JensenZ

I don't suppose you've discovered the difference between making love and f***king. Your system might be ok for a young stud (been there done that), but as you get older, you need more from a woman than just a "whole". You should try finding a partner that likes to be with you, without payment. You don't typically find them where you're pulling them from. I seriously could not afford ladies-of-the-night at the rate they charge and the frequency I'm doing it LOL. I've had girlfriends and serious partners from all over the world, but I've never experienced anything near the dedication of my current Thai girlfriend.

Who wouldn't be hot wearing a uniform like that at this time of year?

I don't even need to see the AQI numbers. I opened my slide door this morning (in Pattaya near the beach) and the air stunk as it has for several weeks. We're in the worst time of the year now. We get both stinking hot weather and foul air, at the same time. But what's the point of worrying or complaining about it? Nothing will change as it has most to do with prevailing winds and weather this time of year. Even if Thailand could help a bit, you've still got Cambodia and Laos to the east sending over vast quantities of smog or smaze. The best option for people concerned about their health is to move to a country with clean air. The Philippines is mostly green on the AQI scale as long as you stay out of the major cities.

This is true and the reason why most presidents rarely make any headway as they are too concerned about poll results, which in most cases are meaningless.

If you're with a woman you can't let out of your sight, you've chosen the wrong one. I'd have no worries sending mine on a one-month vacation. I'd trust her more than I'd trust myself LOL.

They must keep running the SETV program to handle tourists from nations not on the 60-country list.

Here you go with that "funky smell" narrative again LOL, something I've never noticed on either side and also something I've never seen mentioned until I came across a post of yours in another thread. You probably came across some smelly ones, and assumed they are all the same. Regarding cheating, if you choose a bar girl, sex is business and they need to be paid. Why would you expect a girl with extensive sexual experience to be faithful? You're being compared with dozens or maybe hundreds of other men. That would include younger studs that older expats could not match. There's a very good chance you're boring by comparison. You might be smelly yourself. It's far more likely a sweaty expat is smelly than the girls. If you choose a non-bargirl who hasn't been around you shouldn't have a problem, as long as they are with you for love and not money. I've never had a problem with Thai girls or Filipinas cheating on me. I'm talking about serious partners here.

Geez, you had a bad run. Filipino ladies don't like to shag because they are hung up on religion? LOL. This is nonsense. Maybe 50 years ago, but young ladies these days can't wait to start and in my experience, can't get enough. The Catholic religion might dominate the country's laws, but not their behaviour. Hong Kong is the wrong place to learn about Filipinos because most Filipinos there are older age maids who are working to support their families back at home, and are badly treated there too. Filipinas are "not very sexy"? Well, they vary on both sides. Take a look at the Miss Universe and other beauty pageants. The Philippines and Thailand are usually in the top 10, with The Philippines taking more titles. You haven't seen my ex-wife. Even in Thailand, the Thai males were running after her. There is one major difference. Thai girls spend a lot more on cosmetics and surgery; on their faces, especially their noses, and other areas. Good surgery is much cheaper and more accessible to the average girl. Thai girls, in general, use a lot more makeup and are more skilled at applying it. Sexually, they are just as good on both sides of the South China Sea, with individual variations of course. I would not insult either nationality by trying to draw comparisons. I've never had a Filipino gf or partner who was hung up about sex or considered it to be a dirty act. I'm very happy with my current Thai GF, but I've been more than satisfied with Filipinos too. I'm sure you're right and Indonseans are great too, but I'll not be going Muslim for reasons of personal safety.

I agree, don't do it. If one day they pull you up on it, then worry about it - that's probably years down the track, or never. With the frequent changes of government, parties and leaders in Thailand, someone might wake up and decide that they shouldn't hurt the golden goose, and be done with this insanity which provides potential expats around the world incentive to find other places to retire.

I won't beat around the bush. I was married to a Filipino 29 years my junior, and this had nothing to do with money. Now my Thai girlfriend is 32 years younger, and it is also not about money. I know this is true because I don't have much, lol. Bear in mind that both of them are now in their 30s, which means they are mature adults. You should open your mind a bit to possibilities. When I'm with my younger lady, we don't think of our ages, and ladies in their 30s already think they are getting old and they don't mind the age gap at all. I've seen recent photos of my old Western girlfriends and thank my lucky stars. It would be bordering on absurd if a 60-plus expat living in Thailand was looking for a lady his age. There's no need for single men to date women their age in Thailand. We can leave that task for the men back at home.

OK, the "delusional dotard" would like to interject here. I've lifted all my life and even the younger ladies appreciate an older guy with a muscular physique. It's one of the reasons I don't have to pay girls half my age to touch me LOL,

This gentleman is not delusional at all. He's probably more honest and realistic than the people who are criticizing him on this forum.

Thank you. I've had, in relationships and P4P more than I'd care to admit, and they smell fine as long as they shower every day and have good personal hygiene. Most are fastidious about personal hygiene. They like to wear clean clothes and present well, and no complaints about Thai women either. I like both, and both smell great. i.e. don't smell.

So you've had 2 Filipinos (whatever that means - i.e. relationship or P4P) of 48 kg, and you're now an expert on the different smell of Filipino vs Thai women. Your test group was very small. I've never had any problem with smell in either country, but let's be realistic. Some people smell and some don't. It's personal hygiene that counts, not what country they come from. Maybe you smell bad too?

Thai girls are Asian, so I'm not sure what you mean. What "Asian girls" are you referring to?

I've not had a girlfriend over 45kg (my Filipino wife was around 40 - 42kg), Thai or Filipino, so I cannot speak to the smell of bigger women. I don't know about Filipinos being fatter though. Maybe you haven't been on the dating circuit recently, but finding a slim girl (for a relationship, not a sexual encounter) was not so easy in Thailand. Most of the ladies in their 30s and 40s are single mothers and what I would consider overweight. Of course, if you hang out in go-go bars, you'll see a lot of slim girls, but often they are slim due to calorie restriction and will soon blow up when fed properly. What people eat will influence how they smell. You probably have a hypersensitive nose and it's their diets that make the difference.

That's good advice. Thank you!

I'm not interested in reading links. I judge you on what you say here, not on Googled links to understand your context. Don't be lazy.

Ok, so I must apologize for giving you the wrong impression. I don't think you're special but don't be disheartened because I also don't think I'm special. I don't care what anonymous people have to say about me, and neither should you. Don't take this back-and-forth banter too seriously. Peace! Have a good day!

Read up about what? I have nothing to learn, but you're clueless. You're envious of people with good physiques, hence your need to make stupid, disparaging comments. I started my "gym-rat" days at age 15, 50 years ago. For 40 years in public gyms and 10 years in a private, well-equipped home gym. I have trained in public gyms in many countries on 5 continents. I can't count how many gyms I've trained in.

No, I didn't mean to give you the impression that I think you're a cut above. I don't think you're above anyone else here, but your comments about being super clean and never P4P'ing give the impression that you THINK you're special.

Having partaken on both sides of the South China Sea, I've never noticed a different smell. Maybe you have an ultrasensitive nose, but I've found clean ones on both sides are odourless. My Filipino wife was clean to excess and never had a smell, nor did others who came before her. She would complain about how I smelled though LOL. I'm sure a 65-year-old has more problems with smell than ladies in their 20s or 30s. At some point, we take on an old-person smell.

Come on man! You've shared the toilet habits of your ex-Muslim girl, to a very personal level. Where do you P4Pin Thailand? You're trying to give this impression that you're a cut above, by suggesting that you never pay for it, and then expect everyone here to believe you. I've been in several exclusive relationships, and I'm in one currently, but I've done plenty of "playing" in the past and in between. If you can afford it, it can be a very exciting way to live. You don't have to make excuses; stop the BS and get out and enjoy it. You only live once, and your "brother" will probably retire before you expire. I'm sure if I was still dating Western women my age, my "brother" would have retired long ago.

This is your second reply to my reply, so I'll reply once to both of your comments. You made a thing about your partner being Muslim, even adding that she was not a practising Muslim and that she was ultra-clean. It gives the impression that you think Muslims are cleaner than most. Using public hand basins in public toilets to wash your ass after defecating is disgusting anti-social behaviour. I don't think further explanation is necessary.

You're the "disillusioned dotard" suggesting that everybody's situation is the same. I knew there would be some "dotard" commenting as you did when I made my post. My Thai girlfriend is half my age (33), has no children, has a good job, works 6 days a week, owns a car, motorcycle, and an apartment, has a university degree, and doesn't cost me a dime. Even better, she has never had a foreign partner before me, just one Thai partner. I've never had such a dedicated girlfriend in my life, of any nationality. There's a reason for this. I've been in Thailand for 20 years, and know how to find independent women. Finding a good partner takes a lot of effort, trial and error. The only negative is that she doesn't speak much English. Good English speakers have normally had too much experience with dotards such as you who think the only way to get a Thai woman to touch you is to pay. I've had women in their 40s paying for dinner when we go out, in expensive restaurants. There are a lot of lonely Thai women looking for real relationships who will make dedicated partners. Thai women have no hangups about sex either. I would ask her if she would like to go to the bedroom to "play". She replies "up to you" LOL. The golden rule is to never "date" a woman who has ever been a sex worker, but that rule applies to Farangland too.