Scottish dad fears ex-soldier son is murder victim after he goes missing during trip to Thailand

[weaver93]

So a Guy with 20 odd post knows that the body has been found----that they have taken the wife to confirm its him.......gives us a link to a sex forum which is the only place you can get this hot news from ---*BY Joining it*

I am sure there membership numbers have moved up quite a lot----is it on the market ??

Do you mind if I join the sceptics also on this one...........................

I copied the post after viewing it on a Pattaya forum...from a guy who states he knows Steven and his wife....

I was asked to provide a link, for the post, which I duly supplied....

I was unaware, that you had to join, to view the attached link...

I have NOTHING to do with the said website......

Be sceptical. all you like.....

[davethailand]

So a Guy with 20 odd post knows that the body has been found----that they have taken the wife to confirm its him.......gives us a link to a sex forum which is the only place you can get this hot news from ---*BY Joining it*

I am sure there membership numbers have moved up quite a lot----is it on the market ??

Do you mind if I join the sceptics also on this one...........................

I copied the post after viewing it on a Pattaya forum...from a guy who states he knows Steven and his wife....

I was asked to provide a link, for the post, which I duly supplied....

I was unaware, that you had to join, to view the attached link...

I have NOTHING to do with the said website......

Be sceptical. all you like.....

I'm not posting it.

As said think everyone should concentrate on paying their respects instead of speculating etc.

He's sadly been found and that's that.

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[Sawan Chan 7]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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And married a tattooed bargirl by your own admission. And are a friend of the "suspect"!

A tad biased.

[davethailand]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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And married a tattooed bargirl by your own admission. And are a friend of the "suspect"!

A tad biased.

Not really biased i just know what the situation is at the moment.

Who knows what else will come of it?

I was a friend of the deceased also and yes I married a girl with tattoo's who I met in a bar 15 years ago (my old bar I may add).

So?

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[Sawan Chan 7]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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And married a tattooed bargirl by your own admission. And are a friend of the "suspect"!

A tad biased.

Not really biased i just know what the situation is at the moment.

Who knows what else will come of it?

I was a friend of the deceased also and yes I married a girl with tattoo's who I met in a bar 15 years ago (my old bar I may add).

So?

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Well I offer my condolences if he was your friend. I mean that sincerely. Sorry but some, including myself are forgetting the seriousness of this thread.

[MyFrenU]

"I'm not posting it."

So on a thread about a man who's gone missing for a month that you claim to be a friend of,you refuse to post an active,working link alleging that he has been found!
What are you here for then?

[davethailand]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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And married a tattooed bargirl by your own admission. And are a friend of the "suspect"!

A tad biased.

Not really biased i just know what the situation is at the moment.

Who knows what else will come of it?

I was a friend of the deceased also and yes I married a girl with tattoo's who I met in a bar 15 years ago (my old bar I may add).

So?

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Well I offer my condolences if he was your friend. I mean that sincerely. Sorry but some, including myself are forgetting the seriousness of this thread.

Thanks.

Hadn't seen him for a couple years as I moved back here 2 years ago but I considered him a mate.

I met them both before they got together.

Just think it would be awful if his family read all of this stuff.

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[davethailand]

"I'm not posting it."

So on a thread about a man who's gone missing for a month that you claim to be a friend of,you refuse to post an active,working link alleging that he has been found!

What are you here for then?

Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?

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[MyFrenU]

"Here because I knew him.
Did you?
If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?
I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

[davethailand]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves.

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[MyFrenU]

"Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.
It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves."

I imagine it will be all over the international newspapers soon enough,yet another horror story from Thailand so I don't see that your not wanting it to get out will make a lot of difference?
As for the link it is just to harvest emails from here,nothing more I'm afraid quite despicable behaviour under the circumstances!

[davethailand]

"Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves."

I imagine it will be all over the international newspapers soon enough,yet another horror story from Thailand so I don't see that your not wanting it to get out will make a lot of difference?

As for the link it is just to harvest emails from here,nothing more I'm afraid quite despicable behaviour under the circumstances!

As said I don't feel that it's my place to post it.

As for the link I don't know why it doesn't work.

Maybe that forums methods of getting people to sign up which wouldn't surprise me.

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[Jiu-Jitsu]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

You should at least TRY to stop posting nonsense.

Join the other forum to see it or don't.

[Jiu-Jitsu]

"Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves."

I imagine it will be all over the international newspapers soon enough,yet another horror story from Thailand so I don't see that your not wanting it to get out will make a lot of difference?

As for the link it is just to harvest emails from here,nothing more I'm afraid quite despicable behaviour under the circumstances!

Seems that you are still posting nonsense.

The reasons for signing up are quite different to your silly imagination.

[MyFrenU]

"Seems that you are still posting nonsense.

The reasons for signing up are quite different to your silly imagination."

What part of the signup procedure doesn't work are you not understanding?Maybe all that Jiu Jitsu has given you a concussion or something as you seem to be the one posting nonsense from what I see?

[Seraphina]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves.

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I don't understand the problem. If the news is posted on the web, it's already out there in some form or other. We just can't find it. I've seen one one article carrying his name and the photo looks nothing like him. It's not out of the question that two people with the same name lived in the same city, but if the photo is anything to go by (a large heavy man) compared to the one in the tabloid, they aren't the same person!

You're being unecessarily 'politically correct' and the older generation are getting tired of people of this attitude. We may not say it, but we are.

And by the way, I'm getting sex messages from this site despite adblocker. The last thing I want is to sign up to yet another Thai site which sends me more pornography! Grrrr Anyone know how to get rid of this?

[MyFrenU]

There is no working links to the news and nothing whatsoever on Google because it's a bunch of BS,simple!

[davethailand]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves.

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I don't understand the problem. If the news is posted on the web, it's already out there in some form or other. We just can't find it. I've seen one one article carrying his name and the photo looks nothing like him. It's not out of the question that two people with the same name lived in the same city, but if the photo is anything to go by (a large heavy man) compared to the one in the tabloid, they aren't the same person!

You're being unecessarily 'politically correct' and the older generation are getting tired of people of this attitude. We may not say it, but we are.

And by the way, I'm getting sex messages from this site despite adblocker. The last thing I want is to sign up to yet another Thai site which sends me pornography! Grrrr

Not politically incorrect just not willing to be the one to post it and then a family member logs on and sees it.

Not a nice way to find out.

Don't know about the sex stuff, the forum is pattaya addicts, I haven't had any messages otherwise I would of blocked it as I also don't want that crap, I get enough spam emails already.

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[namatjira]

Pattaya addicts.....haha...........better to keep some things to yourself..........

I hope they find this guy alive...........

[davethailand]

Pattaya addicts.....haha...........better to keep some things to yourself..........

I hope they find this guy alive...........

He's been identified as deceased.

I used to have a bar so I was/am a member of quite a few thailand and pattaya forums.

From what I can see the discussions are in member only areas.

Sorry.

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[MyFrenU]

So :

National and international press plus Google : Nothing!

Old soak in a Chang wife-beater on a Pattaya barstool : Knows everything!

[davethailand]

So :

National and international press plus Google : Nothing!

Old soak in a Chang wife-beater on a Pattaya barstool : Knows everything!

No I'm in the UK and I'm not that old.

Sorry to disappoint.

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[Seraphina]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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I'm not convinced that just 'living' in a country is a passport to another culture. You could be living in a bubble! Lots of expats do it seems. I'm not saying you do, just be aware that there are.

I know lots of British people in France who have lived here for donkeys and don't speak a word of French, apart from thank you. I know at least one person who's been here for 15+ years and would know few numbers between 1 and 20 without counting from 1. She has no idea how to get an MOT done or how to fill in a form and totally relies on others to do things for her. Similarly, I know people who've lived in the Middle East for 20+ years and can't speak a single sentence in Arabic, not even: "I'm sorry. I can't speak Arabic". They know nothing of the statistics of the country...or have any friends who are locals.

Just sayin'

[Seraphina]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

If we knew him, we wouldn't need to be askin' you, now would we.....uh huh!

[sambum]

The dad has to come to Thailand if he wants anything to happen

He would probably fall in love the first day......open a bar a week latter........................

So you think the Dad could do a better job of finding him dead or alive, than the cops ?

I don't think so, if he starts getting warm, he will be the next one to disappear....

As it's a 99% chance he is dead,, Hell, he was knocked out and then disappeared, and no one knows anything ? funny that...

If he was alive he would have ended up in hospital or dumped back in his room to wake up with a sore head the next day...

The being knocked out and his disappearance are two separate incidents. You make it sound like they are linked. He was reportedly knocked out by someone at a bar at some point. He later turned up missing from his rented room. It's not like he was knocked out at the bar and then dragged away by someone or a group of people.

" He later turned up missing from his rented room" So did he turn up at his rented room or not?

[davethailand]

"Why should she be in jail?"

If you don't know the answer to that then you really don't know anything about Thailand!

Maybe not

I only lived there for 13 years.

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I'm not convinced that just 'living' in a country is a passport to another culture. You could be living in a bubble! Lots of expats do it seems. I'm not saying you do, just be aware that there are.

I know lots of British people in France who have lived here for donkeys and don't speak a word of French, apart from thank you. I know at least one person who's been here for 15+ years and would know few numbers between 1 and 20 without counting from 1. She has no idea how to get an MOT done or how to fill in a form and totally relies on others to do things for her. Similarly, I know people who've lived in the Middle East for 20+ years and can't speak a single sentence in Arabic, not even: "I'm sorry. I can't speak Arabic". They know nothing of the statistics of the country...or have any friends who are locals.

Just sayin'

Very true.

Also seen lots of expats like this. Not willing to adapt or try to fit in etc.

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[Berty100]

"Here because I knew him.

Did you?

If not why are you here?"

So why won't you post a link to information alleging he's been found then,did you not like him or something as I'm really not understanding your reasoning here?

I'm here because it's a public forum,no I didn't know him.

Due to the circumstances of what apparently happened I don't want to be the one to post it incase of insensitive comments that would upset his friends and family.

It's a shame that link doesn't work as then people could see for themselves.

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I don't understand the problem. If the news is posted on the web, it's already out there in some form or other. We just can't find it. I've seen one one article carrying his name and the photo looks nothing like him. It's not out of the question that two people with the same name lived in the same city, but if the photo is anything to go by (a large heavy man) compared to the one in the tabloid, they aren't the same person!

You're being unecessarily 'politically correct' and the older generation are getting tired of people of this attitude. We may not say it, but we are.

And by the way, I'm getting sex messages from this site despite adblocker. The last thing I want is to sign up to yet another Thai site which sends me pornography! Grrrr

Not politically incorrect just not willing to be the one to post it and then a family member logs on and sees it.

Not a nice way to find out.

Don't know about the sex stuff, the forum is pattaya addicts, I haven't had any messages otherwise I would of blocked it as I also don't want that crap, I get enough spam emails already.

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You mean, you know he has been found dead, but you don't want to post it because his family doesn't know?

I consider it very strange that if he indeed is located, that Google knows nothing, since they usually know everything

[davethailand]

You mean, you know he has been found dead, but you don't want to post it because his family doesn't know?

I consider it very strange that if he indeed is located, that Google knows nothing, since they usually know everything

No I won't post the story that seems to be attached to the cause but yes he's definitely been found.

His friends and family have set up a Facebook page to try and get him back home.

[D3030]

After getting though 17 pages of rubbish I still have not found out if the guy is alive or not ?

Of course you not found out, because he, or his body have not been found yet !!!! how thick are you to not work that out for yourself ???

"we" are no closer to finding him .

"WE?"...

You looking for him?

[D3030]

You mean, you know he has been found dead, but you don't want to post it because his family doesn't know?

I consider it very strange that if he indeed is located, that Google knows nothing, since they usually know everything

No I won't post the story that seems to be attached to the cause but yes he's definitely been found.

His friends and family have set up a Facebook page to try and get him back home.

The story that seems to be attached to the cause?

You might have some credibility, if you put out some proof..

Not suggest or imply, people should look for the end of the story on Facebook..