Problems With Wife

[Douggie Style]

OP

I found that she planned to marry him even though she was married to me already!

then later the story changes to

I have not been to her village since she married the other guy.

[Rumourz]

No no no... marry me, I'll make sure that you'd rather stick your face to the pillow than going any where else

[roguegirl]

I swear on a stack of bibles that my story is 100% true. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction

Ok, if you say so. Number one, your wife is married to 2 men. That is illegal and is a good basis for fraud claims against her and perhaps the one chance you have of ever seeing any of your money again. Contact a lawyer.

How else can he show the man he is other than to fight another man and eventually win the most stunning ( ) and the most beautiful go-go-get-money girl in the whole of the country (perhaps the most beautiful one in the whole Asian region ).

He doesn't need a lawyer. He needs someone to tell him what he wants.

[jing jing]

I also get frustrated when someone tells a story asking for advice and then totally ignores what is given him !

That's exactly why people make these stories up and post them on Forums.

Yes, the OP is not a particularly believable piece of fiction, and it's beyond me as to why folks would make the effort to compose a serious reply to such an obvious windup.

Could anyone actually be so devoid of common sense as to send 5 million baht to a bar girl to build a house in her village?

Totally absurd.

[roguegirl]

No no no... marry me, I'll make sure that you'd rather stick your face to the pillow than going any where else

Nah...!! Far from it. Maxwell, you should marry me instead. I can cook, I can clean and I can <deleted> like nobody's business till the buffaloes, the geese, the chickens, the horses, etc. come home.

How's that?

We can honeymoon somewhere and make love under the sun, the stars, the roof or under the shaded forest trees like monkeys and orang-utan.

[Rumourz]

I swear on a stack of bibles that my story is 100% true. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction

Ok, if you say so. Number one, your wife is married to 2 men. That is illegal and is a good basis for fraud claims against her and perhaps the one chance you have of ever seeing any of your money again. Contact a lawyer.

How else can he show the man he is other than to fight another man and eventually win the most stunning ( ) and the most beautiful go-go-get-money girl in the whole of the country (perhaps the most beautiful one in the whole Asian region ).

He doesn't need a lawyer. He needs someone to tell him what he wants.

You see, she is not a go go bar girl.. she is just someone happened to work in a place with pool table. Her job is playing pool with farangs. So.. she is someone special and different than the other girls in LOS. and of course she is the most beautiful lady in the whole Asia.. no one can be par with her... nobody.. nobody... *sob* *sob*

[PhilHarries]

This is getting morbid, like watching the reruns of 9/11 over and over. Like a slow motion train crash every one can see it happening, can't do anything about it but can't turn away.

She worked in the hotel pool bar. A high proportion of hotel staff are also on the game, part time at least, for the extra dough.

Also a high proportion of restaurant staff are similarly topping up their bank accounts.

A mate of mine was propositioned in Mikes department store in Pattaya and another got a tug in the duty free shop at Don Muang.

Look, just say you're going to give her the boot, we'll all forget you ever existed and you can do <deleted> you like.

Still getting that strong troll odour and my socks were clean on this morning.

[roguegirl]

I swear on a stack of bibles that my story is 100% true. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction

Ok, if you say so. Number one, your wife is married to 2 men. That is illegal and is a good basis for fraud claims against her and perhaps the one chance you have of ever seeing any of your money again. Contact a lawyer.

How else can he show the man he is other than to fight another man and eventually win the most stunning ( ) and the most beautiful go-go-get-money girl in the whole of the country (perhaps the most beautiful one in the whole Asian region ).

He doesn't need a lawyer. He needs someone to tell him what he wants.

You see, she is not a go go bar girl.. she is just someone happened to work in a place with pool table. Her job is playing pool with farangs. So.. she is someone special and different than the other girls in LOS. and of course she is the most beautiful lady in the whole Asia.. no one can be par with her... nobody.. nobody... *sob* *sob*

Sounds like we have to... *sob* *sob*... move on... Or... FIGHT IT OUT!!!!!!

The winner gets the man!!!!!

Yah!!!

[HenryB]

Dig around the forum, theres loads of similar threads with similar situations...

... we've heard this story a million times already this week!

It was your idea to marry her. Now you ask us for ideas.

My idea is if you marry a girl from a bar or a freelancer you will be taken.

Anyway you did it now live with it or go to top of tall building a jump. It will be over.

[Rumourz]

Nah...!! Far from it. Maxwell, you should marry me instead. I can cook, I can clean and I can <deleted> like nobody's business till the buffaloes, the geese, the chickens, the horses, etc. come home.

How's that?

We can honeymoon somewhere and make love under the sun, the stars, the roof or under the shaded forest trees like monkeys and orang-utan.

Ah Roguegirl, are you sure? hehhehee.. I can <deleted> like a rabbit... oh no.. rabbit ain't good, <deleted> like a kangaroo... hrrm.. not good either.. Ah.. better.. <deleted> like a HIPPO!! until you see stars 24/7

I don't cook because we can hire some celebrity chef since money is not a problem. I don't like to get my hands stinks with onions. eww what a turn off...

I don't clean because we can also hire someone to do that. I am taking care of my hands so that they always stay smooth and gentle to touch...

[roguegirl]

Nah...!! Far from it. Maxwell, you should marry me instead. I can cook, I can clean and I can <deleted> like nobody's business till the buffaloes, the geese, the chickens, the horses, etc. come home.

How's that?

We can honeymoon somewhere and make love under the sun, the stars, the roof or under the shaded forest trees like monkeys and orang-utan.

Ah Roguegirl, are you sure? hehhehee.. I can <deleted> like a rabbit... oh no.. rabbit ain't good, <deleted> like a kangaroo... hrrm.. not good either.. Ah.. better.. <deleted> like a HIPPO!! until you see stars 24/7

I don't cook because we can hire some celebrity chef since money is not a problem. I don't like to get my hands stinks with onions. eww what a turn off...

I don't clean because we can also hire someone to do that. I am taking care of my hands so that they always stay smooth and gentle to touch...

HIPPO!!!! Pah!!!!

He'll get inflated!!!! Darn it!!!!

I better get some exercise than to stay in bed all the time. I can't have the d!ck soak all the time. I bet Maxwell would like some time out too!

Maybe he can have us both then. We all can have a threesome on the weekends.

I certainly don't want any maid. I want it sponanteous... like on the kitchen table...

Edited November 9, 2006 by roguegirl

[Rumourz]

Sounds like we have to... *sob* *sob*... move on... Or... FIGHT IT OUT!!!!!!

The winner gets the man!!!!!

Yah!!!

Come to think of it... I guess I am not interested in "not-so-smart-guy" but claim himself as someone "smart" tsk..tsk... what a pity...

[roguegirl]

Sounds like we have to... *sob* *sob*... move on... Or... FIGHT IT OUT!!!!!!

The winner gets the man!!!!!

Yah!!!

Come to think of it... I guess I am not interested in "not-so-smart-guy" but claim himself as someone "smart" tsk..tsk... what a pity...

He has quite an ego. Hope his d!ck is as big as his ego.

[Couthy]

Dig around the forum, theres loads of similar threads with similar situations...

... we've heard this story a million times already this week!

It was your idea to marry her. Now you ask us for ideas.

My idea is if you marry a girl from a bar or a freelancer you will be taken.

Anyway you did it now live with it or go to top of tall building a jump. It will be over.

Ever thought of a career in Social Work?.

Yup- the OP wants to just forget it or become another Pattaya base jumper.

Singly goils don't hang around in pool bars unless they are 'at it' - christ on a bike, what about

his own country?. Would he approve of his young sister hanging around pool tables in an area known for..........well....known for.......!

Techies - "Teflon Men" are not noted for their grasp of reality.

Cheers,

Couthy

[Maxwell Smart]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

[roguegirl]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

No problem with us here, I think. Just go ahead as long as you don't mind your wife <deleted> around for money because what you gave her is still NEVER enough. AND marrying as many a man she wants too!

Edited November 9, 2006 by roguegirl

[Rumourz]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

Ahem.. sorry for previous jokes.

But why are you still interested with a woman who had cheated on you...? This is very rare in a man... I don't know any man who can stand their gf/wife cheating on them...

[roguegirl]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

Ahem.. sorry for previous jokes.

But why are you still interested with a woman who had cheated on you...? This is very rare in a man... I don't know any man who can stand their gf/wife cheating on them...

He likes his woman to have plenty of experience.

[jing jing]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

Maybe if you send her another 5 million baht... and if that doesn't work, try sending 10 million baht since money doesn't matter to you and you're making that kind of cash.

Someone please put this troll out of his misery.

[svenivan]

Hey Maxwell, are you from New Zealand?

I was dating a girl there years ago that already was engaged to a boyfriend. He drove her to our dates!

It sounds like you! Or maybe one of your brothers?

Come on, wake up! If you are not a troll there are no trolls!

[gpt]

If you want advice, there's plenty on this thread.

If you want sympathy, you'll find it in the dictionary - halfway between sex and syphilis.

If you want to be believed - get your story straight.

[Maizefarmer]

I work in high tech industry and transferred to BKK 5 years ago. Shortly after my arrival I met a beautiful girl of 24 in a pool bar, I was 34. I dated her and became very attached immediately. Shortly after that, I asked her to move in with me and quit work. She was making 3 or 4K/mo plus tips in the bar so I gave her 20K monthly to compensate. She lived with me so all her living costs were covered plus I took her shopping anytime she wanted for clothes, jewelery or whatever. I make a lot of money so it's no problem for me. We lived together for a year and would go out every night and play pool so we were living well and I was complacent with her. After the year was up, I was transferred abroad and had to leave her behind. Little did I know but living without her would be unbearable. So I moved to a nearby country and she stayed behind and went back to work. I left her with about 70K be4 I left but did not send any cash in the next month.

After a month working abroad I realized that I could not live without this girl. I called her all the time and finally got her to come visit for a few days but this was not enough. I had met and been with some girls in my new country but it was not the same. I loved the Thai girl and could not live without her. I came back to visit after a year of working and spent a few weeks with her. During this time I asked her to Marry to which she said yes. In the meantime I was transferred yet again to a 3rd world country half way around the world. I arranged to Marry 6 months after my transfer and came back to Thailand at that time and we married. She came with me to my new country but she became very bored quickly and went back to Thailand. I got her to come back again but after a few weeks the same thing happened and she went back again. During this visit to me, I decided to have a look in her phone and noticed that she was talking to someone overseas. I didn't think too much about it but it did stick in my head. In the meantime, I gave her 5 million baht to build a house in her village.

I kept in touch with a few BKK friends by email and got one from a guy who said that he had seen my wife exiting a disco with a man. I asked the friend if he was sure it was her and he said absolutely. So basically I figured out that she was with the European man whose phone number was in her phone. I probed her on this but she said it was the bf of her friend who was at bar with her that night.

I came to bkk to visit her the next month and things were not well cause I suspected she was lying and told her so. She was furious at the friend who tipped me off and continued to deny. I decided to run more phone checks but found nothing. Then I hacked into her email by guessing her secret question to get her password. This is where I found out the story about the Euro man. I found that she planned to marry him even though she was married to me already! I made her come clean and she said that she met the guy in the bar after I left the 1st time and that he was good with her and gave her money without her asking. She also said that she loved me and did not love him but that I did not offer to give her money she needed to complete her house but that this man did.

Bottom line is that she did marry the man but says she does not love him. She loves me she says. I do still love her. I told her to make her choice, me or him cause I cant go on like this. Thus far she has not made her choice. She seems to be trying to hold onto both of us and do a juggling act. She has been to this man's country a few times I have discovered. He also visits her here. What should I do?

My opinion was not the fact that there was another guy lurking in the background, its that she went to lengths to conceal it and then when confronted, tried to deny it: it's called dishonesty - its a learned behaviour trait and once learned it becomes a defensive mechanism that will rear its ugly. head every time the a situation calls for it.

AS Wolfie said on the first page of this thread .................. nothing new here, the forum is full of such postings/threads and although they all have there slight differances they at the end of the day much a repeat of the same thing.

Time to move on

Tim

[skippy]

Could this be FunFunFun again?

[fruittbatt]

Could this be FunFunFun again?

Is this the general forum or the AGONY HELPLINE?

Must be some weird planetary alignment at the mo, with 4 guys in 2 days producing such tragic tales.

If this is indeed a sincere version of actual events, I would suggest that the OP read the advice given to the other posters.

The similarities between these narratives are remarkable. And the strange part?: ALL the guys are total babes in wonderland being led by the small brain by ALL these nasty, cheatin' grrrls. Can you believe it?

Edited November 9, 2006 by fruittbatt

[Maigo6]

Must be some weird planetary alignment at the mo, with 4 guys in 2 days producing such tragic tales.

The similarities between these narratives are remarkable.

Can you believe it?

No, can you?

Thai Visa is being attacked by a group of trolls at the moment, or one troll with many names.

That I can believe.

[dgoz]

Yaaawwn

[Douggie Style]

I can see that you all are having a lot of fun with this but it is a serious situation. The way I see it is that I have one goal and that is to get her to break it off with the other guy. I know the whole thing sounds crazy but this is what I have been trying to get done unsuccessfully. Surely there is a way to get this done.

Call Z.i.g.f.r.e.i.d from KAOS (on the shoe phone it's got flat rates).

Just in case you are serious, take these tests and report back to me (next month):

Classical Intelligence Test

http://www.queendom.com/tests/iq/classical_iq_r2_access.html

Mental Toughness (Hardiness) Test

http://www.queendom.com/tests/personality/...ess_access.html

Accident Proneness Test

http://www.queendom.com/tests/career/copin...s_r_access.html

Sleep Hygiene Test

http://www.queendom.com/tests/health/sleep...ene_access.html

[Sheryl]

Definitely a troll.

[Pink Mist]

maybe this should go in the jokes section, if it deteriorates into another bg thread it goes in the trash though

[Mr Jones]

Maxwell Smart

is the main character in the story. 86 is his CONTROL name. Through his career at CONTROL he has gained widespread respect by everyone in CONTROL and KAOS. Everyone keeps this respect, until they meet him. Maxwell Smart is probably the clumsiest spy you will ever encounter. He has been known to run into walls, lock people into rooms,destroy his apartment, and destroy one of the walls separating a conference room from the Chief's office at CONTROL headquarters. And for this reason and many more, one can say that the Chief has probably been irritated the most by Max's behavior. It's very ironic because as the show progresses, all his enemies refer to him as "The Great Maxwell Smart" or something along those lines.

Very little is known beyond Maxwell Smart's behavior on TV. The only family we have seen from him is his uncle and aunt.

Adjectives: Annoying, Cheap, Clumsy, Demanding, Dumb,