ben2talk Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Fantastic. Quite a few years ago a girl told me she had travelled to Ram soi 24 to meet her friend who wasn't home... I invited her for coffee while she waited. She waited for 2 months before returning home to Malaysia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ben2talk Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 15 hours ago, worgeordie said: When you go to work in the morning lock the door,give her 500 THB,and tell her you'll see her when you finish work,but make sure you get your 500 THB 's worth,in case she does not come back,or you could take a few days off work,and maybe you need to start thinking for yourself. regards Worgeordie I like those cup-padlock things. You can put them on the outside to stop anyone with a doorkey (if the girl stayed, the doorman might help her get in when you're out) and you can also put them on the inside so you don't have any worries about sleeping and waking up to find her gone with your cash n cards... But yes, if he's asking here then the chances are he's beyond help... I can't ever imagine posting something like this. Hey, OP, did you phone and ask your Mum before posting here? or are we your best choice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vandv Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 tell her to go and stay at a friends place, then meet her from there. I wouldn't want to get stuck with it for a week. could be a psycho that you can't get out of your apartment, plenty of those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICECOOL Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Why not show her some respect and aese your mind and put her up on a hotel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 (edited) 2 minutes ago, ICECOOL said: Why not show her some respect and aese your mind and put her up on a hotel what is aese ? and why would he put her ' up on a hotel ' ? do you mean ease your mind ? and put her ' up in a hotel ' ? Edited August 4, 2017 by steven100 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 8 minutes ago, steven100 said: what is aese ? and why would he put her ' up on a hotel ' ? do you mean ease your mind ? and put her ' up in a hotel ' ? Some expats been here so long their English has fallen into line with the Thai average.... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sead Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 If she aint taking the Money from you then someone else is. So i guess she wants the Money.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikosan Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 We really do have a large group on cynics on TV, don't we, but the OP is stupid enough to warrant it and makes me suspect a wind-up. Invite her down, shag her rotten for the week and pay her as little money as you can get away with, then make your mind up. I also like the precautions suggested by observer90210 above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
likeke Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Same thing happened to me about 5 years ago. Met online. I arrived at my hotel, and she was waiting there with a few suitcases. Took me a few days, but I eventually took her to the Victory Monument area where the vans used to be parked, and made sure she got into one. Mission accomplished. Three days later I go back to me room, and she is standing there ironing my clothes. Apparently the front desk was used to seeing her with me, and assumed she was with me when she asked for an extra key to my room. Anyway, I told her to leave immediately and she refused. I went down to the front desk and informed them of the situation. I and the manager and two security guys walked to my room and made sure she left. The manager asked me if I wanted to press charges, but I said no. I just wanted her out of the hotel. She was told to never return to the hotel or she would be arrested. Don't do what did. Run Forrest run!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 17 hours ago, i claudius said: Come on your a big boy your guess is as good as ours Sent from my SM-A720F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Yes, it seems the answer is plain. However, if you want, meet her, take her to a hotel, and try it on. That should solve your predicament and provide an answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 3 hours ago, catman20 said: Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this? I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week. MONEY ?????? Good idea. Tell her she can stay for B500 per night and be charged for what she consumes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 3 hours ago, tonray said: More than likely when you get home, your laundry will still be dirty, you will have more dirty pans in the sink, your TV will be on while she sleeps on the sofa, and your electricity bill will be through the roof. Jesus, how much electricity can she use charging her phone--or do you expect her to not use the a/c, lights, stove, TV or computer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 2 minutes ago, smotherb said: Good idea. Tell her she can stay for B500 per night and be charged for what she consumes. Be careful They could backfire easily She might charge him for the sex.... Daily rate + milage and wear and tear etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 1 minute ago, speedtripler said: Be careful They could backfire easily She might charge him for the sex.... Daily rate + milage and wear and tear etc Oh, you expected him not to get charged for sex; hmm, how naive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spectrumisgreen Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 10 hours ago, observer90210 said: Make sure you get to see her place, real fast... lock up or put away all valuables, in a safe place... put well hidden covert "nanny cams" in all the rooms of your house, to get footage on what she's upto when you are away... leave some 100THB notes hanging around..not to obviously visible but accessible enough for her to find and see what happens when you are away... this could be a good for a start. Yeah test her. But then again, don't. That's just playing silly games. What would you say.." Ah, I knew it!! I left a 100 baht sticking out from under my pillow, and one just partly under the towel rack, and now they've gone. No excuses love, I've got your number.. now, let's be avving you along!!'??? Not even the point nor the question of the original post, anyway, is it? Personally, I'd think someone who suddenly puts themselves forward to come and stay with you for a week in all likelihood has a much less temporary period in mind! Either the intent is to convince you of how good that would be for you also, or maybe she could just refuse to leave after the 7 days are up. Could be a genuine 'trip' to come stay a short while with someone she thinks she really likes, of course, but then you won't know that until she's here.. say, after 6 of the 7 days! Just a thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger Harris Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 MONEY MONEY MONEY thats what its about, I was new here a while back, got sucked in by this poor soaking girl in the pooring rain. Wonderful dinner, great company until I got home with her, she drugged me stole all money she could find, wedding ring, phone, watch etc. Be careful mate, all that glitters is not gold especially in Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 15 minutes ago, smotherb said: Oh, you expected him not to get charged for sex; hmm, how naive. Not all of us married hookers, sir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvr181 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 5 hours ago, steven100 said: she wants to clean your house ... ? she wants to clean your house hose... ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 3 hours ago, Been there done that said: The negativity for love ?????????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xobtsiwt Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 4 hours ago, catman20 said: Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this? I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week. MONEY ?????? No. Almost certainly it's because you have impressed her with tales of your hi-so lifestyle, your witty repartee, your savoir faire worldliness and general je ne sais quoi; money is almost always of secondary concern where Thai women are concerned, you can rest assured. 4 hours ago, catman20 said: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kadilo Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 what is aese ? and why would he put her ' up on a hotel ' ? do you mean ease your mind ? and put her ' up in a hotel ' ?It's pretty obvious what they mean don't you think? Sent from my iPhone using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephen tracy Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Dear OP, I did try online dating here for about a year but never had anyone ask to stay with me for a whole week before we'd actually me in the flesh. I know there's a lot of sarcastic comments here, which is typical of a lot of TV members who think all Thai women are on the game in one way or another, but a whole week does seem a bit suspect if you haven't known her for long. When I did the online dating thing, I met some nice woman, a couple of weirdos and one shameless money-grabber, but for the most part they were all decent people. Nothing ever came of any of the dates mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanuckThai Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 (edited) 5 hours ago, tonray said: More than likely when you get home, your laundry will still be dirty, you will have more dirty pans in the sink, your TV will be on while she sleeps on the sofa, and your electricity bill will be through the roof. ...and your bathroom, just might look like the fire department was training for 5 alarm fires, with high pressure hoses. Might want to take your toilet seat to work with you, unless you're up to speed on the "toilet rim squat"... Edited August 4, 2017 by CanuckThai penmanship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
csabo Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Change the word "girl" to whore in your title. Then change the words "she" and "her" to the phrase "this whore" in your post. Then read it all back to yourself. That should be enough to get you through this dilemma. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
csabo Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 2 hours ago, Roger Harris said: MONEY MONEY MONEY thats what its about, I was new here a while back, got sucked in by this poor soaking girl in the pooring rain. Wonderful dinner, great company until I got home with her, she drugged me stole all money she could find, wedding ring, phone, watch etc. Be careful mate, all that glitters is not gold especially in Thailand Ummm did you say wedding ring?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeyang wah Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 13 minutes ago, csabo said: Change the word "girl" to whore in your title. Then change the words "she" and "her" to the phrase "this whore" in your post. Then read it all back to yourself. That should be enough to get you through this dilemma. Judgemental, harsh and unfair. But if you follow the above instructions I guarantee a good laugh. Thank you csabo I needed that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
csabo Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Just now, eeyang wah said: Judgemental, harsh and unfair. But if you follow the above instructions I guarantee a good laugh. Thank you csabo I needed that! That's what I was going for. Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 2 hours ago, speedtripler said: Not all of us married hookers, sir Never suggested that; I've been married three times, none were hookers. However, meeting someone online who wants to spend a week with you; well, I suggest you should expect to be charged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildewillie89 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 12 minutes ago, smotherb said: Never suggested that; I've been married three times, none were hookers. However, meeting someone online who wants to spend a week with you; well, I suggest you should expect to be charged. I think that is just how some of the new generation do it. Which is stupid and dangerous. Whether in Thai or overseas. Back when I was living in Melbourne many Thai (who also lived in Melb) would do the same. Wouldn't care how far they travelled to stay, but would would want to stay for at least a few days. Many more would do it here. The OP's situation I am sure is quiet a common one (probably more for younger, stupid people I admit - as they don't have the money for a hotel, or don't have many friends in BKK to stay with). Or maybe it is their way of sucking people into a relationship - by almost moving into the mans place from the get go. Maybe they cannot afford or justify paying and using so much travel time to meet him just for an hour or two...most circumstances do not involve money unless men are moving in the wrong circles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 35 minutes ago, smotherb said: Never suggested that; I've been married three times, none were hookers. However, meeting someone online who wants to spend a week with you; well, I suggest you should expect to be charged. 3 times ? you sound like a great catch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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