SoiBiker Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 True love has no age barrier. Wide age gap difference between spouses doesn't mean financial gain. We shouldn't jump to conclusion easily. Who are we to judge other people? Being older doesn't mean the person may go off first. There are so many younger age people nowadays who died early. I don't think it is anything to do with young folk dying early. There may be the odd case, but there is no getting away from it.If you are 70 and the wife is 30, and you really believe that she genuinely loves you, then you are more than stupid. So what's the maximum age gap for genuine love? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 True love has no age barrier. Wide age gap difference between spouses doesn't mean financial gain. We shouldn't jump to conclusion easily. Who are we to judge other people? Being older doesn't mean the person may go off first. There are so many younger age people nowadays who died early. I don't think it is anything to do with young folk dying early. There may be the odd case, but there is no getting away from it.If you are 70 and the wife is 30, and you really believe that she genuinely loves you, then you are more than stupid. So what's the maximum age gap for genuine love? How can you measure or quantify genuine love ? Loving someone is not the same as being "in love" with someone either. Why does everything have to be justified or explained, why analyse it, just leave people alone to do what they choose to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 True love has no age barrier. Wide age gap difference between spouses doesn't mean financial gain. We shouldn't jump to conclusion easily. Who are we to judge other people? Being older doesn't mean the person may go off first. There are so many younger age people nowadays who died early. I don't think it is anything to do with young folk dying early. There may be the odd case, but there is no getting away from it.If you are 70 and the wife is 30, and you really believe that she genuinely loves you, then you are more than stupid. So what's the maximum age gap for genuine love?How can you measure or quantify genuine love ?Loving someone is not the same as being "in love" with someone either. Why does everything have to be justified or explained, why analyse it, just leave people alone to do what they choose to do. Except, the op mentioned he (ironically) finds women his own age disgusting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 ""But the idea of having a wife of my age sounds disgusting to me anyway. """. Maybe the idea of having a girlfriend who is young enough to be your daughter is "disgusting" is another opinion. Maybe to some but not generally in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoiBiker Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 I think disgusting is a pretty strong word to use either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernard Flint Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 ""But the idea of having a wife of my age sounds disgusting to me anyway. """. Maybe the idea of having a girlfriend who is young enough to be your daughter is "disgusting" is another opinion. Grand daughter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank James Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 I don't know where I picked up the following utterly useless and indefensible "formula", but here it is, for your amusement and condemnation. The ideal age difference for a (hetero?) couple... the lady should be half the man's age, plus seven years. In our case, this is nearly the situation. I am 70, she is 44. Thai ladies age really well. She keeps up her appearance, and is very fitness conscious. I am proud to be seen with her, and since she is of mature age, we don't get as many noticeable "dirty looks" from visiting farang ladies. OK, light up the Flame Torch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoiBiker Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 If that formula is true, surely your wife needs to age at a different rate to you in order to remain ideal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cornishcarlos Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 30 years gap for me too... I'm 43, she's 73 but still a beauty I don't believe you, not even if she has deep, deep pockets. But you believe 73yr old guys have 24yr old wives !! To be fair, she does struggle a bit on long haul flights, her hip plays up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Hill Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 In my experience, the most vocal advocates/defenders of dating/marrying/breeding women half or a third of their age are typically the ones with the biggest, most profound hang ups about it You can see them at the malls scanning passers-by eager to glower angrily at anyone who looks at them and their farm fresh produce just that little bit too long . . . "Best-defense-is-a-good-offense"-type thing Always amusing Anyway, as long as they accept their far younger partner will almost ALWAYS have mercenary motivations behind their involvement, I don't suppose there's any real harm in it Unless, of course, they can't put up with being judged and ridiculed by locals and other foreigners or they begin to delude themselves the "love" they're paying for is real If they CAN . . . all power to them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy Joe Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Muahahahaha! 2015 ends with her usual lot of urban legends. Decidedly violent slap of feminism have left indelible marks in some. For me 30 years apart and happier than ever for 5 y here. But it is me who manages money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 In my experience, the most vocal advocates/defenders of dating/marrying/breeding women half or a third of their age are typically the ones with the biggest, most profound hang ups about it You can see them at the malls scanning passers-by eager to glower angrily at anyone who looks at them and their farm fresh produce just that little bit too long . . . "Best-defense-is-a-good-offense"-type thing Always amusing Anyway, as long as they accept their far younger partner will almost ALWAYS have mercenary motivations behind their involvement, I don't suppose there's any real harm in it Unless, of course, they can't put up with being judged and ridiculed by locals and other foreigners or they begin to delude themselves the "love" they're paying for is real If they CAN . . . all power to them Any chance of singing a different refrain? Got the feeling I've heard this tired old song a hundred times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 (edited) My pal is 69, his gf is 22. 47 year age gap. Not only that, but he's HUGE (110Kg) and she's TINY (40Kg). Hard to beat that record! Edited December 31, 2015 by MaeJoMTB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 It seems the only ones that are deluded about old guys thinking that the young women are in love with them are the ones that keeps telling them that they're deluded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeahSiam Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 It seems the only ones that are deluded about old guys thinking that the young women are in love with them are the ones that keeps telling them that they're deluded. Not necessarily. I think that JLCrab guy has a young, rented girlfriend who, he says, insists that she loves him. He believes her even though he's like 70 Someone suggested he should shut off the flow of cash for a couple of months to be sure. 555555555555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 It seems the only ones that are deluded about old guys thinking that the young women are in love with them are the ones that keeps telling them that they're deluded. Not necessarily. I think that JLCrab guy has a young, rented girlfriend who, he says, insists that she loves him. He believes her even though he's like 70 Someone suggested he should shut off the flow of cash for a couple of months to be sure. 555555555555 Well JL Crab has a lot to answer for because none of the old guys I know are under any delusions about their attractiveness (other than financial) to young women, and really, they just don't give a damn what anyone else thinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 (edited) My wife is 14 years younger!! ..sounds great until I tell you that I am sixty. I cannot handle younger women, as they come with teenage kids and such. Worse yet, are the with babies/toddlers. Been there and done that. Nothing much in common with a girl under 30. I can tell you (since I live here year round), is that most younger girls still like to play, when the old cat goes home after wintering in Thailand. I do pity some of these young girls having to bed with old men... None of these girls look pround, when I see them walking around with a relic. Now, I do realize a select few old geezers have a young girl that actually likes them old....and that they may have grown to love them. Edited December 31, 2015 by slipperylobster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Off topic and bickering removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TuskegeeBen Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 (edited) Apparently there are some unfulfilled chapters of your puberty years, and adolescence that require closure. Westerner (seniors) who fail to mature (grow-up) from within the realm of their own indigenous cultures, have little more than a self-deluded chance, in believing they'll get closure with some girl, who's young enough to be their own granddaughter. And, this fact especially holds true with a girl who functions on a totally different level of "consciousness". Then there's the "baby-teenaged Thai girl", who's raised from within a totally different cultural, educational-level and language base, than your own. Get real, man! As a westerner, the only substantial, quality lifestyle that you will ever enjoy in Asia, is the lifestyle that you brought with you, and then spend your hard-earned & saved money, for the privilege of maintaining it, in the LoS. Capiche? Edited December 31, 2015 by TuskegeeBen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renter Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 some people need a reality check. many younger Thai women prefer older guys & why wouldn't they. have a look at what is on offer in the younger brigade - simpletons who after a few days of playing with their phones have nothing intelligent to say. Thai ladies are not stupid - contrary to what many losers on here say ( as they failed with women at home & they fail here too ) - females' internal clocks are ticking LOUDLY. If they hang with young & poor cheap-charlie losers it's for very little time. I have many older friends living happily with young Thai women as I do too and am I'm very content. After all the young cheap-charlie's are here for a little while & then it's back to their career of flipping burgers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Hill Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 some people need a reality check. many younger Thai women prefer older guys & why wouldn't they. have a look at what is on offer in the younger brigade - simpletons who after a few days of playing with their phones have nothing intelligent to say. Thai ladies are not stupid - contrary to what many losers on here say ( as they failed with women at home & they fail here too ) - females' internal clocks are ticking LOUDLY. If they hang with young & poor cheap-charlie losers it's for very little time. I have many older friends living happily with young Thai women as I do too and am I'm very content. After all the young cheap-charlie's are here for a little while & then it's back to their career of flipping burgers. Yeah cos all the younger fellas are skint and all pensioners are minted. Right, got it LOL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 (edited) some people need a reality check. many younger Thai women prefer older guys & why wouldn't they. have a look at what is on offer in the younger brigade - simpletons who after a few days of playing with their phones have nothing intelligent to say. Thai ladies are not stupid - contrary to what many losers on here say ( as they failed with women at home & they fail here too ) - females' internal clocks are ticking LOUDLY. If they hang with young & poor cheap-charlie losers it's for very little time. I have many older friends living happily with young Thai women as I do too and am I'm very content. After all the young cheap-charlie's are here for a little while & then it's back to their career of flipping burgers. Yeah cos all the younger fellas are skint and all pensioners are minted. Right, got it LOL! Contrary to your biased opinion, it might surprise you to learn that there are a lot of pensioners who are living here, very, very comfortably, thanks to astute investments and big superannuation policies. While the younger guys are here for their 3 week annual holiday, spending their meagre savings from the job of packing shelves at the local supermarket, I can understand the resentment and jealousy coming from the younger guys as they head back to their dead-end jobs. Bon voyage boys! Edited December 31, 2015 by giddyup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiduncankk Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 No woman dreams of marrying a man 30 years, or more, older than herself, unless money is involved. They prefer Thai men, preferably around their own age, who they can communicate with. That is why a lot of them are involved with the younger Thais behind the sugar daddy's back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Exceptions might occur if you were a somebody rather than an elderly wannabe who washed up here after having failed with women in the west. Drug dealers and murderers are also attractive to many women. So we all have at least two options left. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabricus Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Exceptions might occur if you were a somebody rather than an elderly wannabe who washed up here after having failed with women in the west. Drug dealers and murderers are also attractive to many women. So we all have at least two options left. Ha! But that is true. I was actually thinking of 63 year-old football managers who steer their teams to the top of the Premiere League and get voted Coach of the Year. Aging movie stars are also very attractive. I reckon Clint could still get almost anyone. And so could Harrison. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Post removed. You can express an opinion, without being personal, inflammatory and rude about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 (edited) I was actually thinking of 63 year-old football managers who steer their teams to the top of the Premiere League and get voted Coach of the Year. Aging movie stars are also very attractive. I reckon Clint could still get almost anyone. And so could Harrison. Too much effort, drugs is easier. Edited December 31, 2015 by MaeJoMTB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I don't care what she wants or what she does behind my back. As long as the babies coming out test as mine, it's all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I don't care what she wants or what she does behind my back. As long as the babies coming out test as mine, it's all good. It is amusing how so many think that their own mistakes and misfortunes must apply to everyone. Happy New Year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TuskegeeBen Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) some people need a reality check. many younger Thai women prefer older guys & why wouldn't they. have a look at what is on offer in the younger brigade - simpletons who after a few days of playing with their phones have nothing intelligent to say. Thai ladies are not stupid - contrary to what many losers on here say ( as they failed with women at home & they fail here too ) - females' internal clocks are ticking LOUDLY. If they hang with young & poor cheap-charlie losers it's for very little time. I have many older friends living happily with young Thai women as I do too and am I'm very content. After all the young cheap-charlie's are here for a little while & then it's back to their career of flipping burgers. "some people need a reality check"???? . Do yourself a favor, sir! See the OP topic "Farang_Rules_Of_The_Road" Edited January 1, 2016 by TuskegeeBen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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