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1 hour ago, rumak said:
OMG ................. you wouldn't believe how many simps and cucks I have seen following their prized
hens around these past years . If what I observe in Thailand is indicative of what goes on in the West ....oh boy !
I DO see it on american movies and television as well. And let''s not forget the "senstitive" guys who give the dying breed of real men who post here the sad and confused emojis. Those guys bought into the PC krap because let's face it...... they couldn't score without it.
That’s because it’s the only way they know how to get laid - once every month or so.
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54 minutes ago, rumak said:
I certainly am not a male supremacist type . If i have a repair and some lady can do a better job than i can, i will certainly step aside and hold her lip gloss.
What ever happened to "strong and sensitive" ? I'll tell you, I really get "sensitive" when a sweet smile from a lady turns into a manipulate weapon , and is replaced with a pouting or complaining attitude. Forget it !
Sure, they can walk away knowing there are "simps and cucks" waiting to play their game.
No problem............. I have done just fine over my years .
Equal rights sounds great to me. Isn't that what the feminists demand? Ha ha! they would run
away when i told them i expected them to put effort into helping out . I never understood why they would cry when asked to leave ?
Here are 2 pics of a real woman ! grew up helping pops.
Kudos to you rumak on raising two fine young ladies. Just a wild guess…but they got most of their good looks from mom, am I right? ????
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4 minutes ago, Magenta408 said:
This is another cock-a-mania scheme. There have been too many Grand Poobahs voicing their views and they are NOT qualified and have no experience.
This is the sort of thing that is driving mistrust in the people, when the gov't does this sort of thing, IMO.
It's hard not to imagine red bags and brown envelopes being exchanged on a large scale between the Thai elite and the Chinese.
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15 hours ago, JimGant said:
Many other countries are showing interest in this approach, as the potential benefit seems to outweigh any potential harm.... What's to lose in this madhouse environment?
Had a Sinovac jab two weeks ago, and will have an AstraZeneca jab next week. Will let you know if I grow a second penis.
The fact that you don’t know if you’ll grow one or not is concerning by itself.
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7 hours ago, sawadee1947 said:
Difference to what?
My only questions are: What is a Hymer? Why should I care?
Why should anybody care, for that matter???
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I have no problem answering and until such time as it’s required by law or a tracking chip has been inserted, or even until such time as I’ve opted to get vaccinated, my answer will be the same: NOYFB!!!
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3 hours ago, FarangULong said:
That's because the average to attractive ones are busy riding the male chicken carousel in their 20s, and their level of attractiveness goes down hill fast in their 30s + they're getting panicked about needing to find "quality men" (as in the type she ignored or never even acknowledged their existance, when she was in her teens and 20s, that can provide for her all the <deleted> she doesn't need but wants, who's easy to control and manipulate, and easy to distract so her personal trainer or hwatever can smash on the side).
Then with the whole lighting and make up tutorials available, wonderbras, tight, revealing clothes and plenty of simps willing to call girls that are barely average even WITH all those tricks "LIEK OMG SHE'S SO HOT" on various social media, to feed her ego non stop, they then feel they're owed more than they're really "worth".
Creating highly unreasonable expectations for themselves/their future man... basically the majority of women thinking they're fit to compete for the top 10-1% of men.
Stuff like tinder allowing the top % of men to order them up like fast food, and afterwards they're bitter and wonder why he didn't stick around. Quick to spread their legs on there and after the club, etc. yet the "quality men" later are going to be made to wait, because "am I not worth waiting for?".
Makes me both sad and angry for/at most guys, at the same time. Not that I'm top 10%. I'm not. But I'm not the average guy either, in certain respects, so I don't have to nor will I ever beg, humiliate myself, etc. for any woman. Even if it sometimes does lead to stretches of no kitty, but whatever. My dignity is more important to me, than trying to scratch my itch.
Of course not all of them are like that. But more and more are becoming that way, the ones that already are feel the need to drag down the ones who aren't, because misery loves company (lots of future very angry, lonely cat ladies in the making, as I'm typing this).
And because "cool culture" like this almost always spill over from the West to everywhere else, you're seeing the same phenomenom everywhere else, albeit for now to a lesser degree.
I guess you were lucky iwth yours, since a lot of Chinese women are quite heartless as well, or rather their heart is a cash register. Or maybe that's just the mainlanders, I can't say I've met Taiwan women before, met a couple Sino Thais though. But their culture is more middle/upper class Thai, and not Chinese, so that doesn't count...
Just another long-winded bunch of hot air by FarangULong-time...
Did you really need to use so many words? All you needed to say (at least all I got from your 2nd rant of the day) how little you think of women. As far as your comments re: Chinese women, I'm going to chalk it up to the fact (one you've made quite clear) that you think so poorly of women perhaps, because you're in the business of pursuing the wrong kind or maybe you've been rejected too many times or you're bitter because you can't find the kind of woman you think you deserve.
Again, not sure, don't care.
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3 hours ago, FarangULong said:I agree with that part, but the rest is merely a bunch of high minded sounding "stuff". I didn't read every single reply, but I did read most of them, and I didn't see anyone laughing at him, or saying "mean things" for no reason.
Some men just need to be told directly, that the situation they're in sounds toxic and definitely not normal, natural, whatever.
The guy has been trying for the last 6 years, and finally has had to ask on a forum for help, which is already a pretty low point... wouldn't you agree?
At what point is enough enough? I don't think this is salvageable, I think he should've drawn the line years ago, and imo the best he can do is get away from the situation.
It even sounds a lot like he wouldn't be happy, even IF the wife wasn't so distant and putting out. I'm not super social myself, but I'd go batcrap crazy, if I spent years with very little social contact outside the wife, kid and occasional phone calls to old friends' back home, who are so removed that they won't take time away from their golf game to give you a little support.
The situation as a whole sounds toxic and unhealthy. The whole wife being distant and not being intimate etc. is just the icing on the cake, and the final deal breaker.
He should try to salvage what little he can, which is that she gets as little as possible, figure out whether she has cheated or not (just so maybe he will recognize situations that were odd/didn't make sense in the past, but he let them go at the time, and so he can therefore recognize the signs faster next time around), figure out if the kid is his or not (the worst part imo), and then figure out IF he wants to be in the kid's life, especially considering it does seem that while he's physically there, he's not in the kid's life at all.
Then again maybe he is, and he just left out that part, but it doesn't sound like it.
But hey, if you want to be in a loveless situation like this for years and years, waste some of your best (or not so great anymore, depending on how old/healthy he is, but years are years...) years on a person that doesn't seem to be making any effort in turn either, then good for you.
And just maybe don't presume what the motives of people posting in here are, just so you can feel better about yourself and what sort of man you are/because you happen to disagree with them....
Do you feel better now? Sorry if I touched a 'nerve', tough guy, but if you want to talk about "a bunch of high minded "stuff"", re-read your own rant.
I hate to break it to you, but you're not the ultimate expert in male and female relationships, certainly not as far as I'm concerned. So if you want to dish out your "tough love" approach, that's fine, why don't you dish it to the OP, because I didn't ask for, nor do I want or need your advice.
Not sure what your problem is, you do seem to have one, but don't come at me, dude. Maybe you read one of my other posts and got peeved about something - not sure, don't care.
Also, I didn't have to read every post before I wrote what I wrote, which was something to comfort someone who is obviously down and seemed like he needed cheering up. All I had to see was the 8 laughing emoji's in response to the OP's opening dissertation to know that some people on here are jerks - not all, but some. So back-off and go take a chill pill, BUDDY!
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2 hours ago, millymoopoo said:
Still a bit of a drive from 'Dali' country, but well worth spending a few days there, all along that coast from Brest to St Brieuc is very spectacular, Plougeurneau (the lighthouses) Kergouan, Roscoff, Tregastel, Perros-Guirec, Plougrescant, Sillon de Talbert, Ile de Brehat, Paimpol, Binic, and dozens of places inbetween, take your camera and don't forget spare batteries..!
Thanks, noted and I'll add it to my EU bucket list!
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2 hours ago, BritManToo said:I've come to believe all relationships are limited before they go bad.
I'm attracted to women in their early 30's, but not attracted at all to women over 40.
Therefore the best relationship I can find is limited to less than 10 years.
After my first marriage I met literally hundreds of women online. And came to a similar conclusion re: age range. The ones in their 20’s were too volatile and I found most women in their late 30’s and above demanded more than they were worthy of and were too serious to the point of being boring.
My Chinese wife is 49 now, we’ve been married 10+ years and other than our size we are a perfect match (she barely comes up to my shoulders and is a little more than 1/3 my size). I’ve never been treated so well by anyone and we both never get tired of each other. I know some of this has been luck, but most of it was because I knew what I wanted after my first marriage. Plus I took my time by meeting many women online and that really helped me narrow down the field to get what I needed in a partner.
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48 minutes ago, BritManToo said:
Disagree,
I've been married to a Brit virgin schoolteacher (degree), and to a Thai bar girl (left school age 12).
Both were equally unfaithful, both were looking for free houses.
The Thai bar girl was much nicer in every way imaginable.
Living with a woman is always trouble, up to you to limit the trouble.
I agree that things can go south, because you can never really know the other person's deepest thoughts. Or maybe sometimes we as men are too stubborn to see the obvious red flags. I am speaking in general terms here, so it may not apply to every case, such as yours.
To say that living with a woman is always trouble, well that's a bit extreme for me to agree with. Relationships have to be a two-way street with equal give and take, IMO. Otherwise the ugly truth will one day reveal itself.
Rigidity doesn't work with most women - or in relationships in general - long term, IMO.
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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:
Agree, it's not 'typical Thai' but 'typical woman'.
I find it’s more a matter of the kind of company one keeps, in my experience.
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2 hours ago, jomtienisgood said:
NE Spain, is that Barcelona, Palafrugell, Figueras??????
I live in Logrono, we moved here about 2 weeks ago from Hua Hin.
We’re an hour SW of Pamplona.
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1 hour ago, actonion said:
Very well educated,?....not in this country
Perhaps, but then I never said which country.
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1 hour ago, millymoopoo said:
The prize is: now you know where it is.
Well worth a visit when next you're in north western France.
And congrats to Daffy D for starting this 'good vibes' thread.
Since I live in NE Spain, that pretty much puts me in driving distance.
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15 hours ago, AnotherFarang8 said:
This is why no self-respecting man should date a jealous woman. She will think of him as her property, deprive him of any freedom and make his life hell. Stay away from jealous women if you want to be your own master.
I know, huh? The nerve of his wife to take offense at him trying to have another woman move in the home, while she is still living there…sheesh.
I think you would make great marriage counselor.
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On 8/15/2021 at 2:43 PM, RichardColeman said:
You already said you have no friends in the City and live in the other room.
Condos to rent are cheap now. Better on your own than in a loveless marriage.
My first Thai wife was a little like your lady - I was really sick once, and she treated my sickness like helping a asset rather than a husband. I divorced her, married a school teacher from Nan that is the complete opposite and very happy now for six years.
Get out, start again - not exactly a shortage of women in Thailand
Hopefully the OP will be able to carry what he learns this time around into his next relationship with eyes wide open, resulting in a different outcome, similar to your situation.
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Has there ever been any intimacy or a relationship that had an ounce of caring between you and your wife? (I can't recall if you addressed that in your original post from a few days ago). Do you and your wife do things together and do you function as a team on some level? Probably a dumb question, I know...
I'm certainly no expert, but if you feel there is something salvageable there or worth trying to save then give it a shot, for yourself and for your child - hell, even for your wife. Sounds like you may want to seek professional help if you can. I'm not a big fan of psychology, but it might help if you can talk things out with your wife in front of someone who can moderate/facilitate a productive discussion that might help get things back on track. Don't expect any miracles or that it will be easy.
If you do decide to give it a shot, I hope it works out for you, but whatever you do don't be miserable in a relationship just for your child, they will grow up exposed to a household full of spite - and that is much worse than them growing up without you being there 100% of the time.
I really wish you luck and I feel for you, it seems like you are in a very tough spot, but you'll get through it, no matter what happens.
Also: Please try and tune out any of the cruel people on here (you know the ones who might be laughing at your pain and saying mean things that are of no value) - they're the ones with the problem, not you. Some here will give you good advice and others, well not so much or not at all, but they don't matter.
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17 hours ago, Thailand said:
They did not look shamed.
Teaching yoga?
What visa is that then?
Western backpackers, tent mongers and hostel hoppers with no regard for anyone but themselves, nothing more than a bunch of spreaders who are out to "save the planet" and get high. The real "Cheap Charlie's / Charlene's." if there ever were any.
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6 hours ago, Golden Triangle said:
The guy is a d*** of the highest order ????
You need a couple more asterisks if you're going to represent the word 'douche'.
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With covid it's been feast or famine. It must be tough going from being able to consume more hotdogs than Joey Chestnut in one evening to having no hotdogs at all.
I can't even imagine what that must be like...
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22 minutes ago, BritManToo said:
There's plenty of 15 year old boys that would disagree with you.
Yeah, well point taken and I may have been one of those 15 year old boys back in the day, but I was talking about those out of touch 60+ers who have the delusion that a 13 year old girl enjoys being ridden by one of them.
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1 hour ago, clivebaxter said:
Completely wrong nobody can legally marry a 13 year old girl in Thailand, or have sex with them- that's a dangerous falsehood to spread about.
Far be it from me to judge, but anyone who thinks it’s cool or okay to have sex with a 13 year-old is one messed up <deleted>.
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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:
You think ...... those in the Thai medical profession are very well educated.
I think ............. anyone who had the money to pay the course fees passed.
As for intelligence, I'm in the top 0.3% of the world.
Here’s what I think… most who go through 4-6 years of medical school deserve some benefit of the doubt. Whether it be for animals or human medicine. I’m not sure what you’re trying to say/prove.
As far as your self-proclaimed level of intelligence, okay fine, whatever. Doesn’t mean SHlT to me though.
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'We don't know if we'll survive': Thailand sex workers left struggling as COVID-19 lockdown drags on
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You’ve described to a ‘T’ what I hate most about western women - particularly those in the US. I’ve lived and worked in every major US city and I can tell you firsthand California/west coast women are probably the worst, followed by the southern princesses, IMO. Then just keep going down the list chronologically until you reach the midwestern girls, who’re at the bottom.