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And my point is that you are wrong. So now you're saying that if you claim that an 18 year old could find an older guy attractive that you must be the same as someone who had sex with minors? You're being pretty pathetic now, tbh. It's fine to disagree with someone, but to say "agree with me or be labelled the same as a man who has sex with minors" is very low. It suggests that you lack any kind of objectivity on this subject. Probably some feelings you don't like inside you somewhere. If you can't discuss something rationally and politely, you probably shouldn't bother.
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Probably mum isn't attractive anymore but dad still has income.
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Man Arrested for Attempted Robbery and Assault at Mall Car Park
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
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It's kind of funny. If this was a 20 year old guy and an 18 year old girl, no one would be asking this, and they probably wouldn't meet the parents for months, but because there is an age gap, suddenly he has to seek the parents' permission before even considering dating the girl. I bet if she wanted to go out and sleep around at the weekend, no one would ask about her parents' input then. There's just this weird resistance when it comes to older guys being able to sleep with younger women. Western women have these guys really well trained. They'd probably be more angry at and older guy marrying a girl than they would a young guy dating her and treating her badly.
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Not all women are this predatory, even with a big age difference. They get access to money and the things it provides, they don't all need to be paid directly. Just living rent free in an apartment, having the food and bills taken care of, getting a decent education for their half-Western kids, and being lifted into a higher social class, is a pretty big draw for a lot of women.
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People clearly get very upset about older men being with younger women. I assume its a little bit social conditioning and a little bit jealousy. It's one of those situations where people convince themselves that something is bad, likely because they want it but can't have it. Cognitive dissonance means they cannot accept reality, even where people bring up their real life experiences. The fact is, Thailand is very different to back home, and relationships are a lot more about what each partner can provide (and older guys seem to be a good prospect in Thailand). You only have to look at how many very unattractive men have nice looking girlfriends in Thailand. Also, women are very different to men and find different things attractive. If Western societies didn't control men so strictly, there would probably be a lot more older guys with younger girls.
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There are a lot of miserable men who have/had all of these "sameness" boxes ticked. Some are miserable because it all fell apart. Some are miserable because they're still with the woman in question. At the same time, there are foreign men who are very happily married to Thai women 10, 20 or 30 years younger than them. I think you're overestimating the importance of those things in a relationship and underestimating the importance of money, in both cultures. (The Thai girl is only with him for his money, sure, but do Western women marry or stay with broke Western men?)
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He probably can find a woman of his own age in his country. The problem is that's all he can find.
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