Oh dear.
I have stuff to do, so I'll have to cut this interesting debate short now.
I think what we have basically got to, based on the implied meaning of your "deflection questions", is that you do indeed think that someone is "sad" if they use a condom in a normal long-term relationship.
Up to you, but, of course, that's a little strange, because your judgement of someone who "relies" on bargirls for sex is that they are "sad", but that "sadness" is only as sad as a man who is in a long-term relationship and still relies on condoms for contraception, which is not really that "sad" at all.
A little odd, overall, but you are entitled to your opinion, of course.
I suspect that when I asked you "Why is someone who replies on bargirls for sex sad?", you kind of panicked and said something that you didn't mean, which is why you didn't really want to explain your reasoning, but that doesn't really matter now.
Have a nice day.