I lived in Thailand from 1998-2018, I had also visited 3 times in 1985/86. Initially I was over at Soi Cowboy pretty much every night, but probably around 2005 I didn't really bother with it any more. I became quite cynical about that stuff. It was getting a bit too expensive, the girls weren't really into what they were doing anyway, and I didn't want to be hassled whilst drinking.
In the last 10 years that I lived there I hardly ever went to such places, but a wealthy friend was still visiting nightly, as if he had first got off the plane on his first visit to Thailand 17 years earlier.