Man, I'm so glad I live here

[fey]

sounds like more of a real relationship then the "silent couples" i see so often at restaurants who dont have anything to say and who ignore each others presence ie rental girlfriends who hate you

man, at least they were working something out or expressing an opinion even if it sucked at the time

[samsensam]

judgemental post. why assume the female is in the wrong?

have you never seen western couples having disagreements?

i have thai female friends; educated, professional, hard working, who are treated shabbily by foreign guys.

[Tonto21]

Yes you are right

I had a girlfriend like that

Fortunately i ditched her and married my soul mate

'MATE'.......................... We've all had a girlfriend like that, ha ha ha...... Some of us had more than one. Yes I too am glad I moved to Thailand, now married to a fantastic woman with a big calm heart.........

[pgrahmm]

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=948527405262556&id=432997463482222

It's catching.....

[KarenBravo]

Women......find the right one and you are made

Find the wrong one and you are <deleted> !

They're all the wrong one.

The only difference is the time it takes them, with you, to get there.

Most of them can hold it together for a night or two, that's good enough for me.

Oh dear. Now that is a "Victim" talking if ever I heard one.

And a rather bitter one, at that.

[GuestHouse]

The OP is not the only western man who moved to Thailand with a bag of problems with western women.

And as is usual for these guys he believes he managed to leave his problems behind him when he moved to Thailand.

The assumptions he makes, the language he uses all points to the fact that he has not.

[GuestHouse]

Nice thread. Hilton is not the best location for such a story. In any case, why assume that the male is taking care of the woman and not the woman taking care of her toy boy? I am a hansum man. Many people would have to pay for my company. I am still waiting for the offers though.

Anyway, hanging about Sukie isn't a picture of Thailand. It's a tourist zone and the only Thais one comes across are those who work in the zone. Why not take a quick hop up to Roi Et or down to Pattani, or over to Rayong, or many other places and then come back with your impressions.

So all Thai women staying at the Hilton on Sukhumvit are hookers, because it's obvious what you mean with the " Zone"?

Your conclusion only makes sense if the assumption you have made is true that Geriatrickid has said all Thai people who work in the tourist zones are hookers - he did not say that.

The assumption was your latent need to be offended looking for something to be offended over.

[Jay1]

"So, I am staying at Hilton Sukhumvit...."

Methinks this is the whole point of his post

Ok, next time I will say Khaosan Palace just to make my post more credible in your eyes.

No, this was not the point of my post. youthinks whatever

Pathetic.

To be fair I've actually had some very messy evenings staying at khaosan palace

[BritManToo]

The OP is not the only western man who moved to Thailand with a bag of problems with western women.

And as is usual for these guys he believes he managed to leave his problems behind him when he moved to Thailand.

The assumptions he makes, the language he uses all points to the fact that he has not.

I had a problem with a white woman, she wouldn't stop making accusations to the local UK police.

When I moved to Thailand, I left all those problems behind, she still kept making the accusations, but the police no longer believed her.

Now I live equally in England, Spain, France and Thailand, still no problems, because she doesn't know when I'm in the UK to make her accusations.

[1BADDAT]

Of course I take her with me.

What was her take (opinion, comment) on the situation?

[pgrahmm]

I'm under the assumption that this is somehow all about the OP's experience of watching a misbehaving/bitchy/ spoiled/manipulative woman?

Or - possibly, the push pull syndrome on display.....

Maybe even enabling & unraveling the entire thread?....

[GuestHouse]

I'm under the assumption that this is somehow all about the OP's experience of watching a misbehaving/bitchy/ spoiled/manipulative woman?

Or - possibly, the push pull syndrome on display.....

Maybe even enabling & unraveling the entire thread?....

I'm under the impression the OP is 'projecting'.

We have no idea at all if what the OP reports is actually what he witnessed but clearly he would have had to follow the couple atound the hotel to have been privy to their continuing conversation.

The only truth we know have is the words the OP chooses to use when discussing the woman in his reported encounter.

"

...her Asian with a tattooed right arm (almost looks like a porn star) .... she is just bitching at him non stop. .... while she is sitting away with her bitchy face slurping bubble tea. ....When he finally finds her she says some totally bs crap "there are no seats here, is this, blah, blah, blah". ..... She was just a typical trash and behaving like I never seen a Thai woman behave.....If this was me I would just literally give her a kick in the ass....Get rid of that poison you carry with you....

"

Edited April 4, 2016 by GuestHouse

[farang000999]

OP was probably at the Hilton because he picked up a hooker. He was feeling like Brad Pitt cause he got laid. He saw a hot Asian-American girl with a boyfriend in a real relationship. That made him feel some type of way. He starts creating a narrative in his head. He comes on Thai Visa and tries to convince us himself of his narrative.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

OP was probably at the Hilton because he picked up a hooker. He was feeling like Brad Pitt cause he got laid. He saw a hot Asian-American girl with a boyfriend in a real relationship. That made him feel some type of way. He starts creating a narrative in his head. He comes on Thai Visa and tries to convince us himself of his narrative.

I was in a hotel with my wife.

More "assumptions"?

[theguyfromanotherforum]

Also I can honestly say I've never been with a hooker. That's just not what Serbs do. I find it very unappealing when people come to Thailand and brag about how many women they had sex with.... In a country where even invalids can get a date with a hottie.

And bringing hookers to Hilton.....haaa haaaa!

Edited April 4, 2016 by CharlieH

[Suradit69]

And no girlfriends back in farang land ever throw hissy fits?? Who knows what preceded the public display.

Still amazes me that some self-appointed judgmental farang can see something, leap to a global condemnation of the entire country based on that incident and act as though such things happen only in Thailand.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

And no girlfriends back in farang land ever throw hissy fits?? Who knows what preceded the public display.

Still amazes me that some self-appointed judgmental farang can see something, leap to a global condemnation of the entire country based on that incident and act as though such things happen only in Thailand.

Lol. Can you people read? I didn't write my post in Bulgarian.

[pgrahmm]

You know.... you read stuff here and then you think.... man, have I made a right decision? Is this really the country for me? The women, the police, crime, etc, etc....

Then you see something and literally thank god that you do not have to put up with this stuff back home.

So, I am staying at Hilton Sukhumvit and just came back from breakfast.

The young couple - I think from USA..... her Asian with a tattooed right arm (almost looks like a porn star) and a young guy (pretty good looking) enter the premises and right away I see tension. The guy is pretty calm and quiet and she is just bitching at him non stop. Then the Asian girl says something like " is this, blah, blah". She storms out just outside the restaurant and sits in the sitting area outside. The guy is looking for her like a lost child while she is sitting away with her bitchy face slurping bubble tea. When he finally finds her she says some totally bs crap "there are no seats here, is this, blah, blah, blah". The hotel is empty and there were plenty of seats. She was just a typical trash and behaving like I never seen a Thai woman behave, If this was me I would just literally give her a kick in the ass and say bye, bye. I wanted to approach the guy and tell him look man, you are in Thailand. Get rid of that poison you carry with you, but in the true spirit of not getting involved here, I just hope this rather good looking guy will come to his senses.

Sometimes I go hard on older guys here, but I understand what must they have gone through and any arrangement with a Thai woman.... even if it is purely financial is better than the crap I witnessed above.

All I can say I was really disgusted.

OP - was she speaking US type english? Any accent?

What made you think they were from the states....?

If they are he's pretty much stuck with her for the length of the trip.....Or maybe for life if married....

She mightn't have been a Thai....Or - she might be VERY familiar to the hotel staff/some guests & not want to interact with them.....

[Slain]

transam, on 03 Apr 2016 - 09:24, said:

SoiBiker, on 03 Apr 2016 - 09:21, said:

If you live here, why are you staying in a hotel?

Why not...?

Do you have a problem with another's chosen abode...?

Personally I don't, but I am a tad jealous.

[lounger]

Why stay in a hotel? Why not? I have lived in a hotel for 4 years and the facilities are better than a 4 million baht condo, it has more atmosphere better location but costs the same. The difference is in not having anything to sell in say 10 years but then I haven't had the maintenance either or the problems of selling and if i get bad neighbours I can move on.

[1BADDAT]

OP was probably at the Hilton because he picked up a hooker. He was feeling like Brad Pitt cause he got laid. He saw a hot Asian-American girl with a boyfriend in a real relationship. That made him feel some type of way. He starts creating a narrative in his head. He comes on Thai Visa and tries to convince us himself of his narrative.

I was in a hotel with my wife.

More "assumptions"?

i thought she was your Girlfriend. That is what you stated earlier...forgot what you made up?

[thesetat2013]

Yes you are right

I had a girlfriend like that

Fortunately i ditched her and married my soul mate

You and me mate.. But i think every foreigner really looking for a good woman here has their chance with the money grubbing bitches that think they are the shit and it don't stink before they finally shove her away....

[peterb17]

"So, I am staying at Hilton Sukhumvit...."

Methinks this is the whole point of his post

Why ? It's just another corporate hotel- not very special. Many of us , if we are going to Bangkok for a few days stay in much better hotels.

There is no point in dying wealthy - enjoy your money.

[F4UCorsair]

What a great shame there is no law against trolling!!! we see far too much, and much of it emanating from the same member/s, even if under another identity.

[fey]

OP was probably at the Hilton because he picked up a hooker. He was feeling like Brad Pitt cause he got laid. He saw a hot Asian-American girl with a boyfriend in a real relationship. That made him feel some type of way. He starts creating a narrative in his head. He comes on Thai Visa and tries to convince us himself of his narrative.

I was in a hotel with my wife.

More "assumptions"?

your here for the temples?

[JAS21]

Women......find the right one and you are made

Find the wrong one and you are <deleted> !

They're all the wrong one.

The only difference is the time it takes them, with you, to get there.

Most of them can hold it together for a night or two, that's good enough for me.

Why dont you give other men a go? Hell you can even adopt a baby together!

If they look good in a frock, and I've had a few beers, I'm up for it.

But still only for a night. No homophobia here.

If I ever feel the need love and companionship, I'll buy a yellow Labrador.

Well don't take any selfies of you and your love ...could get you a long holiday ☺

[bazza40]

So you've no idea about the context of the situation, but you're assuming she's the one at fault?

Says more about you than them, really.

Just wondering what a statistical analysis of your posts would show in terms of % judgmental.

[smotherb]

Yes you are right

I had a girlfriend like that

Fortunately i ditched her and married my soul mate

Yeah, too many women act like that. When men do act that way, they are usually drunk or just plicks. Somehow women manage hissy-fits sober, even when they are not generally bitches.

Edited April 4, 2016 by smotherb

[KarenBravo]

Live in a hotel?

As a frequent stayer in hotels (good ones) for business, I can't think of anything worse.

It's no substitute for a real home........

[SoiBiker]

So you've no idea about the context of the situation, but you're assuming she's the one at fault?

Says more about you than them, really.

Just wondering what a statistical analysis of your posts would show in terms of % judgmental.

I wonder what percent of your recent posts are off-topic, stalkerish replies to mine.

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