webfact Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Wedding ends in chaos as groom arrives with only half a dowry! Picture: Daily News NAKHON RATCHASIMA: -- A Korat wedding on Saturday descended into chaos when a groom arrived with only half the agreed dowry. He was meant to bring 100,000 baht and some gold but the cheapskate showed up with 50,000 and no excuse. Both families started verbally fighting and so the groom scooped up his offerings and left them to it. But it ended up going to the cops - with relatives of the bride reporting the matter to Ban Phusa police. Yesterday the father of the bride Bunsuan Wareesri, 51, said it was none of his doing and he felt sorry for his daughter. "Both sets of relatives should have had a lovely day - instead they were hot headed and started arguing," he said. "My daughter went back to work in Bangkok in the night. He called it a misunderstanding but said there was still hope that the nuptials would be reorganized on a smaller scale at a later date. The groom has agreed to compensate the family for wasting their money. Source: Daily News -- © Copyright Thai Visa News 2017-06-26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mduras01 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Glad no guns or machetes were pulled. Sounds like she deserves a good, honest man, but ended up with half a man.Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Sad part of this story is brides family are only interested in money, not the couples happiness only money. The marraige is doomed before it has begun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YetAnother Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 boils down to money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayned Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I can remember when the grandmother of one of the girls in the village took after the groom on the wedding day when he only showed up with 12000 baht and a 1 baht gold chain. It took her family to subdue her. The wedding went on but I haven't seen the groom around much since then, only the young offspring and the dogs that they dumped on Granny to take care of when they moved to Bangkok to work! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owenm Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 No money, no honey even for the locals.. And 51yo bride.. Surely not first time bride.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rkidlad Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Oh ,the dowry. It's part of the culture, you know? I'm trying to think of a single time I've done something controversial and used the excuse "But it's my culture". As far as I know, there are no laws stating that you have to follow your culture. You can use common sense and apply that. I told my missus that in my culture the father of the bride pays for the wedding. But I'm willing to let that slide if she's willing to let the dowry slide too. There's two cultures mixing and coming out with a great result. I think the world should adopt a new and universal culture called 'mind your own business'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 6 minutes ago, owenm said: No money, no honey even for the locals.. And 51yo bride.. Surely not first time bride.. It's the FATHER of the bride that's 51..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seminomadic Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 He won't compensate as per the last line. He was looking for a gentle out. Dunn't wanna get married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Lucky escape for the unnamed groom. However, looks like he'll have to pull another rabbit out of the hat next month. Perhaps he can let one rip at an inauspicious time or turn up wearing black and a lizard on his shoulder. He needs to be creative. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave67 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Just now, Dave67 said: Been with my missus for 13 years , she looked after me and my young children when I split up with my first wife. We got married 3 years ago and no dowry but got her a decent ring , But of course we have built a house on family land and we look after Yai and my wifes brother. They in turn have accepted my Farang looking kids as there own. She comes from a huge family 2 brothers 4 sisters and they are all decent working people. They never asked for or expected a dowry from me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wgdanson Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 17 minutes ago, owenm said: No money, no honey even for the locals.. And 51yo bride.. Surely not first time bride.. It is the father who is 51. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darksidedog Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Well this is Thailand, so we should expect crazy people, especially where money is concerned. I think they both got away lightly. She knows he is a cheapskate and he knows her family are a bunch of bloodsuckers, so stopping before an actual wedding took place is most fortunate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiSoLowSoNoSo Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 What a cheapskate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiSoLowSoNoSo Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 "My daughter went back to work in Bangkok in the night." Is she a hooker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evadgib Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 (edited) How is this newsworthy? Edited June 26, 2017 by evadgib Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IMA_FARANG Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 In Thai tradition the dowry was for the Bride, to provide for her life if her husband died or could not provide for her because he could not, for some reason work Or alternatively, it was to provide for her parents old age, since there was n such thing as government help for the aged then. This tradition has been corrupted by imported Western values, so now the Bride is regarded as a marketable commodity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YetAnother Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 what was this almost groom thinking ?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nasanews Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I would blame it on the bride's father if he had stronger personality over his wife he would have solved the issue, who knows maybe good luck for the groom not to have a nagging mother in law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smiley Face Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Maybe could have argued that he took a 50% discount because of the used condition of the 'goods'! Don't Thai like to bargain?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janclaes47 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 1 hour ago, webfact said: My daughter went back to work in Bangkok in the night. Back to Nana Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluespunk Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 44 minutes ago, IMA_FARANG said: In Thai tradition the dowry was for the Bride, to provide for her life if her husband died or could not provide for her because he could not, for some reason work Or alternatively, it was to provide for her parents old age, since there was n such thing as government help for the aged then. This tradition has been corrupted by imported Western values, so now the Bride is regarded as a marketable commodity Pesky foreigners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluespunk Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 If they didn't get married, who's that in the the picture in the OP? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercman24 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 loved post 11, no dowry but built a house you will never own and look after the family, and of course the usual waste of space brother, they all come with a hanger on brother, peed myself laughing.yep they are smiling alright. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceruhe Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Thanks again for showing me why not to get married and even less partake in this sinsod BS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lingba Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 So Funny!..You gotta love this country Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orton Rd Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 37 minutes ago, janclaes47 said: Back to Nana she works for AIS so no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janclaes47 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 3 minutes ago, Orton Rd said: she works for AIS so no. I can't see that mentioned in the article, but you probably have personal knowledge about this event, as you seem to have about most subjects discussed on this forum. Maybe AIS has an office in soi nana? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DekDaeng Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Watched a funeral at local wat end in chaos after the gunshots started - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coulson Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 The groom has agreed to compensate the family for wasting their money.They better agree on that figure beforehand.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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