What do you mean by pathetic? Nothing open, or the people?
I remember living up there in Nimm 10 years ago. I never really had a good time in the clubs up there. It always felt strange being there like I was trying to pick up on Thai college students on a night out or something or that people were watching what I was doing.
Much more comfortable in the foreigner bars in the old city and that scene. Could be just that I was older and it was a younger crowd ????♂️ that I did not have much in common with.
Try Monkey Club if it's still open, or Warm Up, or that complex of places on the left as you head towards the airport. Live music, dancing, DJ's. What else do you need? There should be club like/drinking places all along the side streets. If that feels weird, it's probably the crowd that's not right.