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BangkokReady

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  1. I don't think anyone suggests that foreign men go looking for prostitutes, it's more that Thai people think so lowly of foreigners that only women who cannot find a Thai man are interested in foreign men. (And, of course, a lot of foreigners are older men looking for younger women.) Not only is there the attitude of people not wanting to date non-Thais, but there is also a great deal of stigma attached to dating a foreigner, where people will either judge the woman as being a prostitute or react negatively and ask her why she is dating a foreigner, to which she might even lie to save face. Of course, this is likely evolving a little as young Thai people begin to become more globalised due to things like internet and social media. I agree, it does make economic sense for poorer Thais to marry foreigners in order to get a better life, but I think the stigma/objection from Thai men/Thai supremacy attitudes stops this from being too common. This is probably the one area where Thai men might become more angry or bitter. However, I think the fairly cavalier attitude to sex and prostitution in Thailand might negate the harshest responses, as this means most Thai men still have access to sex if they want it.
  2. And when the bill comes? Just let your husband fight it out with the other bar girls? Doesn't sound like a great way to "gain face".
  3. Why, though? She wanted bar girls to spend time with her and her husband?
  4. Aren't "lady drinks" fake drinks that men are required to "buy" in order to pay for the company of bar girls? Why would his wife be buying "lady drinks"? I doubt she works in the bar. Or do you think she was trying to get more money from her husband and into the bar by buying the girls "lady drinks"?
  5. Extreme immaturity, a complete disregard for any kind of safety or fear of consequences, poor educational attitude leading to a lack of training, people never criticising others leading to breath-taking levels of irresponsibility, unwavering belief in fate/luck/magic. Just Thai culture leading to a particular mindset in some.
  6. Absolutely insane. Driving ridiculously fast was the main cause. Whatever they planned and whatever might have changed on the road (e.g. the white SUV might have pulled into the middle lane), they were driving too fast to make any kind of adjustment. Getting shredded between two vehicles is actually one of the more common videos seen on Facebook. Leaving it too late to overtake and going too fast to slowdown and alter course. Driving so fast that the slightest error or hazard would mean a massive collision seems like a standard and fun thing for a lot of Thai drivers. It's not particularly surprising that we see so many incidents like this.
  7. Women basically have an incredible PR department. A lot of men buy the "women are the sensitive, caring, romantic and genuine sex, while men are shallow, gross and use women for sex" line that you see in movies.
  8. Basically, anything that could have made her less desirable. Age, weight, children, emotional baggage, whatever, it's repackaged as a quality that makes her a "real woman". The implication is that the women most men want (young, attractive, pleasant, etc.) are somehow inferior to "real women" and men are weaker if they prefer the former. A pretty standard "controlling men through shame" tactic. Been going on forever.
  9. Hardly an insult. Nah, she was trying to get the jurors to do what she wanted, hence she was arrested. Presumably you want the same thing as her, so you want her to continue.
  10. If you meet people who treat you badly because your wife is poor or has brown skin, it's those people that you want to avoid. He thought a food stand worker was high-class but then it all fell apart once he realised she was low class?
  11. Crazy left-wingers, always lying. 🙄 The woman had a sign saying "Jurors you have an absolute right to acquit a defendant according to your conscious", so literally trying to pressure the jurors to deliver the verdict she wanted in the case being tried.
  12. I wonder if Thunberg has experienced any psychological problems from being famous for five minutes then suddenly completely irrelevant? It seemed like she was "the voice of her generation" when she gave her "how dare you?!" speech. Now nobody cares.
  13. I shan't disagree, per se, but I would offer that foreign men do genuinely find these women very attractive, even if they are considered repulsive by locals. And if a guy finds a girl that he thinks is perfectly sexy and beautiful, who cares what other people think? It sounds like a major advantage if nobody else wants her. (Men don't think like women.)
  14. These are probably the types that are looking for a reason to fight someone anyway, especially where alcohol is involved. They'd probably have had a problem with you and your friends, even if no women were involved. They'd just change it to rich and entitled.
  15. Are there any? Perhaps there are only prolific or infamous posters, and those who are less so.
  16. At the end of the day, they're prostitutes. Prostitutes (and most women who sleep with men easily or have had many sexual partners) tend to make bad serious relationship prospects.
  17. Seems like you've immediately ruled out the posters that anyone would like to see in such an event.
  18. Just my opinion, but given the fact that most Thais pair-up at high school or uni, plus the fact that Thai women generally like to stick to Thai men, the ones that end up with foreign guys aren't going to be ones that would want to go with Thai men in the first place. Even if they aren't prostitutes/divorced/single mothers, they're still the type to not want a Thai guy, due to not likening the way women are treated in relationships with Thai men, or some similar reason. I just can't imagine, currently, educated and well off Thai men, who would be looking to pair-up with educated Thai women with good economic prospects, being in any position to be adopting a "bloody foreigners, coming over here, taking our women" kind of viewpoint.
  19. You really can't rely on prices or businesses to have any sort of logic or reliability in Thailand. It should be that a high-end outlet has higher quality things but they are a higher price, while somewhere like a market should have lower quality items but at a lower price. However, I've seen toiletries that were more expensive in a market, and I've seen electronics that were more expensive in a high-end store, but were the same cheap stuff you find in a market.
  20. Actually, a lot of Western countries treat foreigners more leniently than locals.
  21. He seemed to know exactly where the phone was before he entered the restaurant as well.
  22. It sounds like it comes down to the following: 1, Streaming meant there isn't enough money in movies due to no DVD release. 2, Pleasing shareholders and studios scared to take risks. 3, Way too much exposure of celebrities due to social media reducing their appeal. 4, "The message" being injected into movies and making them "lame and gay".
  23. Can you name the speed, though? It sounds pretty impractical. You're getting into the realms of riding at walking speed. Remember that the speeds of the two vehicles combine as well.
  24. I'm pretty sure people riding pedal bikes often go over the handlebars when they hit something. I doubt he can answer my question and I don't believe that is a reliable rule of thumb. Whilst everyone should, of course, be riding at a speed suitable for the road conditions, I don't think it is reasonable to expect people to be riding at a speed where they can always stop safely should someone suddenly pull out from a side street without looking and into their path (no matter how common that is in Thailand).
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