JensenZ

So you apply your limited range of thinking to all Thai females? That isn't very respectful to my girl, all Thai girls, and me. Having lived IN Thailand for nearly 20 years, I've learnt quite a bit about dating. My lady is early 30's and has a 6-day-a-week job at a 5* hotel. She has a university education and has managed to buy an apartment, a car and a motorcycle through hard work all her life. I'm the first foreigner she has dated, so she hasn't been near people like you who think all ladies are whores and ready to be bought. She has no children. Was I lucky? Yes and no, because I have a specific type of partner that I seek. They don't fall into your lap, especially in Pattaya. I've met several women who work their asses off doing regular (non-sexual) work. They can be found.

If no car, the options are fewer.

Enlarged prostates do that too... which of course is a very common affliction. It would be impossible to find a toilet anywhere along Beach Road unless you were close to a shopping mall.

In the article, they are talking about safeguarding the environment, when thousands of diseased soi dogs are relieving themselves all over Pattaya.

Yet the OP claims he is intelligent. Both D and R intelligent dates would tell him where to go.

It happened in Phuket, but it's a non-event. It's just drunk young tourists being stupid. It's no reflection on anything at all. If there's any difference from years ago, it's because everyone has a video recorder/camera in their pocket, and social media to post it on.

This is getting nowhere - let's move on...

You seem like a really fun person to date. Most intelligent women would fire you on the spot.

I read this post while lying beside my beautiful young Thai girlfriend, who is not interested in who I vote for. Thanks to the OP for reminding me why I love Thailand.

You're a bit slow - porn is one of the main reasons why Japanese men aren't interested in meeting real women anymore, and the population growth is below replacement level. This has been well documented. Weren't you supposed to be in Japan by now...when are you leaving?

No, I said what I said and that's all.

You're saying that with expectations that other people might agree with you. You've got this distorted view of Pattaya. You think it's all about bars and nothing else. There is no better place to live.

Thailand attracts approximately 35 million tourists a year. Why would anyone be surprised that there might be some crazy ones among them? You're getting the wrong impression due to a few reports of what "Netizens" are saying, whoever they might be, and they're drawing attention to a few cases - a drop in the bucket.

It isn't difficult for "normal men" to live here, and what this ass did won't change a thing. make it more difficult.

This incident happened in Thailand. Thai law and the Thai language are used in court. They won't be debating the meaning of English descriptive words. Groping in one country might well be called sexual assault in another. Thailand is quite conservative regarding intimate behaviour in public (unless you are in a bar district).

You seem to have missed a critical point in this "huge pantomime", as you call it. He admitted he had done this to other women many times. That's reason enough to take him out of circulation and lock him up for a while so that other men don't get the idea you can do this in Thailand. A judge will decide unless they solve it through a court-appointed mediator, in which case he will be giving the women a sizable paycheck. It's an insult to the girl, but an even bigger insult to Thai women and even Thailand as a whole.... that you can treat Thai women like this. I call for the death penalty.😁

Why is it preposterous? Every country has their own interpretation of what constitutes sexual assault.

Try doing that to a stranger in Poland. This guy is beyond stupid. Refusing to apologize and suggesting he did nothing illegal was even more stupid. It is sexual assault and he'll probably get some jail time.

Yes, a failed marriage and unsuccessful love stories are probably why many men take bar girls for girlfriends or marry them. Loneliness and heartbreak are powerful motivators. Good luck in repurposing a bargirl into a life partner. Maybe there's some hope that "everything is reversible". It's usually newbies who try that.

Not many at all. Sex work makes the girls lazy to do low-paid (by comparison) real jobs. Sex work changes girls in irreversible ways. If you want to find a good one, you must put in some effort. They won't just fall in your lap.

You don't need to learn Thai because most good girls who are smart, are dedicated to learning English. Times have changed as we now have translators in our pockets. To learn enough Thai to be able to communicate at a deeper level (which is required in a real relationship) would take years of dedicated study. I don't speak Thai and have no problems communicating with non-English speaking Thai ladies.

Why don't dating apps work for you? When a foreigner dates a Thai girl, that has little to do with Thai dating culture. You're not dating the way two Thai people will date. It's a different game entirely. It's dating at an accelerated pace. I've met some amazing ladies using dating apps. I adore Thai women. If you meet the right one, the level of dedication to her partner is unparalleled in my opinion. Let's use modern technology to our advantage and make life much easier by using dating apps. My latest example (from a dating app): I'm 65 and I met a 33-year-old slim and attractive lady with no children and a good job who owns her own apartment, a car and a motorcycle, in Pattaya. She was lonely after splitting with her Thai boyfriend over a year ago. First meeting: I picked her up after work, had a meal, and had some drinks, then, she went home. 2nd night she stayed at my place. A few nights later it was all in. They can be a little nervous if it's their first time with a foreigner. Once they trust you, you could have the experience of a lifetime. I had a lot of experience in the Philippines, but Thai girls are on a different level. If you play your cards right, you can meet amazing Thai women on dating apps. Just be sure to stay clear of any women who are or who have ever been involved in the sex industry. There is usually a compromise that they won't speak any or little English so you need to be skilled at using the translator. I prefer clean, good women who don't speak English. As long as they're smart, they will pick up Engish fairly quickly and they are happy to have someone to learn it from. It can take some effort to find what you're looking for. I had some bad (short) relationships too, but it's all a learning experience. I made bad choices. You probably need to fail a few times to learn the ropes. I went on many dates, probably something like 40 or so, but this can be quite enjoyable if you're not afraid to fail. If you're living in Pattaya, perhaps more than 90% are freelancers, massage or bar girls, so you have to be diligent in your selection. If you're in Bangkok, it's easier to find women who have "real" jobs.

"no queues or waiting"? What about 4 hours before departure? Is that not waiting? You get to the airport 4 hours early to avoid queues or waiting? That was quite funny. You're waiting for the check-in counters to open.

Your last sentence IS disinformation and part of a nasty political campaign by a bunch of sore losers. You need to get over it and accept he's the president now. The campaign is over. Find another hobby.

OMG, there is never a bad time for a lecture from a holier-than-thou expat. I'm an antinatalist, so I don't think anyone should have children, including Patong2021 who thinks he's the world's best father.