While I agree with your sentiment I just live here in the existing environment, most of it is good but like everywhere else it has its bad points, I don't intend to break a lance for western sensibilities. One of my son's cousins to whom he had an emotional attachment died in a motorbike accident, aged 14. I went to the funeral to find I was the only person who showed any sadness (genuine) everyone else seemed 'matter of fact' I asked my son what he felt, he said it was a shame. Some days later I asked, don't you think of him at all?....yeah sometimes, I could see it was done and dusted. At the funeral I didn't see his parents weeping, not even his mother, quietly upset describes it....this was some years ago now. It's the way it is. Luckily my son is a nerd who doesn't socialize after school with his classmates but prefers his computer and his online friends.