sadly he he still doesn't understand Pattaya and why allot of guys come to Thailand.
Also, it doesn't matter if the girl works in a bar or not, she can still be a gold digger.
I've had several friends marry a bar girl and have had great relationships.
I've had a few friends that married an office girl and got taken to the cleaners. so, as anywhere in the world it depends on the girl, not where she works.
These guys come to Thailand and after 2-3 years they think they know everything and believe they are an expert..lol