I know exactly what you're saying, but I've had many years to ponder what I'm saying.
I don't "sit in my room complaining" I'm not really a complainer.
I did used to go out for a walk every day, that's an hour or 2 (out of 16).
Cookery courses, I don't like cooking, much
Day trip tp Bangkok? When I lived there for about 20 years?!???? (Sighseeing? Already seen enough temples to last 5 lifetimes????).
Girl watching? Been doing that in Thailand since 1985?????
Martial arts when suffering from quite severe arthritis (since I was a kid).
Volunteer at an orphanage, and have people putting it around that you're a pedophile????Although I have thought about doing volutary work generally,.
I now live and work back in the UK.