Really so how does the state pay for those services? Show me 1 socialist state where there are no taxes or money
The state doesn't "pay" for any services. It provides them through the actions of its citizens.
I don't think any states are providing true socialism. Most states, including the USA and Thailand, have a Keynesian economy, which is a mix of capitalism and socialism. For example, in the USA, any service which is called a "public" service is socialistic. Examples are public schools, public libraries, public streets, public parks, etc. Capitalistic services are usually called "private" services. It's the percentages of the mix of capitalism and socialism that are typically the source of arguments.