumps Western men together it's another story. My female relatives all work hard at their jobs and not one can speak English yet because they're all natives of Pattaya they're lumped in with bar girls and hookers.

Being full farang and over 50, some folks who have never met me would considered me an alcohol dazed, bar-girl chasing sex maniac whereas I'm married and seldom hang out in tourist areas. What's the difference?

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What is with these men ...

They have to blame someone because nothing is ever their own fault.

There's even a thread here meant to generate laughs at the supposed stupidity of their wives ... is it any wonder they couldn't find wives back home? http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/805403-funny-moment-at-home-pro/?p=9143350&hl=%2Bhome+%2Bpro

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Oh, so it's not another 'Truscott' post. cheesy.gifcheesy.gifcheesy.gif

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