TonyHawkins Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 Having reached the big FIVE-0, I sometimes think about dating mature women. What do you think? Anyone got any stories to tell? I just saw some ads on this forum for dating sites for mature women. Anyone tried them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 This is not a dating site, or so i got told. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeverSure Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I figure they are mature enough when they hit 30. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazygreg44 Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 (edited) there indeed are many mature, beautiful widows ( of mostly Thai Chinese origin) on Asian dating sites. you find them , you won't regret it. A few of my friends are spending a lot of good time with independent mature women. Don't ever consider marrying . . . they, as turns out, don't want either. just having a good jolly time, travel together, lay down together. Join a "FF" forum ( i am not allowed to link) actually better than "buddy" up with an escort . . .some of these women even pay FOR YOUR TRIP !!! Given that you are an ATTRACTIVE, CHARMING guy with a long palm tree. Edited September 30, 2014 by crazygreg44 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snottgoblin Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 The thing is Tony some people live in a world of delusion and think they are someone else They need dating sites Adonis they are not split personality syndrome is indeed pitiful and masquerading as someone else shows total inadequacy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JAS21 Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Tony I know it's each to their own, but I'm really happy with my Aging Asian Babe as I fondly refer to her sometimes. We married nearly twelve years ago now, she was 48 then. She came to live in the UK for a while, now has a UK DL and Passport. Been back here since 2007. She plays off 17. I even get on well with 'my' 30year old step-daughter. No complaints, life is good ... try it. As I said, not for everybody though. And of course I haven't needed 'google' for years ................... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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i claudius Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Judging by what you read in the British newspapers all us older guys living in Pattaya never go out with mature 20 year olds only their young sisters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 When I hit 60's dated everything from 37-59.....I found the women in late 30's - 47ish fun, still youthful, playful, adventurous, active, + some well grounded and appreciative....50+ set in their ways, greedy, entitled, closed minded, not "active" in many ways (sex included) and generally not as much fun/pleasant to be around..... My wife is in her late 30's and we get on fine in every area of life......if she were 10-20 years older wouldn't have made a difference because we match up well. Personality/life/view point wise we just click.... I would say you are at the right age to have fun with a lot of great ladies until the right one comes along.....when she does you'll have enough time in with the others to recognize what you've found..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kabula Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 (edited) The older they are, the more baggage, more drama, the more family problems, and higher medical bills! What makes an old man old? A old woman! Would you buy a 40-50 year old car? Over time you will be buying them and family. Rent two, for backup, from ages, 30-35. Never ask where they have been, who is calling and why they have more than one cell phone. Be patient and go with the flow. Understand it's all about security now in most cases. When they start giving you a difficult time, hit up the backup and rent another. Understand when they ask you to buy something for them, in many cases they sell it for cash. Don't let them take all your money! And for goodness sake, don't build them a house! If she starts wearing a T shirt that says, "I never did like you," it's probably time to call the back up. Never look for love in all the wrong places. Living here for close to 9 years I've see it all! Read the book, "Private Dancer" and you will see through the smoke and mirrors. Edited October 1, 2014 by Kabula Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JingerBen Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Date girls in their early 30s. Women past 40 are over-the-hill... in Thailand and everywhere else in the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JingerBen Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 The older they are, the more baggage, more drama, the more family problems, and higher medical bills! What makes an old man old? A old woman! Would you buy a 40-50 year old car? Over time you will be buying them and family. Rent two, for backup, from ages, 30-35. Never ask where they have been, who is calling and why they have more than one cell phone. Be patient and go with the flow. Understand it's all about security now in most cases. When they start giving you a difficult time, hit up the backup and rent another. Understand when they ask you to buy something for them, in many cases they sell it for cash. Don't let them take all your money! And for goodness sake, don't build them a house! Never look for love in all the wrong places. Everything he says is true, but it's the advice of a sex-tourist. At your age, try to find a decent girl and settle down... then you will need a whole new set of maxims to live by. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDGRUEN Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 (edited) I love to look at and play with the younger gals in their 20s and 30s but they don't have much to offer outside the physical ... Not enough time for learning the world... So I have favored ladies in mid 40's and up. One romance lasted three months... I firmly believe good mature women can be found on the dating sites. Making something last for many years is entirely a different matter and where the two initially meet has little to do with longevity of the romance. I have several mature Thai women as friends and we are that - just friends and some of the best friends I have ever had. Maybe one of them will become more someday - who knows? There is lots of upside with mature Thai women ... educated ones can be found with good jobs and financial stability. They have something to talk about, they are great travel partners, many have retained their looks and figure (as opposed to far too many Western women). Sexuality - whether they like sex or not varies ... some are stuck in the morality of their generation, seems universal for women of a certain age,,, they can cook and most often do not see it as a burden... many are industrious and have made a good life for themselves... Downsides... Mature Thai women (as is universal) undergo menopause... some skate right though it... others become banshees and near impossible to get along with... and as would be expected - at least one bad marriage often of many years to a Thai guy... leaving many mental scars and reverse expectations ... you have to live up to a higher standard at all times in all ways... whether they have a good job with benefits or not - they may still expect a big sin sod (sin sot) and a big house .... the believe that all Farangs are rich transcends all age groups for Thai women. Some just cannot see the sense of combining assets month by month to make a future -- it must be all at once... (about the same as younger Thai women)... Then there is the problem of an older daughter becoming the expected caretaker of one or both of her parents - because the sons very often do nothing financially to help out. One other irritating thing is that among far too many mature women - their children never grow up and become financial responsible for themselves. I have ask a few about their 22 and even 25 year old children needing so much of Mom's money ... and the answers I get are never satisfactory to me... but I have experienced this with American women too.... yeah - it is cultural - but a free ride is a free ride regardless of culture. Typically found - a son who attends university off and on -- no job ... Bottom line I am not signing up for any participation in this sort of thing ... I had hopes of marriage but I believe I will refocus on long term partnerships - done at a distance if necessary... I have no problem finding very good prospects on dating sites ... some have been outstanding ... but the background limitations (as described above) make it difficult to go the long term... Again ... this would be the same if I met the gal through a friend - an introduction - as did happen once ... she is a lovely, cute - slim trim figure, intelligent mature woman, winning personality, educated, good job, has real estate assets ... but far too easily become Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde... I hope she recovers from her awful journey through menopause... plus recover from the pain of a first marriage - where her expectations were not met - and I was supposed to make up for all that ... instantly ... Bottom line for a guy in his 60's to have a young g/f is when the money gets low - the young gal gets going ... so a Western guy can pay for what he wants - but don't kid yourself... it is pay for play and nothing more... On balance - BY A LONG SHOT - I would rather be here in Thailand trying to find a long term mate than in America - where the pickens' are slim - but the women are not... and Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde are almost the norm... Compared to America dating in Thailand is a breath of fresh air... Edited October 1, 2014 by JDGRUEN 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umbanda Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 (edited) Looks to me that Thai women are more business minded than Thai men. Most mature independent single women in Thailand looks a lot younger that its age, and some are even more beautiful than the very young ones.. Many are independent business owners or retired, and properties owners....without kids around... Some..are really rich or millionaires. Independent Thai women really likes to have a farang partner, it is "classy", and no bad gossips about. It is a Thai "custom"..if a Thai woman knows that she is richer than its date...it will pay the bill...and more. I have a few friends happily married with that kind of women...one living in Dubai, other in Brazil, two in Bali.... Thailand just becomes its vacation spot..sometimes. Needs to mention...those friends are a lot younger than its Thai wives... If I was looking for a Thai woman older than myself..... probably I will found it in a nursing home...I had to setled with one a lot younger than myself.. Oh well....I am just a typical retrired expat . But....If I was on my 30's again.....I never will spend so much time looking for babes...just for real mature and independent women.... Edited October 1, 2014 by umbanda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ubonjoe Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Since the OP is unable to reply at time this topic is now closed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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