If he saw your wife cheating on you, would you want to know? There's your answer. Bro's take care of Bro's. This is a no-brainer.

. Exactly , Bro's before Ho's, Thx

The last time I told someone their GF was cheating,he said I lied and was going to kill me! of course he only came to Thailand 2 to 3 time a year so knew better than I.Nowadays i keep my mouth shut and let them live in cloud cuckoo land.

i had the same situation though not as extreme. knew my mate's gf was cheating and told him. he refused to believe me. he found out eventually. could have saved himself a lot of hassle but as they like to say over here; up to him.

if someone was doing the dirty on me i'd want to know.

OP is your mate supporting the girl financially? if he is definitely hell him! or as someone else suggested get someone else to tell him or create an e-mail address in a thai name and send a grammatically incorrect e-mail to him identifying person, times and places. job done.

. Takes care of her rent, maybe more idk, thx

If you didn't see with your own eyes and know beyond a shadow of a doubt perhaps we could discuss advising your mate. You know the saying believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.

Furthermore you give your word man that's it. However if the conversation went down as your had to give your word before hearing the news your a mug for doing so.

Good luck with your conscience though your moral compass is off a bit. Might wanna refill it's jamming

If he saw your wife cheating on you, would you want to know? There's your answer. Bro's take care of Bro's. This is a no-brainer.

Absolutely. Tell the poor sod. Also, he might have some similar info on your wife he was keeping to himself.

that was The Agreement... Thx

If you didn't see with your own eyes and know beyond a shadow of a doubt perhaps we could discuss advising your mate. You know the saying believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.

Furthermore you give your word man that's it. However if the conversation went down as your had to give your word before hearing the news your a mug for doing so.

Good luck with your conscience though your moral compass is off a bit. Might wanna refill it's jamming

you risk no tell with No Promise

Would tell him and if he did not talk to me again then so be it but how would you feel if was you and your wife was cheating and he did net tell you .

So tell who cares what your wife thinks be a man and tell him.

Furthermore does your wife know your mate, she isn't motivated to tell him of his problem. She see it as a non issue??

another crude remark remmoved

Furthermore does your wife know your mate, she isn't motivated to tell him of his problem. She see it as a non issue??

she would not have told me if nonissue, I believe...

Who do you sleep with ?

Your wife or your mate ?

nuff said

Sorry No Koji...I do Now

Sorry, but there is nothing exceptional in the news you got, happens everywhere but more often in Thailand.

If your mate have an e-mail account, just open a new one for you with a fake name and e-mail advising him to check in his girlfriend...and nothing more. If he write to you, NEVER respond for any reason. Just close your fake account and forget all about.

Blackmail?

I cheat on myself but please don't tell me.

If he is supporting her in any way, you gotta tell him

Your wife needs to tell him. If your wife cares about you she will understand the dilemma you are in and the agreement you made. The girlfriend has no moral fibre and the friendship your wife has with her cannot be considered a loss.

Just tell him the bitch is cheating on him and then tell your wife he found it out on his own not from you.

Terrible,reminds me of the time i got my todger caught ,in a vice,and old,Mrs hodges from the next house heard my screams,of course it was all a freak accident,as i had magnetised the vice,and as i reached up ,it litterally grabbed hold of me,owing to the steel zipper,on my short's,unfortunately as i was drawn toward the device i slipped tightening it on my member,and in said position i was unable to rewind the vice,Mrs Hodges though shocked ,called the fire brigade who where very understanding,moral of the story_be careful with big magnets.

I must say,i also got upstanding support from my local member[of parliment],to get soft gel like covers over the jaws of vice's.unfortunatly.it never got off the ground.

Bro's before ho's I always say.

Your wife telling you a story doesn't make it true

Find out where she is meeting her new man , and turn up unexpected by accident of course. then watch the sparks fly. But she will probably talk him round.

I was in this exact situation as your friend with my farang wife. I wish one of my "friends" told me. It would have saved me a lot of time, money and heartache.

He will find out eventually.

If he saw your wife cheating on you, would you want to know? There's your answer. Bro's take care of Bro's. This is a no-brainer.

Absolutely. Tell the poor sod. Also, he might have some similar info on your wife he was keeping to himself.

Sure, that's a good enough reason to grass her.

OP informs his mate that a little birdy told him his girlfriend is cheating.

OP`s mate confronts girlfriend. She either denies it or admits it. If she denies it, the OP will be considered a trouble maker, end of friendship. If she admits it, then a blazing row followed by so sollies, cuddles, make love, all is forgiven, girlfriend says I hate the OP, friend says, so solly cannot see you anymore, end of friendship. Or friend accuses OP of destroying the relationship, end of friendship. Either which way the OP is in a no win situation.

I made a pact with myself many years ago, which is; never get involved in other people`s dramas and best to let nature take it`s course. As the wise man says; always plead ignorance as ignorance is bliss. Getting involved is a thankless task and it`s always the good Samaritans that end up in the cold.

The last time I told someone their GF was cheating,he said I lied and was going to kill me! of course he only came to Thailand 2 to 3 time a year so knew better than I.Nowadays i keep my mouth shut and let them live in cloud cuckoo land.

it's quite a sticky situation, your damned if u do and damned if u don't , it's the agreement part that's bothering me, Thanks

Not sure why you would say "damned if u do and damned if u don't." It would seem that it's only damned if u do. What's the downside of keeping your mouth shut?

Guilt!

your wife has a birth mark in a very peculiur place.

well, ah, ah, that's what my friend told me.

Where do your wife's morals lay? Not meant to be offensive but I would explain to her why you feel the way you do.

I would feel concerned if I were you.

I'm not sure how good a mate you are to him or he is to you.

The last time I told someone their GF was cheating,he said I lied and was going to kill me! of course he only came to Thailand 2 to 3 time a year so knew better than I.Nowadays i keep my mouth shut and let them live in cloud cuckoo land.

it's quite a sticky situation, your damned if u do and damned if u don't , it's the agreement part that's bothering me, Thanks

Not sure why you would say "damned if u do and damned if u don't." It would seem that it's only damned if u do. What's the downside of keeping your mouth shut?

Guilt!

In other words, a self-inflicted wound.

thai's have no morals they do not understand the principle. a shag to them is just a bodily function like a pee and has no feelings attached.