I prefer mature Thai ladies

[theguyfromanotherforum]

I am 42 and my gf is 35. I still find her too young and sometimes immature. I really prefer to look at ladies between 40-55. Most of them look like they'd be real fun in the sack. Unfortunately as long as I'm I'm a relationship I'll never know.

Am I correct in this assumption?

[Ace of Pop]

Yes , Old Stradivarius Play the Best Tune.

[Fabricus]

Yep -- they tend to get naughtier as they get older.

I heard a story recently (which many local Thais said was true) of man who married an overweight hairdresser in her mid-forties. Apparently he had to divorce her after two weeks as she was simply too demanding.

If you're looking for serious action, keep an eye out for plump women between 40 and 50. The ones wearing tight skirts are probably the best bet.

[Crazy chef 1]

Yep -- they tend to get naughtier as they get older.

I heard a story recently (which many local Thais said was true) of man who married an overweight hairdresser in her mid-forties. Apparently he had to divorce her after two weeks as she was simply too demanding.

If you're looking for serious action, keep an eye out for plump women between 40 and 50. The ones wearing tight skirts are probably the best bet.

Though stick to it my old friend...

[CharlieH]

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[Baerboxer]

Can't stereotype or generalize - we're all unique with our own preferences which also change.

When 18 my GF was 25. Lovely sexy girl, already divorced twice but as hot as hell. Completely unreliable, but great for fun.

When I was 27 my GF was 42, married, played the organ in the local parish church, swore like a trooper and randy for it.

When I was 40 my GF was 26, Chinese colleague in HK.

My current wife is 19 years younger.

It's a lottery but, from my personal experience, Thais are the most adventurous behind closed doors, and younger means firmer, more eye candyish but older means more willing to put extra effort in.

Enjoy.

[JAFO]

Good Topic...

I worked with hundreds of assembly women in a mfg facility. I was a program manager and interacted with gals on the floor from 20-25 and more professional gals in Purchasing, Planning, materials, managers etc and they were 30 to 35 with college degrees Some with graduate degrees). While many of them looked quite pretty they had the maturity level of a teenager. It was rather annoying most of the time. They wore slippers at work in the office area. They had stuffed animals all around their cube areas. They giggled a lot, were on FB all the time. I went out on numerous after work get together dinners and they all acted so juvenile. I remember of a few occasions I'd see pics of them in their bedrooms with stuffed animals and rooms decorated like my daughters were when they were 8 or 9. I had a few that had expressed interest in me but I quickly declined. There was no way I could handle the immaturity. Plus being these gals were BKK gals they had gotten very accustomed to being spoiled by mommy and daddy.

It was only 4 years ago that I meet a 40 year old woman that I could date and have a descent conversation. So I agree the young ones are great to look at but a total turn off as soon as they talk or you watch them behave(Sex is only interesting for a short time but that wears off very very fast). I didn't want a juvenile dependent in my life I wanted a balanced woman that had some life experience, her own things and was mature. The added benefit is they know how to treat a man well.

This will always boil down to personal preference. I do not judge anybodies choice. I just know there is no way I could even think about having a relationship with a 25 to 35 year old Thai gal or marry one few decades or more apart. I always wondered what do they have in common and what do they talk about?

[meom]

LOL.

They need a lot more time and your average 3 minutes won’t do much for them.

Be prepared for plenty of mouth action and if you end up switching between mouth and tackle try to use a lubricant that won’t make you gag.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

LOL.

They need a lot more time and your average 3 minutes won’t do much for them.

Be prepared for plenty of mouth action and if you end up switching between mouth and tackle try to use a lubricant that won’t make you gag.

Yeah... and?

[JHolmesJr]

The older ones do tend to go off like a frog in a sock.

And strangely enough…I have NEVER been let down by one from Khonkaen.

[Seligne2]

I just met a great 49 yo with the looks of 33yo and the body of an 18 yo. I was gobsmacked. Her life does not revolve around her cell phone, esp taking selfies. What a great find!

[meom]

LOL.

They need a lot more time and your average 3 minutes won’t do much for them.

Be prepared for plenty of mouth action and if you end up switching between mouth and tackle try to use a lubricant that won’t make you gag.

Yeah... and?

And once you’re prepared for taking things slow and don’t mind lubricant they’re well worth it.

[NickJ]

I had a friend.......married a mid thirties Thai girl......She decorated the guest bedroom in there house with the Hello Kitty format....then it seeped into the rest of the house and car......This guy hasnt had a pair of pants on since he met her......

[MaeJoMTB]

Yes, wrinkly and saggy is better than young and firm.

[Berkshire]

There are certain advantages to preferring older Thai ladies. For one, you'll have so many to choose from. Sort of like fat women back in the US. If that's your thing, you've got your pick of the litter.

Unfortunately for me, I prefer them younger and thinner. A little more of a challenge, but certainly worth the chase.

[thehelmsman]

I had older when I was younger, now its time for visa versa.

[MaeJoMTB]

Unfortunately for me, I prefer them younger and thinner. A little more of a challenge, but certainly worth the chase.

If you consider reaching in your pocket for another 1,000bht note 'a challenge', then I guess you're right!

[JAFO]

I just met a great 49 yo with the looks of 33yo and the body of an 18 yo. I was gobsmacked. Her life does not revolve around her cell phone, esp taking selfies. What a great find!

@ Seligne2. I feel same way. Mid 40's now, looks younger. Dresses nice, no make up most of the time unless we go out, no painting of nails, just natural. Takes care of herself. Mature. Has some worldly experience. No social media crap, not on her phone all the time, no hello kitty, no pink bedroom with stuffed animals, never takes selfies..Plus she is a handy gal. Knows how to fix a lot of things on her own, cooks like a chef, takes awesome care of me. She will go hiking, fishing and bicycle riding. I think about the 30 year olds I saw and met at work and figure they have another 15 years before they are ready to be a good catch for someone...if that even happens. They were definitely going to be high maintenance and cost a lot of money.

Now for the guys looking for sack time and just want to shack up, it works. They do not have talk or be smart or even educated. They just have to look good for that 5 to 10 minutes. But as I mentioned before, sex is like any rush, once over, what's next? She has to offer a helk of a lot more to stimulate me or it would never work.

[Typingdog]

^

Don't think for other people. There are still lot of guy who prefer to teach his own woman to mold her into perfect woman for himself just saying

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[Ace of Pop]

By then you will be too old,go for one they Baked Earlier.

[happy Joe]

At age 20 I thought like you. I preferred women 35 years.

At 40 I confirmed this preference for women 35 years.

Today I am 65 and my wife 35 ...

[ExpatOilWorker]

Maturity of course come of age while education generally is acquired during the first 20-25 years of our lives.

I am sure there are some stellar find among the local spinster population, but some also have a lot of skeletons in the closets and there is a reason they are still single.

The education level has increased tremendously in Thailand the last 20 years and today you can meet university graduates who have studied a year or two overseas, fluent in English and as mature as their westerns peers. However, I do agree to the smartphone addiction and teddy bear affection.

[ExpatOilWorker]

I just met a great 49 yo with the looks of 33yo and the body of an 18 yo. I was gobsmacked. Her life does not revolve around her cell phone, esp taking selfies. What a great find!

@ Seligne2. I feel same way. Mid 40's now, looks younger. Dresses nice, no make up most of the time unless we go out, no painting of nails, just natural. Takes care of herself. Mature. Has some worldly experience. No social media crap, not on her phone all the time, no hello kitty, no pink bedroom with stuffed animals, never takes selfies..Plus she is a handy gal. Knows how to fix a lot of things on her own, cooks like a chef, takes awesome care of me. She will go hiking, fishing and bicycle riding. I think about the 30 year olds I saw and met at work and figure they have another 15 years before they are ready to be a good catch for someone...if that even happens. They were definitely going to be high maintenance and cost a lot of money.

Now for the guys looking for sack time and just want to shack up, it works. They do not have talk or be smart or even educated. They just have to look good for that 5 to 10 minutes. But as I mentioned before, sex is like any rush, once over, what's next? She has to offer a helk of a lot more to stimulate me or it would never work.

Sex is like sunshine on a beach.

On a cloudy rainy day, all you can do is sit under a palm tree and wait for the sun to come out.

Once the clouds clear and the sun is shining you don't even think about the sun anymore, but enjoy all the other activities the beach and ocean have to offer.

[i claudius]

I just like women all of them ,full stop

[Berkshire]

Unfortunately for me, I prefer them younger and thinner. A little more of a challenge, but certainly worth the chase.

If you consider reaching in your pocket for another 1,000bht note 'a challenge', then I guess you're right!

You do it your way, I'll do it mine...not that there's anything wrong with that.

[fang37]

Mature in mind - YES

Mature in body - NO

[JAFO]

I wanted to additionally comment my posts about "Mature women" is my point of view and I am not saying my view is the right or best view. I just offered up a post to the OP. We are all different and we are all in Thailand(for the ones that actually are) for different reasons. My reasons started as business, was not on a 2 week holiday, was not looking for a gal. I enjoyed that I got to come and assess Thailand under a western companies umbrella.. After time I liked the place, felt my money could work for me here and decided might be a good place to stay, get off the US work hamster wheel very early and if lucky meet a respectful, intelligent, English speaking, responsible gal and live out the rest of my life. Being I had been here for quite sometime and been out and about a lot I knew I could never handle a gal that called me "Teerak" or spoke some terribly broken English. That I had to explain things to her all the time or that she spoke Thai and left me to just sit there and smile like I understood as I had witnessed many many times with other westerners. The pink rooms, Hello Kitty, Facebook, selfies, stuff animals, trying to lead me around like I was a dog on a leash wouldn't work either. At some point my friends and colleagues in the states would meet her as I was traveling back and forth. It would be uncomfortable for me if she displayed those characteristics. Plus I did not want a gal that would just sit there and smile and not socialize. It wouldn't work for her either making the relationship stressed. I will admit I was very selective and knew there was a lot in meeting and having a serious relationship with any gal from another country. I figured this was my last rodeo with a woman. After 4+ years I got lucky enough to meet that gal that was the balance I wanted.

[NativeSon360]

I briefly dated a 57-year-old,, educated, retired professional, ethnic Chinese-Thai lady. A very nice lady, with a pleasant personality, who spoke excellent English, but could hold a conversation (on any topic) lasting more than 5-minutes.

She further kept small Teddy Bears mounted on the dashboard of her car. She also had a larger Teddy Bear in her home, that she hugged while watching television, and also slept with, when sleeping alone in her bed.

She also couldn't spend time with me, on the week-ends, because she felt obligated to spend her week-ends at home, together with her Mama & Papa (who happened to be living in the house, next-door to her Medical Doctor brother's house), and with a full-time paid live-in housekeeper, to provide for them.

The sex was, sigh.......well I've seen more life in goldfish, swimming around in an aquarium. You say you're looking for a mature Thai lady? If 14-years-old is mature enough for you, then great, because a 55-year-old teenager, is as good as it gets, practically everywhere in Asia, including the LOS. The only maturity to be found in a relationship with an Asian woman, is what you bring into that relationship, yourself. Good Luck

Edited October 15, 2015 by NativeSon360

[NativeSon360]

I wanted to additionally comment my posts about "Mature women" is my point of view and I am not saying my view is the right or best view. I just offered up a post to the OP. We are all different and we are all in Thailand(for the ones that actually are) for different reasons. My reasons started as business, was not on a 2 week holiday, was not looking for a gal. I enjoyed that I got to come and assess Thailand under a western companies umbrella.. After time I liked the place, felt my money could work for me here and decided might be a good place to stay, get off the US work hamster wheel very early and if lucky meet a respectful, intelligent, English speaking, responsible gal and live out the rest of my life. Being I had been here for quite sometime and been out and about a lot I knew I could never handle a gal that called me "Teerak" or spoke some terribly broken English. That I had to explain things to her all the time or that she spoke Thai and left me to just sit there and smile like I understood as I had witnessed many many times with other westerners. The pink rooms, Hello Kitty, Facebook, selfies, stuff animals, trying to lead me around like I was a dog on a leash wouldn't work either. At some point my friends and colleagues in the states would meet her as I was traveling back and forth. It would be uncomfortable for me if she displayed those characteristics. Plus I did not want a gal that would just sit there and smile and not socialize. It wouldn't work for her either making the relationship stressed. I will admit I was very selective and knew there was a lot in meeting and having a serious relationship with any gal from another country. I figured this was my last rodeo with a woman. After 4+ years I got lucky enough to meet that gal that was the balance I wanted.

Glad to read that there are always exceptions to the norms. Best wishes , and Cheers

[NativeSon360]

Yep -- they tend to get naughtier as they get older.

I heard a story recently (which many local Thais said was true) of man who married an overweight hairdresser in her mid-forties. Apparently he had to divorce her after two weeks as she was simply too demanding.

If you're looking for serious action, keep an eye out for plump women between 40 and 50. The ones wearing tight skirts are probably the best bet.

Great, if your looking for a 40-50 year-old teenage bargirl, in a disco-dance club. Mature women (as the OP stated as desirable) wear either calf-length, or full-length hemlined skirts, and dresses, for starters.

Any foreigner, seriously in search of a mature Asian woman, will look for that dress-style first. Otherwise, the bloke not looking at that body-language in a woman's dress-style, is just another member of the Richard Forbrain Society of Asian expats, in search of the next bargirl.

FYI _ Mature means: is she presentable enough to pass the scrutinization interview at my Embassy, to get a 6-month visa to my home country. Or that I can take her home someday, to proudly present her to my mom? Capiche? Huh?

Edited October 15, 2015 by NativeSon360