Scottish dad fears ex-soldier son is murder victim after he goes missing during trip to Thailand

[Sawan Chan 7]

@Nearlynam --- And you think they like skint young sexpats? Get a grip! 555

Strange question but when I had bg friends when I was a young single English teacher, we had a lot of fun and it wasn't all about money, as often I didn't have any. You might find it not what you want to hear but young women are sometimes sexually attracted to young men.

They certainly are not to men old enough to be their father, or grandfather in many cases. Please don't make a fool of yourself suggesting otherwise.

I am not so sure, some will like younger men of course, more likely when they are very young, say under about 25, but after that a lot of woman start to think with their heads and not their pussies, (they are so different than men, hehe) and many from any race look for security and a good life for themselves, or for someone they can just live with for a few years till they have all his money or can leave and take half off them ( as in western countries )

I know, been there, done that.

But many farangs build houses for their sexy young wives (when they are thinking with their cock ) for them up on their families rice farm or buy a house, always in the woman's name, a bad move, then if, or when it all turns to shit, the woman owns the house.. not any wonder there a quite a few bitter farangs out there !

especially ones that marry bar girls,, My thinking is, that if you take them to live back in your own country, it is probably okay, but to stay living in Thailand with them, is not so good ???

I enjoy bar girls very much, but would never marry one.. or maybe I not met the right one yet ? and maybe one day my words will come back to bite me on the ass ???? haha.

and maybe one day my words will come back to bite me on the ass ???? haha.

You wouldn't be the first mate.

I have even met MANY guys who have done over 2,3 times by these women. They never learn and can never be told, even when ALL evidence points to a rip-off.

[MissAndry]

young women are sometimes sexually attracted to young men.

It's true, but if the guy is broke and with no prospects, only for a bit of fun.

For me, a lasting relationship needed a guy that could significantly advance my lifestyle.

[soalbundy]

young women are sometimes sexually attracted to young men.

It's true, but if the guy is broke and with no prospects, only for a bit of fun.

For me, a lasting relationship needed a guy that could significantly advance my lifestyle.

do something drastic like earning money yourself

[seedy]

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[davethailand]

I believe the "American" who is blamed for knocking the Scottish dad out at the bar was actually a Thai...with an extra large beer belly, tank top with breasts showing, dirty shorts, and flip-flops...

That may be correct, but who hit him, is not so important, as to what happened to him after he was knocked out ? was he left on the floor, out cold ? was he put somewhere to recover ? or was he taken away by the hitter, never to be seen again ? if that was the case then who hit him becomes very important..

Hell, it happened in a bar, someone must have seen what happened, after the king hit !!!! Where are all the witness's to it ?????

The incident with the American was apparently months before his disappearance.

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[davethailand]

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[MyFrenU]

There really are some,horrible,evil biyatches in Thailand and yet I've met some of the most beautiful,sweetest girls of my life there,mostly in the North and Chiang Mai admittedly but it really is a land of contrasts.

[MyFrenU]

"True. Fact is. These girls, the ones in referring to, mean no good. I never understood the attraction they have on certain guys. Los is full beautiful women who are willing to date a nice farlanski but these women cant be found in whore bars. Bgs are lowend on all levels..."

What is a "farlanski",is it an ancient and wealthy Russian dynasty like the Romanovs?

[MyFrenU]

"Not very funny IMHO. I am not into PC but I hate racial generalizations especially since I have a Thai wife,kids and 1 grandchild, as well as many more relatives and friends.

I bet your wife didn't think, as most Thais, when she said yes to your proposal. That's a joke btw.

And why call me little? - I am 6'4".

I hope you don't make jokes like that to the little boy in your avatar. They could have serious psychological consequences, him growing up with his father telling him half of him is stupid. In fact, the damage has probably already been done, well done Pop."

You don't seem aware,despite all your Thai family that the Thai language term for a half-Thai,half-Western child is "Luk Krueng" or "Halfbreed"!
Actually the literal translation is "Half-child" don't you think this is derogatory and will make any kid feel stupid,with his Mother,Auntie,Uncle,Cousins,Grandma and Grandad all calling him this for the rest of his life?
Oh and I'm 7'10'' BTW!

[MyFrenU]

"How about you go tell your wife you have to sell her car you bought for her, and see how long she stays with you after that."

I have some bad news for you...if your marriage hinges on your wife's ownership of a car then you don't have one!

[MyFrenU]

"Gents this topic is about a missing guy who might be dead. The pro's and con's of Thai women is not really the issue it's all about a missing man/dad. Can somebody start a new topic ' Do Thai girls make good girlfriends or wives' and let everybody post on that if they feel that strongly about it."

Translation : The vultures are circling (Fidelity Check Online) and can't get a good look at the carrion through all the rubberneckers!

[MyFrenU]

"Firstly nobody knows if he has 'met his end'. Secondly if he wanted to do the 'right thing' he should by all means pay some maintenance to his child but also cut himself out of her life. He would never be a 'dad' with visits once or twice a year he is just an obstacle, not allowing either his child or his ex wife to get on with their lives. His ex will meet someone else one day and the daughter will come to accept the new husband as papa, the last thing they need is a foreigner turning up once a year playing daddy and bringing up old memories. If he has met his end then by Asian standards it is almost understandable."

Who are you to speak for the young kid and decide that he/she might never want to meet her real Daddy and blood relative?Unbelievable!

[MyFrenU]

"Amazing Thailand. I know few girls who have few boyfriends in different European countries. Each dummy sends a monthly salary thinking he is the only Prince??.
Yui loves girls but doesn't mind having a guy as long as he will send her 20k monthly to help her pay the rent and buy food.She invited me out after my lady friend introduced her to me.She will invite the guys to 3some in order to make him happy and ensure he will come back.to her as well as keep sending the dosh ??"

You must be a consultant neurosurgeon surely?

[MyFrenU]

Playing Devil's advocate a little here I have to say that getting knocked unconscious in a bar and being Scottish or a squaddie,never mind both is nothing unusual!

[MyFrenU]

"I will give you all advice who has a pretty Thai with a pussy and this is from experience. There is always another man. This could be her Thai boy who she loves and who allows her to be with you for monetary gains. Or a farang, most of the time your bud or someone you know. When the time is right there will be a plan, not only to leave you but to leave you with a large chunk if not all of your assets. This plan can and most times will involve the total elimination of you through decapitation and or burning you to an unrecognizable crisp. Thai women are good at manipulation through jealousy and sometimes with the help of a White Magic potion added to their lover's food or drink. Then even murder is not beyond moralistic possibly. Think about what I just said..."

But you're not bitter...

[MyFrenU]

wonder of the guy he got in a fight with was his girls new man. bar girls are amazing at manipulating their customers. you never know what a thai is thinking behind their smile. i know a couple guys who thought they had great relationships who got dumped and told their girl always hated them. i have 2 kids with a thai girl and we get along ok. i pay her a monthly salary. i am worth more to her alive so hopefully it will stay that way.

I am going to tell you a true story. Several years ago I was a regular customer at a small Chiang Mai massage parlour. One of the staff was a particular beautiful girl, a stunner in my eyes probably in her mid 20s, spoke fluent English and I always requested her for my massage. After several visits she began giving me services over and above her call of duty and I wasn`t complaining. Then out of the blue she said; OK, I`m yours I`ll be your girlfriend from now on. Then within an instant she asked me to take her shopping for clothes and jewellery at the Airport Plaza, in the days before the other shopping malls were open. I`m no mug but playing her along I said OK. She said, lets go right now and I replied, no, we`ll go tomorrow actually having no intentions of doing so because all I wanted after this happened was out of there.

Once finished she escorted me outside the building holding my arm very luvvy dubby. Standing there was a Farlang man in is 40s with red hair. He was giving me the most dagger of stares, if looks could kill I would have been dead on the spot. I realised that she must have given that man the same spiel only he believed it and considered me as someone imposing between him and the new found love of his life. Being aware I could be placing myself into a dangerous situation I never returned to that parlour. The massage parlour is still there but now staffed with much older women and that girl has long gone, never seen her since nor want to.

A cautionary tale. Never let that dangly thing below the waist override the grey matter in-between the ears.

Come on admit it, that red haired guy made you realize that there was at least one more interested party and he was probably bigger than you, and you just try to sound like the winner now.

I would have believed you if you had refrained from adding that last line, where you say that parlour is now staffed with much older women, which indicates that you've visited many times since looking for the love of your life.

My advise, next time don't waste so much time and get her to the mall right after you notice her.

Yep,he still rents the apartment opposite with telescope and binoculars 10 years later,in the hope that she may one day return...

[Cook my sock]

Funny, this reminded me of a girl I met in BK in 2006, a waitress in a restaurant off nana somewhere. 'Apple' was her name. We duly hooked up and after a couple of nights together she took me to MBK .. then discovered it was to buy her a laptop. I resisted.

[soalbundy]

"Not very funny IMHO. I am not into PC but I hate racial generalizations especially since I have a Thai wife,kids and 1 grandchild, as well as many more relatives and friends.

I bet your wife didn't think, as most Thais, when she said yes to your proposal. That's a joke btw.

And why call me little? - I am 6'4".

I hope you don't make jokes like that to the little boy in your avatar. They could have serious psychological consequences, him growing up with his father telling him half of him is stupid. In fact, the damage has probably already been done, well done Pop."

You don't seem aware,despite all your Thai family that the Thai language term for a half-Thai,half-Western child is "Luk Krueng" or "Halfbreed"!

Actually the literal translation is "Half-child" don't you think this is derogatory and will make any kid feel stupid,with his Mother,Auntie,Uncle,Cousins,Grandma and Grandad all calling him this for the rest of his life?

Oh and I'm 7'10'' BTW!

What has your waist measurement got to do with it ?

[Sawan Chan 7]

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Good to get the news out there IMHO.

AS a facebook friend of the ex-wife, what is she saying about all this? Is all doom and gloom or pictures of her Khao Man Gai?

[davethailand]

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Good to get the news out there IMHO.

AS a facebook friend of the ex-wife, what is she saying about all this? Is all doom and gloom or pictures of her Khao Man Gai?

News is ok, all the bs about dark skinned girls with tattoo's and bargirls etc is what I was referring to.

As far as I know she isn't saying anything, I do believe she is assisting though.

[D3030]

"How about you go tell your wife you have to sell her car you bought for her, and see how long she stays with you after that."

I have some bad news for you...if your marriage hinges on your wife's ownership of a car then you don't have one!

When my TG goes off the deep end for any reason...

I always tell her to sell the truck I paid for..

Going on 11 years with her..

And living in Thailand is still an awesome place to live..

I may not reside in Pattaya, but sure get some quality time, as a single person when I do go..

[Sealbash]

I detest reading stories about missing, murdered, or beaten to a pulp foreigners in Thailand...it makes being a Thai apologist very difficult...

So here is my take...it was either suicide or he became belligerent and deserved what he got...Thais should not be faulted for his disappearance...

Everyone knows that dark skinned girls with tattoos working in Pattaya can be trusted and are non-violent...

How insensitive. Don't you know there will be people who live in Pattaya reading this. Also some people with a wife with a tattoo. You might just make them realize what they don't want to know.

The majority of people living in Pattaya have more intelligence than to take anything on TV seriously.

[Sawan Chan 7]

I detest reading stories about missing, murdered, or beaten to a pulp foreigners in Thailand...it makes being a Thai apologist very difficult...

So here is my take...it was either suicide or he became belligerent and deserved what he got...Thais should not be faulted for his disappearance...

Everyone knows that dark skinned girls with tattoos working in Pattaya can be trusted and are non-violent...

How insensitive. Don't you know there will be people who live in Pattaya reading this. Also some people with a wife with a tattoo. You might just make them realize what they don't want to know.

The majority of people living in Pattaya have more intelligence than to take anything on TV seriously.

lol, more on their mind you mean!

Seriously, Pattaya, where the intellectual, spiritually-minded retirees flock to:cheesy:

[hookedondhamma]

Pattaya tattood darkskin bargirl as a wife. Excellent decision ?... Love kills.

Haha! My thoughts exactly!

Do people read any advice online at all? And they still ignore it?

Doesn't matter; that flies out the window most meet their 'beauty.' Red flags may be all around but in this case the thinking doesn't come from the head above.

Some get burned and learn. Others continue to get burned.

I hope the young man is ok.

[slippery snake]

Funny, this reminded me of a girl I met in BK in 2006, a waitress in a restaurant off nana somewhere. 'Apple' was her name. We duly hooked up and after a couple of nights together she took me to MBK .. then discovered it was to buy her a laptop. I resisted.

Hahaha of course it must have been an 'Apple' laptop she wanted,, your lucky her name wasn't Mercedes....

[slippery snake]

Funny, this reminded me of a girl I met in BK in 2006, a waitress in a restaurant off nana somewhere. 'Apple' was her name. We duly hooked up and after a couple of nights together she took me to MBK .. then discovered it was to buy her a laptop. I resisted.

Hahaha of course it must have been an 'Apple' laptop she wanted,, your lucky her name wasn't Mercedes....

find one with the name 'Banana' maybe she would be more fun to be with...

[slippery snake]

@Nearlynam --- And you think they like skint young sexpats? Get a grip! 555

Strange question but when I had bg friends when I was a young single English teacher, we had a lot of fun and it wasn't all about money, as often I didn't have any. You might find it not what you want to hear but young women are sometimes sexually attracted to young men.

They certainly are not to men old enough to be their father, or grandfather in many cases. Please don't make a fool of yourself suggesting otherwise.

I'm sure you did have fun when you were young and had no money, especially teaching young Thai girls English,, there must have been a lot of 'hands on' education.. touch my nose, touch my hand, touch my elbow, touch my dick... hehe..... But see how much fun you have with sexy young girls when your over 50 and got no money ? You must have heard the saying "NO MONEY, NO HONEY" No girls want a poor old English teacher. or poor old anyone !!!

[slippery snake]

"Amazing Thailand. I know few girls who have few boyfriends in different European countries. Each dummy sends a monthly salary thinking he is the only Prince??.

Yui loves girls but doesn't mind having a guy as long as he will send her 20k monthly to help her pay the rent and buy food.She invited me out after my lady friend introduced her to me.She will invite the guys to 3some in order to make him happy and ensure he will come back.to her as well as keep sending the dosh ??"

You must be a consultant neurosurgeon surely?

Your right, most of the good looking bar girls do have 3 or 4 guys sending them money, and they sell sex, same as a shoe shop girl will sell you a pair of shoes.. It is all business to them.. I know of a couple of girls that have boyfriends, one has just been here with her Aussie guy for 10 days, but she is happy to tell him she going out to have coffee with her friends, and comes to my place to sell me her body for an hour, and the Aussie guy she is with, is very rich but she will still do that, to make 1,000 B, and another one has a very nice young guy, she is engaged to be married to, and she does the same...

it is all about the money !!!! When they got their legs open they are probably thinking about the handbag they are going out to buy next,, haha , so long as you guys understand this is how it works with bar girls, then you can enjoy them, you open your wallet, they open their legs,,

Just enjoy and have fun with them, but marry one ? not likely.. Do you really want a wife that has been screwed by hundreds, or maybe thousands of guys ?

[D3030]

"Amazing Thailand. I know few girls who have few boyfriends in different European countries. Each dummy sends a monthly salary thinking he is the only Prince??.

Yui loves girls but doesn't mind having a guy as long as he will send her 20k monthly to help her pay the rent and buy food.She invited me out after my lady friend introduced her to me.She will invite the guys to 3some in order to make him happy and ensure he will come back.to her as well as keep sending the dosh ??"

You must be a consultant neurosurgeon surely?

Your right, most of the good looking bar girls do have 3 or 4 guys sending them money, and they sell sex, same as a shoe shop girl will sell you a pair of shoes.. It is all business to them.. I know of a couple of girls that have boyfriends, one has just been here with her Aussie guy for 10 days, but she is happy to tell him she going out to have coffee with her friends, and comes to my place to sell me her body for an hour, and the Aussie guy she is with, is very rich but she will still do that, to make 1,000 B, and another one has a very nice young guy, she is engaged to be married to, and she does the same...

it is all about the money !!!! When they got their legs open they are probably thinking about the handbag they are going out to buy next,, haha , so long as you guys understand this is how it works with bar girls, then you can enjoy them, you open your wallet, they open their legs,,

Just enjoy and have fun with them, but marry one ? not likely.. Do you really want a wife that has been screwed by hundreds, or maybe thousands of guys ?

Some farangs are actually realistic..

I know a couple of farangs that sent BGs $$, just to ensure their LBFM would set a week or 2 aside, for just them, when they did visit..

Anyway..

The BGs getting screwed by a 1000 guys..

The better looking they are, it wouldn't take long..

Met a super fine BG...

Said, she did 10 guys in one night.. She was 20 years old.. Been working for a couple of years..

Hang out on Soi 6,

at just one bar for a couple of hours.. The fine looking BGs are doing 2 or 3 short times..

And...

BGs that claim, they just started or

have only been working the bars for a couple of months..

I feel comfortable to say, they are all lying..

So, if you're looking to marry a BG, pick an ugly one, that speaks no English, has no tatoos and looks barely 18..

That's if you don't want to make a deposite, where 1000 guys have made theirs..

[Mook23]

Funny, this reminded me of a girl I met in BK in 2006, a waitress in a restaurant off nana somewhere. 'Apple' was her name. We duly hooked up and after a couple of nights together she took me to MBK .. then discovered it was to buy her a laptop. I resisted.

Hahaha of course it must have been an 'Apple' laptop she wanted,, your lucky her name wasn't Mercedes....

The main question remains: Did she Cook your sock or did she sock your cook 555