robblok Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Nobody sees the difference between listening too and being told what to do ? Telling me what to do.. no way. Listening.. sure I can't know everything. Good point Rob. It's one thing listening to your wifes advice, sometimes we all need it right? it's another her mopping the floor with your balls. Of course, listening to somebody implies conversation and exchanging ideas, told to do is more like no choice totally no free will her in full control. The wife is a tourguide, i would certainly listen to her advice on traveling in Thailand. If she tries to give me advice about my job (she knows nothing about it) i would not follow it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 My wife just told me to write ,"i never tell you what to do, DO I DARLING" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i met a few of these thai gals they immediately get to work fixing everything 'wrong' in your life and home fascinating lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Of course I do what she tells me. That's why I'm with her. As does she for me. There's nothing manly or macho about being overbearing or domineering. Seems childish and selfish. As AJD says, get a blow-up doll. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingalfred Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Many western men love being "ordered around" "told what to do" by Thai females. Maybe it reminds them of their younger days and "mothers control" and even though they never liked it then its an inability to escape that way if life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Many western men love being "ordered around" "told what to do" by Thai females. Maybe it reminds them of their younger days and "mothers control" and even though they never liked it then its an inability to escape that way if life. which matchbook cover advertised your psychology degree? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 (edited) I have veto power over every decision.....However it is seldom needed as we work/discuss together (and well) on just about everything...In many ways and processes I am more organized than her but on the flip side the same can be said for her....but in different areas.... Right now she's organizing her library cataloging by assigning numbers to each book in addition to listed by author..title..and publisher.....my novels are thown in a box....but I guess they are next on her list - everything else from closets to supplies to kitchen is neat/clean and organized as well....she has a place for everything and everything in it's place.....and always softly and with a smile - why would I want to screw that up? Just to assert/insert "friction"? I don't think so..... That's what a partnership is all about.... Edited January 8, 2015 by pgrahmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Joking aside ,my wife and i just discuss things ,sometimes she gets her way sometimes i get mine and sometimes we just agree ,same as in most marriages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bakeman Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Whiskey talk. LOL If there is no balance in your marriage it won't last long. One must listen and talk for conversation to appear. ROBBLOK that was funny though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crickets Posted January 8, 2015 Author Share Posted January 8, 2015 Yes when i put the foot down the discussion is over with my wife but this is rarely needed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingalfred Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Many western men love being "ordered around" "told what to do" by Thai females. Maybe it reminds them of their younger days and "mothers control" and even though they never liked it then its an inability to escape that way if life.which matchbook cover advertised your psychology degree?haha, touched a raw nerve. Maybe a mummy's boy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Many western men love being "ordered around" "told what to do" by Thai females. Maybe it reminds them of their younger days and "mothers control" and even though they never liked it then its an inability to escape that way if life.which matchbook cover advertised your psychology degree?haha, touched a raw nerve. Maybe a mummy's boy! and even at that you didnt graduate! wow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingalfred Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Many western men love being "ordered around" "told what to do" by Thai females. Maybe it reminds them of their younger days and "mothers control" and even though they never liked it then its an inability to escape that way if life.which matchbook cover advertised your psychology degree?haha, touched a raw nerve. Maybe a mummy's boy! and even at that you didnt graduate! wow someone acts like they are still aiming for graduation,suck your thumb! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 someone acts like they are still aiming for graduation,suck your thumb! the retort of one who didnt make it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingalfred Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 someone acts like they are still aiming for graduation,suck your thumb!the retort of one who didnt make ithaha, as much knowledge of that as you have of Thai women. zilch! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 someone acts like they are still aiming for graduation,suck your thumb!the retort of one who didnt make ithaha, as much knowledge of that as you have of Thai women. zilch! strike three and youre out! thanks for playing son Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingalfred Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 someone acts like they are still aiming for graduation,suck your thumb!the retort of one who didnt make ithaha, as much knowledge of that as you have of Thai women. zilch! strike three and youre out! thanks for playing sonyou were back in the clubhouse after 1 inning, oldman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 strike three and youre out! thanks for playing sonyou were back in the clubhouse after 1 inning, oldman! nobody forced you to concede pal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuckyLew Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Guess it depends in the way she tells you what to do? I prefer to be asked Was the guy drunk when he said it? sound more like he was trying to talk tough ... but when you are not there probably does exactly as he is told She can tell me what to do ... does not mean I will do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crickets Posted January 9, 2015 Author Share Posted January 9, 2015 I think he has been in pattaya too long and has seen it all and is probably too old to find a women who would love him. Mixed with alcohol and marijuana abuse and the onset of dimentia i think as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZBill Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Notice he had to be drunk to say that! Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anthony5 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Seriously ? you let your woman tell you what to do Looks like his wife has instructed him to open this thread to find out how others think about that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welsh1 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 There's a saying that "behind every great man there is a great women".... I having always taken that to mean that the man may bluster and talk big but quietly on the side he listens to his wife.... Happy wife ...Happy life QUOTE,,,,,There's a saying that "behind every great man there is a great women" corrected ,,"behind every great man there is a great women",, and behind her is another great man looking at her ASS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redandyellow Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Once she told me I could visit a short timer during a certain time of the month, not to do it per se...just not to tell her if I did.. .. do it.. she also tells me what Not to do.. drinking beer comes to mind, so I quit drinking beer, something I couldn't do on my own..from the track record anyways.. funny how you finally lose that weight as a result Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redandyellow Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I constantly explain to my girlfriend that she can only tell me what to do in the bedroom. In there, and only in there, she is the boss! Being proactive in all affairs is the key.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I was drinking at a expats house who was in his 60s with my wife and his. He is a bit of a mentor. I am in my mid 30s. Anyway he was quiet drunk and was complaining about thai women and said very loudly and angrily "no thai women tells me what to do!" His wife laughed and mine looked scared and wanted to go home. I thought about it later and it doesnt bother me if i generaly have to do what my wife says. Does it bother you or does no thai women tell u what to do? Mine has learned not to order me around but still gets whatever she wants! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marko kok prong Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 I do exactly what i want to do right after i have finished the washing up and laundry and any other jobs on the list,i told her i was not buying her flowers the other day,{she prefers jewelery]. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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