It is of course entirely up to you, but IMHO the risk of accidentally connecting two phases together via your transfer arrangements is really too great. You have no control over what and when PEA do any work in the street.
The resulting bang isn't going to be small. In fact, it will be potentially explosive, leading to the destruction of your contactors and very possibly your meters.
I've not actually measured it, but the transfer using our interlocked contactors is sufficiently fast that none of our kit objects, there's barely a flicker of the lights.